Finding the right partner involves setting and communicating personal boundaries clearly. Her reaction to these boundaries will indicate compatibility; if she respects them, it may signify a healthy relationship. It's essential to take responsibility for establishing boundaries to avoid frustrations and ensure mutual respect.

2. How do you know when you find the
right woman?

3. She'll be easy.

4. No, not that!

5. I mean you won't have to "manage"
her.

6. Or put up with much nonsense.

7. Now, putting up with nonsense
doesn't mean she's bad, it just means
you've got a criteria mismatch.

8. Most people, when they get into
relationships, have only the criteria
that the other person likes them.

9. Then they cross their fingers and hope
for the best.

10. Usually, this doesn't work out so
much.

11. I'm sure you know how important it is
to set boundaries, right?

12. How she responds to your boundaries
will tell you if you're really compatible
or not.

13. Say one of your boundaries, for
example, is not being late.

14. If anybody shows up more than 20
minutes late, that's something you
simply do not want to put up with.

15. And say on your second date, she's 30
minutes late.

16. Now, most guys wouldn't even say
anything.

17. But since you're an advanced student
of game, you know that it's VERY
IMPORTANT to set boundaries as early
as possible.

18. So you may say something like, "I
know this may sound strange, but I
have a personal rule that I don't wait
for more than 20 minutes for any
meeting."

19. How she responds will tell you
EVERYTHING.

20. If she acts like that's a huge burden to
deal with, that might be enough to cut
this one lose.

21. On the other hand, if she's NEVER
more than 20 minutes late again, that
means she might be a keeper.

22. Ideally, you want to know your
boundaries.

23. Then, you'll need to express them
calmly and rationally when they are
crossed.

24. And they WILL be crossed.

25. Then you'll need to know how to
respond based on how she responds.

26. Compatible couples who are truly into
each other tend to respect each
other's boundaries without much fuss.

27. Those that don't end up with lots of
unexpressed anger or hurt feelings,
which isn't healthy for anybody.

28. Many people fall into the trap of "She
should know what to do."

29. Maybe so, but thinking this will get
you intro trouble.

30. Always assume it's YOUR responsibility
to set the boundaries, and make sure
you respond when they are crossed.

31. Never let anything slide.

32. After all, you don't want to hook up
with somebody who's always
disrespecting you, do you?

33. And you may have to be the one to
carefully elicit her boundaries as well.

34. Why?

35. That will make you MUCH more
attractive to her.

36. Since most guys never even come
close to this level of "relationship
game" you'll be a shiny star in a sea of
bumbling clowns.

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