Dick Lyles’s  4  SECRETS OF WINNING WAYS Presenter:  SAIMA AKHTAR
Make People Feel Stronger Rather than Weaker  as a result of your interaction with them. Forget about pecking orders of any type. This includes organisational as well as  intellectual hierarchies. Recognize people’s strengths. Focus on what people bring to the party,  not what they leave home. 1 Cont…
Honour people’s efforts. Build upon the things that other people  have achieved, not what they haven’t. Involve others in planning, problem solving, and decision making. Work with people rather than against  them, with the knowledge that more can  be accomplished through collaboration  than competition.
Make People Feel Stronger Rather than Weaker  as a result of your interaction with them does  not  mean: Using idle flattery in an attempt to win their approval. Offering help in ways that cause people to feel inferior. Giving up my own self-esteem.
Camels Are Okay.  In fact, today’s camel builders will be tomorrow’s leaders. 2 Some racehorses win and some lose, but a camel will cross the finish line every time. Collaboration is better than competition over the long term. Camel building should not be left only to committees. The shortcut most often turns out to be the long cut in the long run.
Camel building  does  not  mean: Using everyone’s suggestion merely to make each person feel good. Camels should be built around goals, objectives, and legitimate needs. Everything should be accomplished through a committee.
Avoid Two-Valued Thinking Traps,  because very few decisions are choices between right and wrong or good and bad. 3 Keep egos out of it. It’s not  who’s  right or wrong. It’s usually  not even  what’s  right or wrong. More  often than not it’s what is  best  under the  circumstances. Cont…
Most decisions are multi-valued, depending upon the situation. Almost every situation can be analyzed properly if viewed from a variety of perspectives.
In  avoiding two-valued thinking traps , be careful of the following: Avoid Analysis Paralysis . don't bring so many variables into play that you can’t reach a conclusion. Avoid Indecisiveness . Looking at multiple variables isn’t an excuse to avoid being decisive. Remember that some decisions are two-valued . When choosing whether or not to act according to your personal ethics or the values of the organisation, more often than not these are decisions between right and wrong.
Influence for the Future,  rather than the present or the past. 4 Develop a common vision with your colleagues. Ensure all your efforts are aligned with  a common sense of purpose and clear  goals for your efforts. Cont…
Solve problems in the future. Don’t blame and criticize others for  things that happened the way of future  achievements. Create a shared sense of identity and responsibility. Going one step beyond alignment, it is  important that people also invest in the  success of your joint efforts.
Influencing in the Future  does  not  mean: Ignoring present realities . Everything you focus on for the future should be grounded in reality and take into account your current capabilities as well as limitations. Ignoring the lessons of the past . Experience can be the best teacher of all if we learn the right lessons from our experience. The key is to learn what we can and then apply what we’ve learned to our future success.

Secrets Of Winning Ways

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    Dick Lyles’s 4 SECRETS OF WINNING WAYS Presenter: SAIMA AKHTAR
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    Make People FeelStronger Rather than Weaker as a result of your interaction with them. Forget about pecking orders of any type. This includes organisational as well as intellectual hierarchies. Recognize people’s strengths. Focus on what people bring to the party, not what they leave home. 1 Cont…
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    Honour people’s efforts.Build upon the things that other people have achieved, not what they haven’t. Involve others in planning, problem solving, and decision making. Work with people rather than against them, with the knowledge that more can be accomplished through collaboration than competition.
  • 4.
    Make People FeelStronger Rather than Weaker as a result of your interaction with them does not mean: Using idle flattery in an attempt to win their approval. Offering help in ways that cause people to feel inferior. Giving up my own self-esteem.
  • 5.
    Camels Are Okay. In fact, today’s camel builders will be tomorrow’s leaders. 2 Some racehorses win and some lose, but a camel will cross the finish line every time. Collaboration is better than competition over the long term. Camel building should not be left only to committees. The shortcut most often turns out to be the long cut in the long run.
  • 6.
    Camel building does not mean: Using everyone’s suggestion merely to make each person feel good. Camels should be built around goals, objectives, and legitimate needs. Everything should be accomplished through a committee.
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    Avoid Two-Valued ThinkingTraps, because very few decisions are choices between right and wrong or good and bad. 3 Keep egos out of it. It’s not who’s right or wrong. It’s usually not even what’s right or wrong. More often than not it’s what is best under the circumstances. Cont…
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    Most decisions aremulti-valued, depending upon the situation. Almost every situation can be analyzed properly if viewed from a variety of perspectives.
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    In avoidingtwo-valued thinking traps , be careful of the following: Avoid Analysis Paralysis . don't bring so many variables into play that you can’t reach a conclusion. Avoid Indecisiveness . Looking at multiple variables isn’t an excuse to avoid being decisive. Remember that some decisions are two-valued . When choosing whether or not to act according to your personal ethics or the values of the organisation, more often than not these are decisions between right and wrong.
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    Influence for theFuture, rather than the present or the past. 4 Develop a common vision with your colleagues. Ensure all your efforts are aligned with a common sense of purpose and clear goals for your efforts. Cont…
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    Solve problems inthe future. Don’t blame and criticize others for things that happened the way of future achievements. Create a shared sense of identity and responsibility. Going one step beyond alignment, it is important that people also invest in the success of your joint efforts.
  • 12.
    Influencing in theFuture does not mean: Ignoring present realities . Everything you focus on for the future should be grounded in reality and take into account your current capabilities as well as limitations. Ignoring the lessons of the past . Experience can be the best teacher of all if we learn the right lessons from our experience. The key is to learn what we can and then apply what we’ve learned to our future success.