This activity involves dividing students into three teams and having them collect objects and place them in their team's hula hoop. The goal is for all teams to succeed, but defining success as only their own team winning makes it difficult. Through discussion, students realize they can redefine success as all teams placing objects in a hula hoop to succeed together. This activity addresses social emotional learning competencies like responsibility, attitude, self-monitoring, listening, and decision making. It can be integrated into core subjects through examining concepts like writing conventions, multiple solutions, scientific discoveries, and historical perspectives.