The document discusses two potential "tragedies" in life - achieving one's dreams and desires, and not achieving them. It argues that the best situation is to continuously develop oneself through self-improvement and pursuing women, but to ultimately find a partner when one's standards are high rather than too early in life. This allows one to reap the benefits of personal growth before settling down, avoiding both tragedies.

1. The Best Woman Problem To Have

2. There's a fantastic problem to have
with women, and unfortunately, few
guys will have it.

3. There's a saying I'm sure you've heard:
"Be careful what you wish for. You
might get it."

4. It's also been said that there are two
great tragedies in life.

5. Getting what you want, and not
getting what you want.

6. If you spend your whole life chasing
something, and never getting it, it
sucks.

7. Nothing feels worse than an unfulfilled
dream.

8. Now, most guys don't have this,
although they think they do.

9. Meaning they really, really wish they
could get a hot girl, but they never
really do anything to get her.

10. To them, this is their "dream."

11. But it's not really a dream any more
than playing the lotto is a solid
financial plan.

12. When they say not getting your dream
is a tragedy, it assumes you've taken
SERIOUS action toward getting it.

13. When it comes to women, this doesn't
mean going to the club every Friday
night and wishing really hard.

14. Nor does it mean sleeping with club
girl after club girl and getting angry
they don't suddenly morph into your
dream wife the next morning.

15. This means really living your life to the
fullest, becoming and ultra alpha
leader of men, meeting several high
quality women, doing everything in
your power to seduce them, and STILL
coming up empty handed.

16. This, indeed, is a tragedy.

17. But it's also highly unlikely.

18. But what about getting your dream?
Why is that a tragedy?

19. Because once you get your dream, the
chase ends.

20. The self development ends.

21. That positive expectation of an
unfulfilled goal ends.

22. The imagination of a better future
ends.

23. This is why Alexander wept after he
had no more lands to conquer.

24. This is why many astronauts who
walked on the moon has serious
personal problems when they came
back to Earth.

25. This is why when you meet your
dream woman (or what you think is
your dream woman at the time) TOO
EARLY in life, it CAN present problems.

26. Not always.

27. To be sure, there are couples who met
in high school, and realize that their
relationship is VERY IMPORTANT, so
they take the time to work on it.

28. To BECOME each other's dream
partner.

29. But for most guys, they don't really
meet their dream girl (nor do many
women meet their dream guy) that
early in life.

30. Sure, they tell themselves that.

31. But in reality it's their dream person AT
THE TIME.

32. As they move through life and increase
in social skills, earning skills, intra-
personal skills, they realize that
maybe, JUST MAYBE, they sold
themselves short and develop a
wandering eye.

33. Herein between the two tragedies of
life lies the BEST PROBLEM to have.

34. When do you stop searching, and start
finding?

35. After all, the more you search, the
more skills you'll develop, and the
higher criteria you'll demand, AND the
more attractive you'll be.

36. But there comes a point, when you
must choose.

37. This, of course, is a very personal
decision, and will differ from person to
person.

38. But this is a VERY NICE "women
problem" to have.

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