It occupies a special place in game analysis because it was the original stimulus for the concept of games.
The agent presents a problem and others start presenting solutions. Agent objects and all the others give up feeling bad.
Nowadays is a punitive parental pastime (Ex : Juvenile delinquency). Broken Skin is an adult variation with the slogan “what a pity”. Water cooler is the child pastime with the slogan “ Look what they are doing to us now”.
The document discusses party games and one game called "Blemish". It provides details about Manu Melwin Joy, the author and research scholar who prepared the document. It states that parties include games as acquaintance grows. It describes Blemish as a game played from a depressive position that provides negative reassurance. It also lists other transactional analysis topics available from the author on slideshare.
Heterosexual perversions such a fetishism, sadism and masochism are symptomatic of a confused child and are treated accordingly. Their transactional aspects as manifested in actual sexual situations can be death with by means of game analysis.
The Schlemiel makes the first move to embarrass the other person. If he shows his anger, schlemiel can feel justified in returning the resentment. If he restrains himself, he can go on enjoying his opportunities. The antithesis is not offering the demanded absolution.
In its milder form, the thesis of “Stupid “ is “ I laugh with you at my own clumsiness and stupidity”. Seriously disturbed people may play it in a sullen way which says “ I am stupid, that is the way I am, so do me something.”
The converse game of frigid women is frigid man is less common, but it takes much the same general course with some variations in details. The final outcomes depends upon the scripts of the parties involved.
This document contains a slide presentation on different types of games people play. It includes summaries of games such as "Good Games", "Busman's Holiday", "Cavalier", "Happy To Help", and "Homely Sage". The presentation was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information at the end. It requests permission to reuse the slides and presents other transactional analysis topics available on slideshare.
Nowadays is a punitive parental pastime (Ex : Juvenile delinquency). Broken Skin is an adult variation with the slogan “what a pity”. Water cooler is the child pastime with the slogan “ Look what they are doing to us now”.
The document discusses party games and one game called "Blemish". It provides details about Manu Melwin Joy, the author and research scholar who prepared the document. It states that parties include games as acquaintance grows. It describes Blemish as a game played from a depressive position that provides negative reassurance. It also lists other transactional analysis topics available from the author on slideshare.
Heterosexual perversions such a fetishism, sadism and masochism are symptomatic of a confused child and are treated accordingly. Their transactional aspects as manifested in actual sexual situations can be death with by means of game analysis.
The Schlemiel makes the first move to embarrass the other person. If he shows his anger, schlemiel can feel justified in returning the resentment. If he restrains himself, he can go on enjoying his opportunities. The antithesis is not offering the demanded absolution.
In its milder form, the thesis of “Stupid “ is “ I laugh with you at my own clumsiness and stupidity”. Seriously disturbed people may play it in a sullen way which says “ I am stupid, that is the way I am, so do me something.”
The converse game of frigid women is frigid man is less common, but it takes much the same general course with some variations in details. The final outcomes depends upon the scripts of the parties involved.
This document contains a slide presentation on different types of games people play. It includes summaries of games such as "Good Games", "Busman's Holiday", "Cavalier", "Happy To Help", and "Homely Sage". The presentation was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information at the end. It requests permission to reuse the slides and presents other transactional analysis topics available on slideshare.
John James has developed the idea that games have real advantages as well as scripty ones. He points out that every game brings a positive payoff as well as a negative payoff. A game represents the child’s best strategy to getting something from the world. When we play games in adulthood, we are attempting to meet a genuine child need. It is just that the means of satisfying that need are outdated and manipulative.
This document discusses how corners can sometimes trigger asthma in children and provides an example of how a mother's avoidance of directly answering her daughter's question of whether she loves her leads the daughter to have an asthma attack. The mother's philosophical response about the meaning of love instead of a direct answer frustrates the daughter, causing her breathing to become labored. The mother then apologizes as the "asthma game" ensues. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information for him as well as a request to seek permission before reproducing the slides.
Sexual games are played to exploit or fight off sexual impulses. These are all perversions of the sexual instincts in which the satisfaction is displaced from the sexual act to the crucial transactions which constitute the payoff of the game.
The document discusses the six advantages of game playing according to Eric Berne. The six advantages are: 1) Internal psychological advantage of maintaining one's beliefs, 2) External psychological advantage of avoiding challenges, 3) Internal social advantage of pseudo-intimate socializing, 4) External social advantage of providing gossip themes, 5) Biological advantage of satisfying needs, and 6) Existential advantage of confirming one's life position. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides their contact information. It requests permission for using the slides.
Damned if you do and damned if you don’t - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
The little boy or girl is urged to be more helpful around the house, but when he is, the parents find fault with what he does – a homely example of “damned if you do and damned if you don’t.”
Dilemma type of corner - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
An everyday form of corner which is played by the whole family and which is most likely to affect the character development of younger child occurs with meddlesome parental parents.
In this game, the husband makes advances to his wife and is repulsed. After repeated attempts, he is told that all men are beasts, he doesn’t really love her and all he is interested is in sex. When he resigns, wife tempts him and the game continues.
Recent graduates present a so called genuine feelings to the group. The reactions of the other members are received very solemnly. A questioning intervention by the therapist may be strongly resented.
Indigents go from agency to agency seeking welfare funds. Even though they are supposed to look for other jobs, they devote actually little time for it and tend to remain in their current position. Antithesis consists in withholding the benefits.
Socially, peasant is played in an innocent and a dissembled form, both with the motto “Gee You are wonderful, Mr. Murgatroyd”. The antithesis for the game is that therapist steadfastly refuses to give advice.
This may be a maneuver, a ritual or a game. In each case, the psychology is feminine. As a maneuver, it is romantic. As a ritual, it is tragic. As a game, it is comic.
The document discusses two consulting room games - "Wooden Leg" and "Games that are tenaciously placed in therapeutic situations". Wooden Leg refers to expecting less from someone due to a perceived disability. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in India, and provides additional transactional analysis topics available on slideshare for further reading. It requests permission for use and reproduction of the slides.
Therapist gives some advice to the client. He returns and reports that the suggestions did not have the desired outcome. The therapist shrugs off this failure with a feeling of resignation and tries again.One day, he cries out in rage “ But I was only trying to help you!”.
Husband exposes the deficiencies of the wife and save her from embarrassment of having to expose them herself. He ends the comment by saying “ Isn’t that right, sweetheart?”.
Weak transactions are those that are superficial, perfunctory and lack feeling of intensity. Such is the case if a wife says to husband, “I wonder if we should go out for dinner tonight”, and he responds “ I don’t care dear. Whatever you say, dear.”
This document summarizes a sexual game called "The Stocking Game" and provides contact information for the author. The Stocking Game involves women exposing themselves to arouse men and provoke other women. It is characterized by exhibitionism and any confrontation is met with claims of innocence. The document also lists other transactional analysis topics and their associated slideshare links.
Origin of process script - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
Why are there only six process themes? Why are they so uniform across cultures? Nobody knows. Finding the answers to these questions is a challenging task for TA research. We do have some idea about how process script is transmitted from parents to children. It seem to be part of the counterscript, passed on mainly by parental modeling.
This is played by a housewife who is proficient in ten or twelve different occupations. The thesis of this game is that she takes on everything that comes and even asks for more. This ultimately results in her burn out and being ready for hospitalized.
This document discusses the concept of the "excluded adult" in transactional analysis. It notes that excluding the adult means switching off the power of reality testing, leaving only an internal parent-child dialogue. It states that people diagnosed as psychotic are often categorized as having an excluded adult. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in management studies, and provides his contact information. It requests permission be sought for public reproduction of the slides.
He is unable to join in the fun. Instead the functions almost solely as a planner, information collector and data processor. They may seek jobs that are object oriented rather than people oriented. Constant Adult often experiences trouble on a job if supervising others is required. With little caring parent or fun loving child, this person’s relationship are likely to be sterile.
John James has developed the idea that games have real advantages as well as scripty ones. He points out that every game brings a positive payoff as well as a negative payoff. A game represents the child’s best strategy to getting something from the world. When we play games in adulthood, we are attempting to meet a genuine child need. It is just that the means of satisfying that need are outdated and manipulative.
This document discusses how corners can sometimes trigger asthma in children and provides an example of how a mother's avoidance of directly answering her daughter's question of whether she loves her leads the daughter to have an asthma attack. The mother's philosophical response about the meaning of love instead of a direct answer frustrates the daughter, causing her breathing to become labored. The mother then apologizes as the "asthma game" ensues. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information for him as well as a request to seek permission before reproducing the slides.
Sexual games are played to exploit or fight off sexual impulses. These are all perversions of the sexual instincts in which the satisfaction is displaced from the sexual act to the crucial transactions which constitute the payoff of the game.
The document discusses the six advantages of game playing according to Eric Berne. The six advantages are: 1) Internal psychological advantage of maintaining one's beliefs, 2) External psychological advantage of avoiding challenges, 3) Internal social advantage of pseudo-intimate socializing, 4) External social advantage of providing gossip themes, 5) Biological advantage of satisfying needs, and 6) Existential advantage of confirming one's life position. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides their contact information. It requests permission for using the slides.
Damned if you do and damned if you don’t - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
The little boy or girl is urged to be more helpful around the house, but when he is, the parents find fault with what he does – a homely example of “damned if you do and damned if you don’t.”
Dilemma type of corner - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
An everyday form of corner which is played by the whole family and which is most likely to affect the character development of younger child occurs with meddlesome parental parents.
In this game, the husband makes advances to his wife and is repulsed. After repeated attempts, he is told that all men are beasts, he doesn’t really love her and all he is interested is in sex. When he resigns, wife tempts him and the game continues.
Recent graduates present a so called genuine feelings to the group. The reactions of the other members are received very solemnly. A questioning intervention by the therapist may be strongly resented.
Indigents go from agency to agency seeking welfare funds. Even though they are supposed to look for other jobs, they devote actually little time for it and tend to remain in their current position. Antithesis consists in withholding the benefits.
Socially, peasant is played in an innocent and a dissembled form, both with the motto “Gee You are wonderful, Mr. Murgatroyd”. The antithesis for the game is that therapist steadfastly refuses to give advice.
This may be a maneuver, a ritual or a game. In each case, the psychology is feminine. As a maneuver, it is romantic. As a ritual, it is tragic. As a game, it is comic.
The document discusses two consulting room games - "Wooden Leg" and "Games that are tenaciously placed in therapeutic situations". Wooden Leg refers to expecting less from someone due to a perceived disability. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in India, and provides additional transactional analysis topics available on slideshare for further reading. It requests permission for use and reproduction of the slides.
Therapist gives some advice to the client. He returns and reports that the suggestions did not have the desired outcome. The therapist shrugs off this failure with a feeling of resignation and tries again.One day, he cries out in rage “ But I was only trying to help you!”.
Husband exposes the deficiencies of the wife and save her from embarrassment of having to expose them herself. He ends the comment by saying “ Isn’t that right, sweetheart?”.
Weak transactions are those that are superficial, perfunctory and lack feeling of intensity. Such is the case if a wife says to husband, “I wonder if we should go out for dinner tonight”, and he responds “ I don’t care dear. Whatever you say, dear.”
This document summarizes a sexual game called "The Stocking Game" and provides contact information for the author. The Stocking Game involves women exposing themselves to arouse men and provoke other women. It is characterized by exhibitionism and any confrontation is met with claims of innocence. The document also lists other transactional analysis topics and their associated slideshare links.
Origin of process script - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
Why are there only six process themes? Why are they so uniform across cultures? Nobody knows. Finding the answers to these questions is a challenging task for TA research. We do have some idea about how process script is transmitted from parents to children. It seem to be part of the counterscript, passed on mainly by parental modeling.
This is played by a housewife who is proficient in ten or twelve different occupations. The thesis of this game is that she takes on everything that comes and even asks for more. This ultimately results in her burn out and being ready for hospitalized.
This document discusses the concept of the "excluded adult" in transactional analysis. It notes that excluding the adult means switching off the power of reality testing, leaving only an internal parent-child dialogue. It states that people diagnosed as psychotic are often categorized as having an excluded adult. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in management studies, and provides his contact information. It requests permission be sought for public reproduction of the slides.
He is unable to join in the fun. Instead the functions almost solely as a planner, information collector and data processor. They may seek jobs that are object oriented rather than people oriented. Constant Adult often experiences trouble on a job if supervising others is required. With little caring parent or fun loving child, this person’s relationship are likely to be sterile.
Try and collect - Life Game - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
Try and Collect (TAC) is a mild money game commonly played by married couples and illustrates how a game is set up so that the player wins whichever way it goes.
This game is the basis of a large proportion of public relations. But the customers are glad to become involved, and it is perhaps the most pleasant and constructive of the commercial games. The choice of HTH removes some of the discredit since thee are so many unpleasant ways of competing available.
This is usually a three handed game. The central role is that of the Alcoholic – the one who is it. The chief supporting role is that of Persecutor, typically played by a member of opposite sex, usually the spouse.
The third role is that of Rescuer, usually played by someone of the same sex.
Courtroom is essentially three handed, with a plaintiff, a defendant and a Judge, represented by a husband, a wife and the therapist. In everyday form, courtroom is easily observed in children as a three handed game between two siblings and a parent.
This is more of a pastime than a game. It becomes a game if work is secondary to some ulterior motive and is undertaken merely as a show in order to accomplish something else. Even under those circumstance, it keeps its constructive quality.
People who have excluded parents will operate with no ready made rules about the world. Instead, they made their own rules afresh in every situation. Politicians, mafia bosses etc fall into this category of excluded parent.
Racket analysis - Transactional Analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Any time your experience a racket feeling, you are in script.
As children, we use racket feeling to get our needs met in families.
We attempt to manipulate the environment so as to gain the parental support we gained in childhood by experiencing and showing these racket feelings.
Types of contract - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
This document discusses two types of contracts used in transactional analysis: business contracts and treatment contracts. A business contract is an agreement between a practitioner and client about payment and administrative arrangements. A treatment contract specifies the changes the client wants to make, what the client will do to help make the changes, what the practitioner will contribute, and how they will measure success. The document also defines a contract as an explicit commitment between two parties to take a defined course of action to achieve specified goals and outcomes.
Contracts for change - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Berne defined a contract as an explicit bilateral commitment to a well defined course of action.
James and Jongeward defined contract as an adult commitment to one’s self and/or someone else to make a change.
Competitive symbiosis - Transactional analysisManu Melwin Joy
This document discusses the concept of competitive symbiosis in transactional analysis. Competitive symbiosis occurs when two people want to take on the same symbiotic role, such as both wanting to be the parent. This can lead to jockeying for position as each tries to insist on fulfilling that role. An example given is two people competing to pay the bill at a restaurant. These exchanges are unstable and will typically end with one person backing down and accepting the complementary role, or both people storming away.
Symbiosis and script - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Thus in ideal parenting, the child’s caretaker will be employing Parent and Adult resources appropriately, while still not discounting her own Child. As the child grows, the parent will provide him with what is needed to complete each stage of development.
Healthy symbiosis - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
1) Healthy symbiosis occurs when people are in a situation where it is appropriate to depend on each other, such as when a nurse comforts a patient who has just come out of anesthesia by holding their hand and reassuring them.
2) In this situation, the patient's adult and parent parts are not functioning due to the anesthesia, so they regress to a childlike state and allow the nurse to care for them and address their current problems.
3) The nurse taking on a supportive parental role in comforting and reassuring the patient is fulfilling their job responsibilities in a healthy symbiotic relationship, in contrast to an unhealthy symbiosis which would involve discounting the other person.
Frame of reference and redefining - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
Frame of reference and the script - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The document discusses the relationship between a person's frame of reference and their script. It states that the script is comprised of the definitions within a person's frame of reference that involve discounts. When a person acts according to their script, they are ignoring the present situation and replaying outdated self-definitions and worldviews from the past that discount aspects of themselves or others. The document provides the example of how a person may replay an old parental message that they cannot think when facing an examination.
Role of parent in frame of reference - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin...Manu Melwin Joy
The parent ego state plays a particularly important part in the formulation of the frame of reference. This is because our frame of reference consists of definitions of the world, self and others.
Frame of reference and ego states - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
As an further aid to understanding the frame of reference, the Schiffs suggest that it can be thought of as a “skin that surrounds the ego states binding them together.
Frame of reference - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
Strategies for Effective Upskilling is a presentation by Chinwendu Peace in a Your Skill Boost Masterclass organisation by the Excellence Foundation for South Sudan on 08th and 09th June 2024 from 1 PM to 3 PM on each day.
LAND USE LAND COVER AND NDVI OF MIRZAPUR DISTRICT, UPRAHUL
This Dissertation explores the particular circumstances of Mirzapur, a region located in the
core of India. Mirzapur, with its varied terrains and abundant biodiversity, offers an optimal
environment for investigating the changes in vegetation cover dynamics. Our study utilizes
advanced technologies such as GIS (Geographic Information Systems) and Remote sensing to
analyze the transformations that have taken place over the course of a decade.
The complex relationship between human activities and the environment has been the focus
of extensive research and worry. As the global community grapples with swift urbanization,
population expansion, and economic progress, the effects on natural ecosystems are becoming
more evident. A crucial element of this impact is the alteration of vegetation cover, which plays a
significant role in maintaining the ecological equilibrium of our planet.Land serves as the foundation for all human activities and provides the necessary materials for
these activities. As the most crucial natural resource, its utilization by humans results in different
'Land uses,' which are determined by both human activities and the physical characteristics of the
land.
The utilization of land is impacted by human needs and environmental factors. In countries
like India, rapid population growth and the emphasis on extensive resource exploitation can lead
to significant land degradation, adversely affecting the region's land cover.
Therefore, human intervention has significantly influenced land use patterns over many
centuries, evolving its structure over time and space. In the present era, these changes have
accelerated due to factors such as agriculture and urbanization. Information regarding land use and
cover is essential for various planning and management tasks related to the Earth's surface,
providing crucial environmental data for scientific, resource management, policy purposes, and
diverse human activities.
Accurate understanding of land use and cover is imperative for the development planning
of any area. Consequently, a wide range of professionals, including earth system scientists, land
and water managers, and urban planners, are interested in obtaining data on land use and cover
changes, conversion trends, and other related patterns. The spatial dimensions of land use and
cover support policymakers and scientists in making well-informed decisions, as alterations in
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Changes in vegetation cover refer to variations in the distribution, composition, and overall
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How to Setup Warehouse & Location in Odoo 17 InventoryCeline George
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A workshop hosted by the South African Journal of Science aimed at postgraduate students and early career researchers with little or no experience in writing and publishing journal articles.
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This presentation includes basic of PCOS their pathology and treatment and also Ayurveda correlation of PCOS and Ayurvedic line of treatment mentioned in classics.
2. Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
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School of Management Studies
CUSAT, Kerala, India.
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Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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3. Party Games
• Parties are for
pastimes but as
acquaintance
ripens, games
begin to emerge.
• Four typical games
which are played in
social situations
are given.
4. Why Don’t You – Yes But
• It occupies a special
place in game analysis
because it was the
original stimulus for the
concept of games.
• The agent presents a
problem and others
start presenting
solutions.
• Agent objects and all
the others give up
feeling bad.