This document discusses issues with modern wedding culture and lack of preparation for marriage. It argues that lavish weddings are increasing as marriages become more fragile. Rather than spending excessive time and money on weddings, the document suggests focusing more on growing in relationship and preparing for married life through self-knowledge, counseling, and meaningful marriage preparation programs. It concludes by calling for a shift in priorities from extravagant weddings to investing in stronger, longer-lasting marriages and families.