Never eat alone by Keith Ferrazzi & Tahl Raz
Personal Review by Wei Teng
CHAPTER OF THE BOOK
 The Mind-Set
 The Skill Set
 Turning connections into Compatriots
 Connecting in the Digital Age
 Trading Up and giving Back
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THE MIND-SET
 Don’t Keep Score
 A network functions because there is a recognition of mutual need
 A helpful network is based on generosity and reciprocity
 What’s Your Mission?
 Find your passion – your own “blue flame”
 Understand what your interest/passionate about and create a list
 Ask others of their opinion of your strengths and weaknesses
 Putting goals to paper
 Create short-term specific goals that are accomplishable and challenging
 This will eventual lead to the larger goal “one step at a time”
 Build It Before You Need It
 Building a community before you need it allows you to pull from
your network in the future instead of setting yourself up for failure
 The Genius of Audacity
 Be audacious in your actions
 Understand that the worst scenario that could occur is “NO”
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THE SKILL SET
 Do Your Homework
 Whether at a meeting/conference have brief background
knowledge of the individual your talking to
 Use that knowledge to connect to others on a more
personal level(building into a friendship)
 Share Your Passions
 Use your passions as a basic building block in order to
connect to others
 Follow Up or Fail
 Don’t wait a week, but follow up within 12-24 hrs.
 Be personal and reinforce your connection to the
individual
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TURNING CONNECTIONS INTO COMPATRIOTS
 Health, Wealth, and Children
 3 things that engender deep emotions bonds between
people
 Use these ideas in order to further develop a deeper
relationship worth keeping(e.g. helping someone with
their health, helping their child, etc.)
 Pinging – All the Time
 A quick and causal greeting in order to maintain your
network
 Relationship maintenance needs to be constant(e.g. not
just birthdays)
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CONNECTING IN THE DIGITAL AGE
 Become the King of Content
 Core values that communicate trust (Generosity,
Vulnerability, Accountability, and Candor)(GVAC)
 Find/Create value based content that pertains to the
above variables
 Engineering Serendipity
 Be open to opportunities delivered by chance
 Create a broad network
 Become a highly visible leader(e.g. associations,
organizations)
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For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account:
https://medium.com/@WTeng20
TRADING UP AND GIVING BACK
 Be Interesting
 Give people a reason to continue to talk to you
 Become a expert in a subject and have a unique point of view
 Expose yourself to unusual experiences
 Develop a niche
 Build Your Brand
 Provides a credible, distinctive, and trustworthy identity
 Create content that follows your passion and shows GVAC
 Never Give In to Hubris
 You have accomplished your goals with the help of either
coworkers, friends, and/or family
 Show that you appreciate your group so they would continue to
support you in the future
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968
For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account:
https://medium.com/@WTeng20
BACKGROUND INFO.
 Ferrazzi is the son of a small-town steelworker and
a cleaning lady, that paved his path to Yale, a
Harvard M.B.A and top executive positions through
networking.
 Never Eat Alone introduces Ferrazzi’s methods and
experiences that lead him to his current
accomplishments.
 This book has been republished in order to
accommodate the growing technology and how it
affects networking in this generation.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968
For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account:
https://medium.com/@WTeng20

Never eat alone

  • 1.
    Never eat aloneby Keith Ferrazzi & Tahl Raz Personal Review by Wei Teng
  • 2.
    CHAPTER OF THEBOOK  The Mind-Set  The Skill Set  Turning connections into Compatriots  Connecting in the Digital Age  Trading Up and giving Back https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 3.
    THE MIND-SET  Don’tKeep Score  A network functions because there is a recognition of mutual need  A helpful network is based on generosity and reciprocity  What’s Your Mission?  Find your passion – your own “blue flame”  Understand what your interest/passionate about and create a list  Ask others of their opinion of your strengths and weaknesses  Putting goals to paper  Create short-term specific goals that are accomplishable and challenging  This will eventual lead to the larger goal “one step at a time”  Build It Before You Need It  Building a community before you need it allows you to pull from your network in the future instead of setting yourself up for failure  The Genius of Audacity  Be audacious in your actions  Understand that the worst scenario that could occur is “NO” https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 4.
    THE SKILL SET Do Your Homework  Whether at a meeting/conference have brief background knowledge of the individual your talking to  Use that knowledge to connect to others on a more personal level(building into a friendship)  Share Your Passions  Use your passions as a basic building block in order to connect to others  Follow Up or Fail  Don’t wait a week, but follow up within 12-24 hrs.  Be personal and reinforce your connection to the individual https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 5.
    TURNING CONNECTIONS INTOCOMPATRIOTS  Health, Wealth, and Children  3 things that engender deep emotions bonds between people  Use these ideas in order to further develop a deeper relationship worth keeping(e.g. helping someone with their health, helping their child, etc.)  Pinging – All the Time  A quick and causal greeting in order to maintain your network  Relationship maintenance needs to be constant(e.g. not just birthdays) https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 6.
    CONNECTING IN THEDIGITAL AGE  Become the King of Content  Core values that communicate trust (Generosity, Vulnerability, Accountability, and Candor)(GVAC)  Find/Create value based content that pertains to the above variables  Engineering Serendipity  Be open to opportunities delivered by chance  Create a broad network  Become a highly visible leader(e.g. associations, organizations) https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 7.
    TRADING UP ANDGIVING BACK  Be Interesting  Give people a reason to continue to talk to you  Become a expert in a subject and have a unique point of view  Expose yourself to unusual experiences  Develop a niche  Build Your Brand  Provides a credible, distinctive, and trustworthy identity  Create content that follows your passion and shows GVAC  Never Give In to Hubris  You have accomplished your goals with the help of either coworkers, friends, and/or family  Show that you appreciate your group so they would continue to support you in the future https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20
  • 8.
    BACKGROUND INFO.  Ferrazziis the son of a small-town steelworker and a cleaning lady, that paved his path to Yale, a Harvard M.B.A and top executive positions through networking.  Never Eat Alone introduces Ferrazzi’s methods and experiences that lead him to his current accomplishments.  This book has been republished in order to accommodate the growing technology and how it affects networking in this generation. https://www.linkedin.com/in/wei-teng-5400b968 For a more in depth summary visit my Medium account: https://medium.com/@WTeng20