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TIMD-IEF Part 9
- 1. Building Healthy
Marriages
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- 2. Build Own Character
Strength
A partnership is only as strong
as its partners
Strengthen conscience through
study and service
Cultivate good goals,
interests and friendships
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- 4. Commitment —
Context for Love to
Grow
Creates safety for
intimacy
Allows time to
discover spouse
Never ending
process
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- 5. Commitment =
Investment in the
Marriage
Close “escape hatches”
Workaholism
Preoccupation with child
Excessive television
Extramarital affair
Divorce not an option
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- 7. Love — Built on Trust
Trust is built on virtue
Fidelity
Commitment
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- 8. “A marriage that commands
loyalty…requires each partner
to relinquish selfcenteredness.”
Judith S. Wallerstein, The Good Marriage
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- 12. Invest in the
Marital “Bank
Account”
Become friends
Build
companionship
Have fun together
5 deposits for 1
withdrawal
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- 17. Dealing with Anger
Never use
physical violence
Allow time for cooling
down
Get to the root
emotions — Hurt &
fear
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- 22. “Love does not consist in
gazing at each other but
in looking together in the
same direction.”
Antoine De Saint-Exupery
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- 24. Marriage Can Be
Healing and
Restorative
Resolves
psychological
issues
Childhood scars
Family history
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