2. • Is there a single person among us who doesn’t like t0 happy ?The
answer is NO. No person to be Sad or Unhappy.
•It is against Human Nature, But why it is still that we get upset so
very often for unnecessary reasons? It’s very common that we get
upset for no particular reason sometimes.
•When someone asks you why you are upset no one ever takes the
effort to change oneself.
•We are always trying to change the other person to suit our needs,
so that we may be happy, But one thing to remember is that you can
never become happy unless you change yourself.
•Happiness is not something we can get from outside, its something
that you have to look for within yourself, and the only way we can
do is that to put in a little effort to change some of our ways.
•Just try out theseTen Simple Points and see how you can transform
your life.
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4. Learn to be Contended……!
Are you Satisfied with what you are?
Answer in Probably NO, Because most you are
not satisfied that what you are but you always
think and grip what you are not.
In this process you are fail to see and observe
that what you are or what you have. This make’s
your life miserable. For a change why don’t you
try to be, contended what you are or what you
have. In way you will be able to enjoy whatever
you are or what little you have.
6. Stop Daydreaming……….!!!
What I mean here is to stop building Castle in
Sky. Most of us live in this type of world.
We all live in our own dream world, in which we
have all the happiness and prosperous future life
with lots of money and comforts.
Well it’s time to wake-up. A person who live in
dreamland can’t accept any unfavorable thing
happening to him. So, Don’t Expect more and
more in this world, & stop expecting and learn to
take life as it comes.That the true sport.
7. Live in Present…..!
As we have discuss previously that people live in
their dreamland that how the future should be or
we brooding over whatever happened in the past,
this makes our life HELL.
Its OK to make Mistakes, no one is perfect in this
world every person had made some mistakes. So,
the Past is dead, becauseTime doesn’t return and
Future in uncertain, because you can not vision
the comingTime.
Tomorrow doesn’t exist unless we step into the
tomorrow, so don’t worry about future and live in
Present, How can ever think of being happy in
future? So Learn to live in Present.
8. Never Mind the Criticism
Some People are over sensitive and burst into sobs for
any small reason. If people criticizes you there is no
reason to raise a storm.
If you feel that there is some meaning in what he said
then try to change yourself for the better. Or else don’t
Bother.
If we stand and argue or fight we are wasting our own
energy and peace mind.
If you hold ill feelings against others, it doesn’t affect
them in any way but only you suffer from mental
exertion.
So, why give a chance for others to make you unhappy?
People can affect you only as much as you allow them to.
So, don’t give them a chance for that
9. Never Mind The Mistakes & Failure…!
We all know the Famous SayingThat Failure are the
Stepping of Success.
You may have fail but its not the end of world, failure
are the part of life and definitely the stepping stones.
Unless we make mistakes we won’t be able to learn.
Anything, we become is the stagnant like trees and
plants. If we make mistake we learn from it and not
to try it again.
You all know about the life of Famous Scientist
ThomasAlba Edison Inventor of Bulb,That how he
get success in his life after failure.There are many
example of this Part in ourWorld.
10. Say Goodbye to Anger and Jealousy….!
You all know the Green Eyed Monster is one of the
greatest enemy of our.When you are jealous of someone
you are miserable and can’t tolerate even meeting that
person.This affects you and only your mental state, its
doesn’t harm the other person in any way.
Anger is another Enemy of our , in which we gain less
and lose more. When we are angry we say things which
we regret later on, and once you have said something
you can’t take it back.
So try control your temper and try not to be jealous of
anyone, because in both cases only you are the loser…!
11. Being confident doesn’t cost you anything. Most of us feel Don’t
feel confident and consider ourselves to be good for nothing.This
attitude will get you Nowhere in life. So, try to be confident, just
remember that you are in no way inferior to anyone so then why
shouldn't you be Confident? Self confidence comes from within
you when you are Positive, Optimistic and Never Pessimistic.
12. Very often when we even think of work our blood pressure
starts rising! Most of the time the feeling of burden of work is
more than the work itself.Try to develop more interest and
enjoy your work.Then you won’t even feel there is a Burden.
A mind free of fears, tensions, obsessions, cravings etc is a pure
mind. A pure and clean mind means mental hygiene. Physical
and mental health is necessary for good health and better
living.
13. So let’s start living life the way it should
be lived. We can start right from today,
we have nothing to loose and lots to
gain by being happy. So Say Don’tWorry
Be Happy…….!!!
By: Muhammad Raheel Siddiqui