Pray earnestly and depend on God to help you live righteously. Work on developing positive traits like patience, kindness, generosity and humility, as these are most important for a long-term relationship. Place yourself in social activities and environments where you are likely to meet potential partners who share your interests. As a last resort, try online dating to overcome physical distances and meet others who share your values.

1. Tips for Finding True Love

2. 1.Pray
“…The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth
much.” James 5:16 The transliterated word for effectual
is energéō in Greek where we get the work energy. The
definition is to “be operative, be at work, put forth
power”. How do you channel your frustration and pain? Do
you seek out God with power and intensity?The list of what
makes a person righteous is extensive. One thing for
sure Psalms 34:15 – “The eyes of the LORD are toward the
righteous And His ears are open to their cry”. Being
righteous doesn’t mean you are perfect or don’t make
mistakes. It means when you know what is right you
depend on Jesus to help you live it and you do it where as
the wicked know what is right and rebel against it. Most
importantly looking at Jesus will expose where you fall
short. Which bring to the next point.

3. 2.Work On Yourself
Jesus say do ,”unto others as you want them to do
unto you…” or “treat others as you want to be
treated…”. This is known as the golden rule or the
law of reciprocity. In others if you want someone
intelligent, beautiful, well spoken, given to you then
you need to work on yourself to exhibit those traits as
a gift to your future significant other. However the
most important traits that makes for a long term
relationship doesn’t end at college education,
financial security or physical attraction but pale in
comparison to what it takes to make a relationship
work: patience, kindness, generosity, humility are but
a few traits of genuine love.

4. 3.Be Visible
Place yourself in the position of being found. Jesus
says I’ve called “you to be fisher’s of men”. Now
within context what Jesus meant is study the habits
and behaviors of people to win them similar to how a
fishermen study the migration patterns & habits of
fishes to catch them. Applied in the context of dating
this means that you must place yourself in the
activities, events and locations of those who share
your interest. Do you want to marry an artist take up
art class and even if you are not a talented artist learn
to impress your future significant other.

5. 4. If All Else Fails Try Online Dating…
Overcome distance and meet singles who share
your values and interest. Don’t waste time.

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