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10 RULES TO LIVE BY FOR THOSE
WHO WANT TO LIVE A POSITIVE
LIFE
Motivational speaker-
JUTHIKA RANI DEY
UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS
1. BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN
SKIN.
Everyone was born with a flaw. No one is
perfect. Accept yourself with what you're born
with whether it be your background, your skin,
your nose, your eyes, your hair, your freckles,
whatever just accept yourself for who you are
and love yourself.
EVERYONE IS GIFTED WITH UNIQUE
POWERS
2. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND
NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF WITH
OTHERS
The grass always seems to be greener on the
other side but that does not mean it's actually
Greener.
If you keep wishing, hoping, expecting for
something else and don't feel happy with what
you already have, you will always feel miserable
and feel like something is missing in your life.
THE LOSS OF A LIMB DID NOT HINDER
ARUNIMA SINHA FROM SCALING THE
HIGHEST HURDLES at Mt. Everest
3. SEE THE POSITIVE IN EVERY
SITUATION
You will always run into unfortunate situations in
life that are outside of your control. You can choose
to be stuck in a bad situation or let go, move on,
and start a new.
“Every setback and bad situation in
life teaches you something. Growth
doesn't happen in comfort.”
4. LET GO OF YOUR NEED TO
CONTROL
• Control makes you feel secure. But at the
same time, with control you also lose
freedom. Confusing isn't it?
• As you become dependent on the feeling of
having control, it can drive you crazy because
things don't always go as planned.
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE WITH REGRETS
5. DROP THE RESENTMENT WITHIN
Most of the time you hold onto anger because
you believe ,it would make that person realize
that they have done something wrong. But the
fact is that you are actually hanging yourself up
on something that's burning you within.
No matter what one does to you -- hurt you, look
down on you, underestimate you, backstab you,
abuse you, or cheat on you. “When You Hold The
Hatred, You Hold The Hurt.”
LET IT GO
• Only when you learn to let go, you let your
soul free from the pain.
• the best thing you can do is to let go.
• be patient, let it go, forgive those who've done
you wrong, you will feel that each day you get
stronger and more powerful.
SEIZE THE DAY MY FRIEND
6. LIVE IN THE MOMENT
• I believe that one of the reasons little kids and
happy couples on dates are happy is because
they live in the moment.
• They focus on what is happening in front of
them and pay attention to the person they are
With.
• Just live in the moment and do your best.
• THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE
7. AVOID
OVERANALYZING/OVERTHINKING
OVERTHINKING
• This is what a lot of us do -- overanalyzing
things from relationships to career and
finances.
• Overanalyzing is dwelling on the thought
about something, thinking about it over and
over, trying to dig deeper and deeper, because
somehow you believe it could end up giving
you a way out but actually what we get is a set
of worries.
IN ORDER TO
AVOID
OVERANALYZING,
WE NEED TO BE
MORE
OUTSPOKEN WITH
PEOPLE WHOM
WE HAVE DOUBTS
ABOUT, TAKE
THINGS AS THEY
COME, AND
LISTEN CLOSELY TO
OUR INTUITION.
8. STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE
FUTURE
• Many of us worry, worry and worry.
• We worry about our future, career, health,
living, finances, and about the people we
love.
• Only worrying doesn't make anything better
unless we stop worrying and start taking
actions towards our goals.
HEY THERE ,I AM
9. DROP YOUR EGO AND BE TRUE
10. HAVE AN OPEN MIND
• Having a narrow mind can hurt you more than
you think because naturally ,we as humans don't
like feeling like we're wrong because it makes us
feel rejected and unaccepted.
• if you have an open mind, you wouldn't mind
hearing about the different beliefs and become
adaptable and flexible in your approach.
• You'd feel at ease with differences and feel
positive about change.
“Minds are like parachutes - they only
function when open”
Rules of ultimate happiness

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Rules of ultimate happiness

  • 1. 10 RULES TO LIVE BY FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO LIVE A POSITIVE LIFE Motivational speaker- JUTHIKA RANI DEY
  • 3. 1. BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN. Everyone was born with a flaw. No one is perfect. Accept yourself with what you're born with whether it be your background, your skin, your nose, your eyes, your hair, your freckles, whatever just accept yourself for who you are and love yourself.
  • 4. EVERYONE IS GIFTED WITH UNIQUE POWERS
  • 5. 2. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS The grass always seems to be greener on the other side but that does not mean it's actually Greener. If you keep wishing, hoping, expecting for something else and don't feel happy with what you already have, you will always feel miserable and feel like something is missing in your life.
  • 6. THE LOSS OF A LIMB DID NOT HINDER ARUNIMA SINHA FROM SCALING THE HIGHEST HURDLES at Mt. Everest
  • 7. 3. SEE THE POSITIVE IN EVERY SITUATION You will always run into unfortunate situations in life that are outside of your control. You can choose to be stuck in a bad situation or let go, move on, and start a new. “Every setback and bad situation in life teaches you something. Growth doesn't happen in comfort.”
  • 8.
  • 9. 4. LET GO OF YOUR NEED TO CONTROL • Control makes you feel secure. But at the same time, with control you also lose freedom. Confusing isn't it? • As you become dependent on the feeling of having control, it can drive you crazy because things don't always go as planned.
  • 10. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE WITH REGRETS
  • 11. 5. DROP THE RESENTMENT WITHIN Most of the time you hold onto anger because you believe ,it would make that person realize that they have done something wrong. But the fact is that you are actually hanging yourself up on something that's burning you within. No matter what one does to you -- hurt you, look down on you, underestimate you, backstab you, abuse you, or cheat on you. “When You Hold The Hatred, You Hold The Hurt.”
  • 12. LET IT GO • Only when you learn to let go, you let your soul free from the pain. • the best thing you can do is to let go. • be patient, let it go, forgive those who've done you wrong, you will feel that each day you get stronger and more powerful.
  • 13. SEIZE THE DAY MY FRIEND
  • 14. 6. LIVE IN THE MOMENT • I believe that one of the reasons little kids and happy couples on dates are happy is because they live in the moment. • They focus on what is happening in front of them and pay attention to the person they are With. • Just live in the moment and do your best. • THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE
  • 15.
  • 17. OVERTHINKING • This is what a lot of us do -- overanalyzing things from relationships to career and finances. • Overanalyzing is dwelling on the thought about something, thinking about it over and over, trying to dig deeper and deeper, because somehow you believe it could end up giving you a way out but actually what we get is a set of worries.
  • 18. IN ORDER TO AVOID OVERANALYZING, WE NEED TO BE MORE OUTSPOKEN WITH PEOPLE WHOM WE HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT, TAKE THINGS AS THEY COME, AND LISTEN CLOSELY TO OUR INTUITION.
  • 19. 8. STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE FUTURE • Many of us worry, worry and worry. • We worry about our future, career, health, living, finances, and about the people we love. • Only worrying doesn't make anything better unless we stop worrying and start taking actions towards our goals.
  • 21. 9. DROP YOUR EGO AND BE TRUE
  • 22. 10. HAVE AN OPEN MIND • Having a narrow mind can hurt you more than you think because naturally ,we as humans don't like feeling like we're wrong because it makes us feel rejected and unaccepted. • if you have an open mind, you wouldn't mind hearing about the different beliefs and become adaptable and flexible in your approach. • You'd feel at ease with differences and feel positive about change.
  • 23. “Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open”