The document emphasizes the importance of a positive mindset, personal growth, and continuous education as keys to success. It outlines characteristics such as commitment, character, and persistence, while advising on building healthy relationships and self-esteem. Additionally, it highlights actionable steps to cultivate leadership qualities, resilience, and gratitude in achieving one's goals.

1. Success will kiss me today “ for my efforts”

2. Youth are not useless they are used less

3. A fool with great money is one big party

4. Everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die

5. Leadership means acting from your commitment, instead of what is convenient

6. In life to work , Putting yourself in the other’s shoes

7. Make others feel special

8. Do what You love to do

9. Middle class financial plan House Car Children’s education Children’s marriage Retirement

10. Latest basic needs Health Career Healthy relationship Money

11. Change Focus, Look for the Positive You can win starts here:-

12. Make a Habit of Doing It Now

13. If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into the habit of living in the present and doing it now. “ He slept beneath the moon He basked beneath the sun He lived a life of going to do and died with nothing done.”

14. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude Count your blessings, not your troubles

15. Get into a Continuous Education Program

16. honesty, compassion, courage, persistence and responsibility-- Get into a Continuous Education Program:-

17. 1.Many times we confuse intelligence with good judgment. 2. A person may have high intelligence but poor judgment. 3. Choose your advisers carefully and use your judgment. 4. A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5 Cs: ¨ character ¨ commitment ¨ conviction ¨ courtesy ¨ courage

18. Eduacated means those who manage well the circumstances which they encounter day by day. those who are honorable in their dealings with all men, bearing easily what is unpleasant or offensive in others, those who hold their pleasures always under control and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes, bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature. those who are not spoiled by their successes,

19. Feed Your Mind:- Just like our bodies need good food every day, our minds need good thoughts every day

20. Build a Positive Self-Esteem Do something for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind.

21. Stay Away from Negative Influences

22. Learn to Like the Things That Need to be Done

23. Start Your Day with a Positive

24. 1.What you want to achieve 2. How you expect to achieve it 3. When you plan to achieve it ACTION PLAN:-

25. the result of consistently applying some basic principles SUCCESS:-

26. success is a journey, not a destination.

27. OBSTACLES TO SUCCESS Ego Fear of failure success ; lack of self esteem No plan Lack of formalized goals ¨ Life changes ¨ Procrastination ¨ Family responsibility ¨ Financial security issues ¨ Lack of focus, being muddled ¨ Giving up vision for promise of money ¨ Doing too much alone ¨ Over-commitment ¨ Lack of commitment ¨ Lack of training ¨ Lack of persistence ¨ Lack of priorities

28. "A smooth sea never made a skillful mariner."

29. EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS ALSO A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE

30. Nature's greatest gift to man is the ability to think He can create his own environment.

31. QUALITIES THAT MAKE A PERSON SUCCESSFUL Desire Commitment Responsibility Hard Work Character Positive Believing Give More Than You Get The Power of Persistence Pride of Performance Be Willing to Be a Student--Get a Mentor

32. "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve."

33. Playing to Win Requires Commitment

34. A duty which becomes a desire will ultimately become a delight.

35. The duck keeps paddling relentlessly underneath but appears smooth and calm on top.

36. Character is a combination of integrity, unselfishness, understanding, conviction, courage, loyalty and respect.

37. Positive believing is an attitude of confidence that comes with preparation

38. Persistence comes from purpose

39. Excellence comes when the performer takes pride in doing his best

40. Half-hearted effort does not produce half results; it produces no results.

41. Life is like a ten speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use.

42. A man is a hero not because he is braver than anyone else, but because he is brave for ten minutes longer. --

43. TO AVOID GREED…ASK URSELF Can I afford it? ¨ Do I really need it? ¨ If I have it, will it give me peace of mind?

44. Faith without action is delusion. Faith does not wait for miracles but produces them. If you think you can or if you think you can't, you are right. --

45. PEOPLE People who make things happen ¨ People who watch things happen ¨ People who wonder what happened

46. Change is nature's law

47. Laws of Attraction

48. Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win

49. Preparation means tolerating failure but never accepting it

50. PREPARATION admit it quickly ¨ not dwell on it ¨ learn from it ¨ not repeat it ¨ not assign blame or make excuses

51. LUCK FAVORS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES

52. A CRASH COURSE FOR SUCCESS ¨ Play to win and not to lose. ¨ Learn from other people's mistakes. ¨ Associate with people of high moral character. ¨ Give more than you get. ¨ Don't look for something for nothing. ¨ Always think long term. ¨ Evaluate your strengths and build on them. ¨ Always keep the larger picture in mind when making a decision. ¨ Never compromise your integrity.

53. Inspiration is changing thinking motivation is changing action

54. A few steps to motivate others Give recognition ¨ Give respect ¨ Make work interesting ¨ Be a good listener ¨ Throw a challenge ¨ Help but don't do for others what they should do for themselves

55. ACTION PLAN 1. Develop a sense of pride through training. 2. Reward performance. 3. Set well-defined, clear goals. 4. Set high expectations. 4. Set clear, measurable benchmarks. Evaluate the needs of others. 7. Make others part of your big picture. Set a good example by being a positive role model. Build the self-esteem of others.

56. High Self-Esteem Low Self-Esteem Talk about ideas Talk about people Caring attitude Critical attitude Humility Arrogance Respects authority Rebels against authority Courage of conviction Goes along to get along Confidence Confusion Concerned about character Concerned about reputation Assertive Aggressive Accepts responsibility Blames the whole world Self-interest Selfish Optimistic Fatalistic Understanding Greedy

57. Solitude Lonely Discuss Argue Believes in self-worth Believes in net worth only Guided Misguided Discipline Distorted sense of freedom Internally driven Externally driven Respects others Looks down on others Enjoys decency Enjoys vulgarity Knows limit Everything goes Giver Willing to learn Know it all Sensitive Touchy

58. Positive Self-Esteem self-respect 2. self-confidence 3. self-worth 4. self-acceptance 5. self-love 6. self-knowledge 7. self-discipline

59. Discipline is not something you do to but you do for those you care about

60. Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired but controlling the desire

61. Become Internally Driven, Not Externally Driven

62. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission

63. TO AVOID TENSION Why did I get upset? ¨ Why am I angry? ¨ Why am I depressed?

64. Develop a Mindset That Brings Happiness

65. Steps Look for the positive in every person and in every situation. ¨ Resolve to be happy. ¨ Set your own standards judiciously. ¨ Develop an immunity to negative criticism. ¨ Learn to find pleasure in every little thing. ¨ Remember all times are not the same. Ups and downs are part of life. ¨ Make the best of every situation. ¨ Keep yourself constructively occupied. ¨ Help others less fortunate than yourself. ¨ Learn to get over things. Don't brood. ¨ Forgive yourself and others. Don't hold guilt or bear grudges

66. Give Yourself Positive Auto-Suggestions

67. Attitude I can handle it. ¨ I can do it. ¨ I am good at SPEAKING. ¨ I have a good memory

68. I will pay more for the ability to deal with people than for any other ability under the sun.

69. LIFE IS AN ECHO

70. WE SEE THINGS NOT THE WAY THEY ARE BUT THE WAY WE ARE

71. "When you are good to others, you are best to yourself."

72. AVOID PHRASES everyone else does it, ¨ or no one does it, or ¨ it is all your fault.

73. Talk less; say more

74. a wise man thinks before speaking

75. Don't Criticize and Complain

76. Smile and Be Kind

77. A smile costs nothing, but it creates much.

78. Put Positive Interpretation on Other People's Behavior

79. "They never cared to return my call" or "They ignored me." That is negative. Maybe: ¨ they tried, but couldn't get through ¨ they left the message we didn't get ¨ they had an emergency ¨ they never got the message

80. Be a Good Listener

81. Be Enthusiastic

82. Live while you are alive. Don't die before you are dead

83. ACCEPT UR MISTAKE It appears to me ... ¨ I may be wrong ... Why do you feel that way? ¨ Can you explain a little? ¨ Can you be more specific?

84. Don't Gossip

85. Forgive and Forget

86. When people tell lies, they lose credibility. ¨ Once they have lost credibility, even when they tell the truth, no one believes them.

87. ACTIONS; SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

88. Be Understanding and Caring

89. Money will buy a great dog but only kindness will make him wag his tail.

90. Develop a Sense of Humor

91. Don't Be Sarcastic and Put Others Down

92. To Have a Friend, Be a Friend

93. True friendship. This is based on mutual respect and admiration

94. Show Empathy

95. Be a Better Person

96. Anything we do repeatedly becomes a habit. We learn by doing

97. By behaving courageously, we learn courage

98. Good habits are hard to come by but easy to live with.

99. the kind of books we read; ¨ the kind of movies and TV programs we watch; ¨ the kind of music we listen to; ¨ the kind of company we keep

100. THE GIGO PRINCIPLE:- The computer phrase GIGO (garbage in, garbage out) is very sound. Negativity in; negativity our. Positivity in; positivity out. Good in; good out.

101. DREAMS direction ¨ dedication ¨ determination ¨ discipline ¨ deadlines

102. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

103. Money will buy: ¨ Amusements but not happiness. ¨ A bed but not sleep. ¨ Books but not wisdom. ¨ A clock but not more time. ¨ Companions but not friends. ¨ Finery but not beauty. ¨ Food but not appetite. ¨ A house but not a home. Medicine but not health. ¨ A ring but not a marriage.

104. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED?

105. IS YOUR LIFE WORTH SAVING

106. Study as if you were to live forever. Live as if you were to die tomorrow

107. WINNING IS AN EVENT; BEING A WINNER IS A SPIRIT

108. Many people know how to be successful . Very few know how to handle success

109. In fact, competition makes competitive people grow

110. You don't put in 100% but you put in 200%.

111. A person becomes good when he actually does good rather than not doing wrong.

112. We need to dream beyond what is possible VISION :-

113. winners don't do different things, they do things differently