Husband exposes the deficiencies of the wife and save her from embarrassment of having to expose them herself. He ends the comment by saying “ Isn’t that right, sweetheart?”.
This is a three handed game played by a married couple with a psychiatrist. Husband is bucking for a divorce and he comes to the therapist to demonstrate that he is cooperating. He ends up by saying “ Look how hard I have tried” and ask for divorce.
Nowadays is a punitive parental pastime (Ex : Juvenile delinquency). Broken Skin is an adult variation with the slogan “what a pity”. Water cooler is the child pastime with the slogan “ Look what they are doing to us now”.
The document discusses party games and one game called "Blemish". It provides details about Manu Melwin Joy, the author and research scholar who prepared the document. It states that parties include games as acquaintance grows. It describes Blemish as a game played from a depressive position that provides negative reassurance. It also lists other transactional analysis topics available from the author on slideshare.
Maritial games - Games People Play (Transactional analysis / TA is an integra...Manu Melwin Joy
Almost any game can form the scaffolding for married life and family living. Some of these games are tolerated longer, under the legal force of contractual intimacy.
Marital games can only be arbitrarily separated from sexual games .
Psychological Games People Play - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
1. The document analyzes and defines the concept of psychological games according to transactional analysis theory. It describes typical features of games, different levels of game intensity, and diagrams for analyzing games.
2. Games follow a six stage formula called "Formula G" involving a con, gimmick, response, switch, cross up, and payoff. They involve ulterior transactions and result in racket feelings.
3. People in games take on drama triangle roles of persecutor, rescuer, or victim and switch between these roles through the stages of the game.
4. Various methods are presented for analyzing games, including transactional diagrams, the drama triangle, and a "game plan" involving
Briefly, a woman marries a domineering man so that he will restrict her activities and thus keep her from getting into a situation which frighten her. She takes advantage of the situation to complain about the restrictions , which makes her spouse feel uneasy and gives her all sorts of advantages.
This is played by a housewife who is proficient in ten or twelve different occupations. The thesis of this game is that she takes on everything that comes and even asks for more. This ultimately results in her burn out and being ready for hospitalized.
Courtroom is essentially three handed, with a plaintiff, a defendant and a Judge, represented by a husband, a wife and the therapist. In everyday form, courtroom is easily observed in children as a three handed game between two siblings and a parent.
This is a three handed game played by a married couple with a psychiatrist. Husband is bucking for a divorce and he comes to the therapist to demonstrate that he is cooperating. He ends up by saying “ Look how hard I have tried” and ask for divorce.
Nowadays is a punitive parental pastime (Ex : Juvenile delinquency). Broken Skin is an adult variation with the slogan “what a pity”. Water cooler is the child pastime with the slogan “ Look what they are doing to us now”.
The document discusses party games and one game called "Blemish". It provides details about Manu Melwin Joy, the author and research scholar who prepared the document. It states that parties include games as acquaintance grows. It describes Blemish as a game played from a depressive position that provides negative reassurance. It also lists other transactional analysis topics available from the author on slideshare.
Maritial games - Games People Play (Transactional analysis / TA is an integra...Manu Melwin Joy
Almost any game can form the scaffolding for married life and family living. Some of these games are tolerated longer, under the legal force of contractual intimacy.
Marital games can only be arbitrarily separated from sexual games .
Psychological Games People Play - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
1. The document analyzes and defines the concept of psychological games according to transactional analysis theory. It describes typical features of games, different levels of game intensity, and diagrams for analyzing games.
2. Games follow a six stage formula called "Formula G" involving a con, gimmick, response, switch, cross up, and payoff. They involve ulterior transactions and result in racket feelings.
3. People in games take on drama triangle roles of persecutor, rescuer, or victim and switch between these roles through the stages of the game.
4. Various methods are presented for analyzing games, including transactional diagrams, the drama triangle, and a "game plan" involving
Briefly, a woman marries a domineering man so that he will restrict her activities and thus keep her from getting into a situation which frighten her. She takes advantage of the situation to complain about the restrictions , which makes her spouse feel uneasy and gives her all sorts of advantages.
This is played by a housewife who is proficient in ten or twelve different occupations. The thesis of this game is that she takes on everything that comes and even asks for more. This ultimately results in her burn out and being ready for hospitalized.
Courtroom is essentially three handed, with a plaintiff, a defendant and a Judge, represented by a husband, a wife and the therapist. In everyday form, courtroom is easily observed in children as a three handed game between two siblings and a parent.
This may be a maneuver, a ritual or a game. In each case, the psychology is feminine. As a maneuver, it is romantic. As a ritual, it is tragic. As a game, it is comic.
In this game, the husband makes advances to his wife and is repulsed. After repeated attempts, he is told that all men are beasts, he doesn’t really love her and all he is interested is in sex. When he resigns, wife tempts him and the game continues.
This document summarizes a sexual game called "The Stocking Game" and provides contact information for the author. The Stocking Game involves women exposing themselves to arouse men and provoke other women. It is characterized by exhibitionism and any confrontation is met with claims of innocence. The document also lists other transactional analysis topics and their associated slideshare links.
Heterosexual perversions such a fetishism, sadism and masochism are symptomatic of a confused child and are treated accordingly. Their transactional aspects as manifested in actual sexual situations can be death with by means of game analysis.
The Schlemiel makes the first move to embarrass the other person. If he shows his anger, schlemiel can feel justified in returning the resentment. If he restrains himself, he can go on enjoying his opportunities. The antithesis is not offering the demanded absolution.
Socially, peasant is played in an innocent and a dissembled form, both with the motto “Gee You are wonderful, Mr. Murgatroyd”. The antithesis for the game is that therapist steadfastly refuses to give advice.
The classical game is played between domineering fathers and teenage daughters, where there is a sexually inhibited mother. Father comes home from work and finds fault with daughter, who answers impudently. Their voice raise and clash becomes more acute. The end of a game of uproar is marked by a slamming door.
It occupies a special place in game analysis because it was the original stimulus for the concept of games.
The agent presents a problem and others start presenting solutions. Agent objects and all the others give up feeling bad.
This game is the basis of a large proportion of public relations. But the customers are glad to become involved, and it is perhaps the most pleasant and constructive of the commercial games. The choice of HTH removes some of the discredit since thee are so many unpleasant ways of competing available.
This is more of a pastime than a game. It becomes a game if work is secondary to some ulterior motive and is undertaken merely as a show in order to accomplish something else. Even under those circumstance, it keeps its constructive quality.
In its milder form, the thesis of “Stupid “ is “ I laugh with you at my own clumsiness and stupidity”. Seriously disturbed people may play it in a sullen way which says “ I am stupid, that is the way I am, so do me something.”
This is usually a three handed game. The central role is that of the Alcoholic – the one who is it. The chief supporting role is that of Persecutor, typically played by a member of opposite sex, usually the spouse.
The third role is that of Rescuer, usually played by someone of the same sex.
Corner illustrates more clearly than most games their manipulative aspect and their function as barriers to intimacy. Paradoxically, it consists of a disingenuous refusal to play the game of another.
Indigents go from agency to agency seeking welfare funds. Even though they are supposed to look for other jobs, they devote actually little time for it and tend to remain in their current position. Antithesis consists in withholding the benefits.
Games can be played at different degrees of intensity. First level game – it has an outcome which the player is willing to share with her social circle. These make a big proportion of the time structuring at parties and social gatherings.
Recent graduates present a so called genuine feelings to the group. The reactions of the other members are received very solemnly. A questioning intervention by the therapist may be strongly resented.
The document discusses two consulting room games - "Wooden Leg" and "Games that are tenaciously placed in therapeutic situations". Wooden Leg refers to expecting less from someone due to a perceived disability. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in India, and provides additional transactional analysis topics available on slideshare for further reading. It requests permission for use and reproduction of the slides.
This document contains a slide presentation on different types of games people play. It includes summaries of games such as "Good Games", "Busman's Holiday", "Cavalier", "Happy To Help", and "Homely Sage". The presentation was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information at the end. It requests permission to reuse the slides and presents other transactional analysis topics available on slideshare.
Weak transactions are those that are superficial, perfunctory and lack feeling of intensity. Such is the case if a wife says to husband, “I wonder if we should go out for dinner tonight”, and he responds “ I don’t care dear. Whatever you say, dear.”
Upon encountering a suitable female subject, Mr. White take every opportunity to remark upon her good qualities, never transgressing the limits appropriate to her station of life. The object is not to seduce but to exhibit his virtuosity in the art of effective compliment.
Racket analysis - Transactional Analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Any time your experience a racket feeling, you are in script.
As children, we use racket feeling to get our needs met in families.
We attempt to manipulate the environment so as to gain the parental support we gained in childhood by experiencing and showing these racket feelings.
Types of contract - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
This document discusses two types of contracts used in transactional analysis: business contracts and treatment contracts. A business contract is an agreement between a practitioner and client about payment and administrative arrangements. A treatment contract specifies the changes the client wants to make, what the client will do to help make the changes, what the practitioner will contribute, and how they will measure success. The document also defines a contract as an explicit commitment between two parties to take a defined course of action to achieve specified goals and outcomes.
This may be a maneuver, a ritual or a game. In each case, the psychology is feminine. As a maneuver, it is romantic. As a ritual, it is tragic. As a game, it is comic.
In this game, the husband makes advances to his wife and is repulsed. After repeated attempts, he is told that all men are beasts, he doesn’t really love her and all he is interested is in sex. When he resigns, wife tempts him and the game continues.
This document summarizes a sexual game called "The Stocking Game" and provides contact information for the author. The Stocking Game involves women exposing themselves to arouse men and provoke other women. It is characterized by exhibitionism and any confrontation is met with claims of innocence. The document also lists other transactional analysis topics and their associated slideshare links.
Heterosexual perversions such a fetishism, sadism and masochism are symptomatic of a confused child and are treated accordingly. Their transactional aspects as manifested in actual sexual situations can be death with by means of game analysis.
The Schlemiel makes the first move to embarrass the other person. If he shows his anger, schlemiel can feel justified in returning the resentment. If he restrains himself, he can go on enjoying his opportunities. The antithesis is not offering the demanded absolution.
Socially, peasant is played in an innocent and a dissembled form, both with the motto “Gee You are wonderful, Mr. Murgatroyd”. The antithesis for the game is that therapist steadfastly refuses to give advice.
The classical game is played between domineering fathers and teenage daughters, where there is a sexually inhibited mother. Father comes home from work and finds fault with daughter, who answers impudently. Their voice raise and clash becomes more acute. The end of a game of uproar is marked by a slamming door.
It occupies a special place in game analysis because it was the original stimulus for the concept of games.
The agent presents a problem and others start presenting solutions. Agent objects and all the others give up feeling bad.
This game is the basis of a large proportion of public relations. But the customers are glad to become involved, and it is perhaps the most pleasant and constructive of the commercial games. The choice of HTH removes some of the discredit since thee are so many unpleasant ways of competing available.
This is more of a pastime than a game. It becomes a game if work is secondary to some ulterior motive and is undertaken merely as a show in order to accomplish something else. Even under those circumstance, it keeps its constructive quality.
In its milder form, the thesis of “Stupid “ is “ I laugh with you at my own clumsiness and stupidity”. Seriously disturbed people may play it in a sullen way which says “ I am stupid, that is the way I am, so do me something.”
This is usually a three handed game. The central role is that of the Alcoholic – the one who is it. The chief supporting role is that of Persecutor, typically played by a member of opposite sex, usually the spouse.
The third role is that of Rescuer, usually played by someone of the same sex.
Corner illustrates more clearly than most games their manipulative aspect and their function as barriers to intimacy. Paradoxically, it consists of a disingenuous refusal to play the game of another.
Indigents go from agency to agency seeking welfare funds. Even though they are supposed to look for other jobs, they devote actually little time for it and tend to remain in their current position. Antithesis consists in withholding the benefits.
Games can be played at different degrees of intensity. First level game – it has an outcome which the player is willing to share with her social circle. These make a big proportion of the time structuring at parties and social gatherings.
Recent graduates present a so called genuine feelings to the group. The reactions of the other members are received very solemnly. A questioning intervention by the therapist may be strongly resented.
The document discusses two consulting room games - "Wooden Leg" and "Games that are tenaciously placed in therapeutic situations". Wooden Leg refers to expecting less from someone due to a perceived disability. The document was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy, a research scholar in India, and provides additional transactional analysis topics available on slideshare for further reading. It requests permission for use and reproduction of the slides.
This document contains a slide presentation on different types of games people play. It includes summaries of games such as "Good Games", "Busman's Holiday", "Cavalier", "Happy To Help", and "Homely Sage". The presentation was prepared by Manu Melwin Joy and provides contact information at the end. It requests permission to reuse the slides and presents other transactional analysis topics available on slideshare.
Weak transactions are those that are superficial, perfunctory and lack feeling of intensity. Such is the case if a wife says to husband, “I wonder if we should go out for dinner tonight”, and he responds “ I don’t care dear. Whatever you say, dear.”
Upon encountering a suitable female subject, Mr. White take every opportunity to remark upon her good qualities, never transgressing the limits appropriate to her station of life. The object is not to seduce but to exhibit his virtuosity in the art of effective compliment.
Racket analysis - Transactional Analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Any time your experience a racket feeling, you are in script.
As children, we use racket feeling to get our needs met in families.
We attempt to manipulate the environment so as to gain the parental support we gained in childhood by experiencing and showing these racket feelings.
Types of contract - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
This document discusses two types of contracts used in transactional analysis: business contracts and treatment contracts. A business contract is an agreement between a practitioner and client about payment and administrative arrangements. A treatment contract specifies the changes the client wants to make, what the client will do to help make the changes, what the practitioner will contribute, and how they will measure success. The document also defines a contract as an explicit commitment between two parties to take a defined course of action to achieve specified goals and outcomes.
Contracts for change - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Berne defined a contract as an explicit bilateral commitment to a well defined course of action.
James and Jongeward defined contract as an adult commitment to one’s self and/or someone else to make a change.
Competitive symbiosis - Transactional analysisManu Melwin Joy
This document discusses the concept of competitive symbiosis in transactional analysis. Competitive symbiosis occurs when two people want to take on the same symbiotic role, such as both wanting to be the parent. This can lead to jockeying for position as each tries to insist on fulfilling that role. An example given is two people competing to pay the bill at a restaurant. These exchanges are unstable and will typically end with one person backing down and accepting the complementary role, or both people storming away.
Symbiosis and script - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
Thus in ideal parenting, the child’s caretaker will be employing Parent and Adult resources appropriately, while still not discounting her own Child. As the child grows, the parent will provide him with what is needed to complete each stage of development.
Healthy symbiosis - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
1) Healthy symbiosis occurs when people are in a situation where it is appropriate to depend on each other, such as when a nurse comforts a patient who has just come out of anesthesia by holding their hand and reassuring them.
2) In this situation, the patient's adult and parent parts are not functioning due to the anesthesia, so they regress to a childlike state and allow the nurse to care for them and address their current problems.
3) The nurse taking on a supportive parental role in comforting and reassuring the patient is fulfilling their job responsibilities in a healthy symbiotic relationship, in contrast to an unhealthy symbiosis which would involve discounting the other person.
Frame of reference and redefining - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
Frame of reference and the script - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The document discusses the relationship between a person's frame of reference and their script. It states that the script is comprised of the definitions within a person's frame of reference that involve discounts. When a person acts according to their script, they are ignoring the present situation and replaying outdated self-definitions and worldviews from the past that discount aspects of themselves or others. The document provides the example of how a person may replay an old parental message that they cannot think when facing an examination.
Role of parent in frame of reference - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin...Manu Melwin Joy
The parent ego state plays a particularly important part in the formulation of the frame of reference. This is because our frame of reference consists of definitions of the world, self and others.
Frame of reference and ego states - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
As an further aid to understanding the frame of reference, the Schiffs suggest that it can be thought of as a “skin that surrounds the ego states binding them together.
Frame of reference - transactional analysis - Manu Melwin JoyManu Melwin Joy
The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
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3. Marital Games
• Almost any game can
form the scaffolding for
married life and family
living.
• Some of these games
are tolerated longer,
under the legal force of
contractual intimacy.
• Marital games can only
be arbitrarily separated
from sexual games .
4. Sweet Heart
• Husband exposes the
deficiencies of the
wife and save her
from embarrassment
of having to expose
them herself.
• He ends the comment
by saying “ Isn’t that
right, sweetheart?”.