The document summarizes key parts of a book about overcoming habits that may hold one back from further success. Part 1 discusses common delusions that can arise from past success. Part 2 identifies 20 specific habits to avoid, such as taking too much credit. Part 3 presents a 7-step model for behavioral change, including getting feedback and listening better. Part 4 outlines 8 rules for effectively implementing changes, like focusing on measurable goals and addressing problems directly. The document analyzes how its contents apply to self-improvement.
Book summary - What got you here Won't get you thereNordiana Noordin
1. One of my all-time-favourite books.
2. My first attempt to summarise a book in a presentation form.
3. Works best for career advancement & life betterment.
Dear All,
Your hard work is paying off. You're doing well in your field. But you can't escape the nagging feeling that something's holding you back. Something's stopping you from getting to the next level. With out your knowledge, those habits which have brought you success - are now delaying your progress!
In his best seller,
" What Got You Here Won't Get You There ", Marshall Goldsmith talks about, "The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back From The Top".
Let me share with you this excellent Ppt I developed and use for training on this topic which might be useful for you.
Please do give me your valuable comments on the Ppt.
With best regards,
Shamim Rafeek
Book summary - What got you here Won't get you thereNordiana Noordin
1. One of my all-time-favourite books.
2. My first attempt to summarise a book in a presentation form.
3. Works best for career advancement & life betterment.
Dear All,
Your hard work is paying off. You're doing well in your field. But you can't escape the nagging feeling that something's holding you back. Something's stopping you from getting to the next level. With out your knowledge, those habits which have brought you success - are now delaying your progress!
In his best seller,
" What Got You Here Won't Get You There ", Marshall Goldsmith talks about, "The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back From The Top".
Let me share with you this excellent Ppt I developed and use for training on this topic which might be useful for you.
Please do give me your valuable comments on the Ppt.
With best regards,
Shamim Rafeek
In this book, Marshall Goldsmith begins by examining the trouble with
success, explaining how previous accomplishments often prevent leaders
from gaining more success. He analyzes why high achievers are so resistant
to change due to their delusion of success, pointing out that they can’t see
that what got them here won’t get them there.
These are people who do one annoying thing repeatedly on the job and don’t realize that this small flaw may sabotage their otherwise golden career. Worse yet, they do not realize that it’s happening and that they can fix it. Goldsmith details the 20 habits that hold you back from the top rung of the corporate ladder. In his experience, these are the most irritating interpersonal issues in the workplace. For each habit, he gives examples
and practical solutions you can implement. He then describes the 21st habit, which stands separate from the other 20 habits –– not because it is a flaw, but because it is often the root of an annoying behavior.
Finally, Goldsmith addresses the problem of how you can change your interpersonal relationships for the better, and ensure that you make your behavioral changes permanent.
This summary reveals how you can identify which of these 20 habits apply to you, and how to choose the one or two you should focus on.
In addition, you will learn:
The four key beliefs that make you successful but also resistant to change.
Why the higher you go, the more your problems are behavioral.
Why the 21st habit, goal obsession, may be the most destructive of all.
How to get good 360-degree feedback from your colleagues on your own.
How to overcome special challenges if you’re the one in charge at the workplace.
What got you here won't get you there.
A book by Marshall Goldsmith
Presented by Victor Lanza and Adrian Cahill,
As part of the pMBAClub.com based in Shanghai China.
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4Asad Ali
We've read and summarized the article by Dale Carnegie related to a phenomenal discussion on how to win over people by influencing one ideas to the masses.
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Do you always feel like you’re being judged by others? Do you feel like people judge you unfairly? Does it bother you?
You can’t stop others from judging you, but you can police it. Judgement reveals more about the person judging than the person being judged. Don’t let it ruin your day.
People do a poor job judging others because they have limited information and have biases.
Judgement always feels like a threat, but usually isn’t. Not all judgement is equal. Assess who, what, and when judgement matters.
Here are 12 questions to help you not take judgment seriously.
1. Will their judgement matter 3 years from now?
2. Can their judgement cause you any real harm?
3. Does the judgement have any significant meaning for you?
4. Are they actually judging you?
5. Do you admire and respect them?
6. Are they well intentioned?
7. Are they knowledgeable enough?
8. Do they understand your perspective?
9. Do you agree with their expectation of you?
10. Do you want feedback on that topic now?
11. Is the way they are delivering judgment serving you?
12. What does someone that you actually admire and respect think of you?
When judgement matters, engage in dialogue, ask for honest opinion, specific examples, and suggestions.
For the full article, mp3, visuals, and quotes go to: https://assertiveway.com/how-to-stop-feeling-like-you-are-being-judged
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http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-No-Abundance-Happiness/dp/1401945872
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To thrive in a new culture, immigrants must be selective with the advice they get, reach out to more people, ask for support sooner than later, advocate for themselves, and embrace negative feedback.
Immigrating to a new country can be overwhelming, lonely, and stressful. That is why it is essential to get the right people to support you, to be adaptable, and take command over your experience.
I interviewed Henri Nkuepo, international lawyer and author of “New Immigrant Playbook – Strategies for Success in Your New Country” about how immigrants can find success faster and with less hardship.
Henri talks about the importance of being selective in the advice you welcome, reaching out to the right people, speaking up at work and in life while being your own best advocate, not shying away from asking for support, and embracing negative feedback.
Here are my favorite quotes from my interview with Henri Nkuepo.
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When considering making a big change or starting a project, the overwhelm of the (long) path ahead can get in the way. Use this 10-step guide to take charge and conquer overwhelm, and get started.
In this book, Marshall Goldsmith begins by examining the trouble with
success, explaining how previous accomplishments often prevent leaders
from gaining more success. He analyzes why high achievers are so resistant
to change due to their delusion of success, pointing out that they can’t see
that what got them here won’t get them there.
These are people who do one annoying thing repeatedly on the job and don’t realize that this small flaw may sabotage their otherwise golden career. Worse yet, they do not realize that it’s happening and that they can fix it. Goldsmith details the 20 habits that hold you back from the top rung of the corporate ladder. In his experience, these are the most irritating interpersonal issues in the workplace. For each habit, he gives examples
and practical solutions you can implement. He then describes the 21st habit, which stands separate from the other 20 habits –– not because it is a flaw, but because it is often the root of an annoying behavior.
Finally, Goldsmith addresses the problem of how you can change your interpersonal relationships for the better, and ensure that you make your behavioral changes permanent.
This summary reveals how you can identify which of these 20 habits apply to you, and how to choose the one or two you should focus on.
In addition, you will learn:
The four key beliefs that make you successful but also resistant to change.
Why the higher you go, the more your problems are behavioral.
Why the 21st habit, goal obsession, may be the most destructive of all.
How to get good 360-degree feedback from your colleagues on your own.
How to overcome special challenges if you’re the one in charge at the workplace.
What got you here won't get you there.
A book by Marshall Goldsmith
Presented by Victor Lanza and Adrian Cahill,
As part of the pMBAClub.com based in Shanghai China.
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4Asad Ali
We've read and summarized the article by Dale Carnegie related to a phenomenal discussion on how to win over people by influencing one ideas to the masses.
How To Not Take Being Judged Too Seriously - To Be More Confident And Stop Wo...AssertiveWay
Do you always feel like you’re being judged by others? Do you feel like people judge you unfairly? Does it bother you?
You can’t stop others from judging you, but you can police it. Judgement reveals more about the person judging than the person being judged. Don’t let it ruin your day.
People do a poor job judging others because they have limited information and have biases.
Judgement always feels like a threat, but usually isn’t. Not all judgement is equal. Assess who, what, and when judgement matters.
Here are 12 questions to help you not take judgment seriously.
1. Will their judgement matter 3 years from now?
2. Can their judgement cause you any real harm?
3. Does the judgement have any significant meaning for you?
4. Are they actually judging you?
5. Do you admire and respect them?
6. Are they well intentioned?
7. Are they knowledgeable enough?
8. Do they understand your perspective?
9. Do you agree with their expectation of you?
10. Do you want feedback on that topic now?
11. Is the way they are delivering judgment serving you?
12. What does someone that you actually admire and respect think of you?
When judgement matters, engage in dialogue, ask for honest opinion, specific examples, and suggestions.
For the full article, mp3, visuals, and quotes go to: https://assertiveway.com/how-to-stop-feeling-like-you-are-being-judged
How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale CarnegieSameer Mathur
We all face problems maintaining our relationship with friends and family. There are various dynamics to all relations and it can get very complicated if you don't do it right. Dale Carnegie's "How To Win Friends and Influence People" is humbling yet empowering. The book is a guide to 'live life'. For book summary prepared by Prof. Sameer Mathur, click here.
The Power of No: 12 Things to Say “No” To TodayJamesAltucher
Adapted from the book "The Power of No: Because One Little Word Can Bring Health, Abundance, and Happiness" by James Altucher and Claudia Azula Altucher
http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-No-Abundance-Happiness/dp/1401945872
James Altucher Podcast
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-james-altucher-show/id794030859?mt=2
National Society of Black Engineers (NBSE) - Defeating the Imposter Syndrome:...Thoughtworks
What causes the Imposter Syndrome? Does it only apply to Women? What are some practical ways to overcome it? All this and a lot more to empower women to show the world all that they're capable of
5 Tips To Thrive As An Immigrant - Essential Skills To Be Successful In A New...AssertiveWay
To thrive in a new culture, immigrants must be selective with the advice they get, reach out to more people, ask for support sooner than later, advocate for themselves, and embrace negative feedback.
Immigrating to a new country can be overwhelming, lonely, and stressful. That is why it is essential to get the right people to support you, to be adaptable, and take command over your experience.
I interviewed Henri Nkuepo, international lawyer and author of “New Immigrant Playbook – Strategies for Success in Your New Country” about how immigrants can find success faster and with less hardship.
Henri talks about the importance of being selective in the advice you welcome, reaching out to the right people, speaking up at work and in life while being your own best advocate, not shying away from asking for support, and embracing negative feedback.
Here are my favorite quotes from my interview with Henri Nkuepo.
How To Conquer the Overwhelm of Hard Work-A 10-Step Take-Charge GuideRitu Rao, DDS
When considering making a big change or starting a project, the overwhelm of the (long) path ahead can get in the way. Use this 10-step guide to take charge and conquer overwhelm, and get started.
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Receiving good feedback gives you powerful information that can dramatically decreases the time required to master a skill or help you blow down the barriers that prevent you from getting to the next level. If only you knew.
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No one wants to hate their job.
In the last decade, I’ve been promoted every year, gotten jobs I wasn’t objectively qualified for, and had fun at work - because I love the daily opportunity work gives me to help others and to grow.
Everywhere I’ve worked, it’s surprised me how often people who want to get promoted burn out because they focus on the wrong things, or repeatedly do things that the at home audience knows don’t make sense. Work is like investing; if you choose the right things to invest in increases your value and the dividends you get out of your work life.
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2. Build-up
From perspective to structure & theory so you can eventually put it to work
Part 1:
The Trouble With Success
Part 2:
The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back from the Top
Part 3:
How We Can Change For The Better
Part 4:
Pulling Out The Stops
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3. Part 1: The Trouble With Success
The succes delusions and believes that keep the delusions alive
5 Delusions as a direct result of our ‘succes’, we
1. Overestimate our contribution
2. Take credit for successes that belong to others
3. Have an elevated opinion of our skills and standing among peers
4. Conveniently ignore the ostly failures & time-consuming failures
5. Exaggerate our impact on net profit, we don’t count hidden costs
4 Believes that carried us here, but maybe holding us back getting there:
1. I Have succeeded (skill & talent)
2. I Can succeed (confidence)
3. I Will succeed (motivation)
4. I Choose to succeed (committed)
>> The above makes us superstitious, “I don’t believe that stuff, I’m successful because I earned it
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4. Part 2: The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back from the Top
Knowing what habits to stop is key in getting there
1. Winning to much
Habits that I show
2. Adding too much value
3. Passing judgment
Winning to much
Surpress it
4. Making destructive comments
5. Starting with “No,” “But” or “However”
Adding too much value
6. Telling the world how smart we are
The higher I go in the organization, the more I
7. Speaking when angry need to make other people winners. Not make
8. Negativity, or “let me explain why that won’t work” it about winning myself
9. Withholding information
10. Filing to give proper recognition Starting with “No,” “But” or “However”
11. Claiming credit that we don’t deserve Create a fine system for every time I use the
12. Making excuses
forbidden words above
13. Clinging to the past
Failing to give proper recognition
14. Playing favorites
Make a list of important people, check twice a
15. Refusing to express regret week on how much I recognized good things
16. Not listening
17. Failing to express gratitude Failing to express gratitude
18. Punishing the messenger Hear people out, say thank you
19. Passing the buck !, I’ll never learn less!
20. An excessive need to be “me”
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5. Part 3: How We Can Change For The Better
One step at the time in a 7 step model.
[85%] Feedback
• Use it more often
[90%] Apologizing
• Make it more active
[50%] Telling the World, or Advertising
• Don’t tell, advertise & be specific. Tell is verbally, not on paper
[95%] Listening
• Be sure you understand what I hear
1. Change… behavior
[50%] Thanking
• Say it more often, I do think it. 2. Describe in dialogue
3. Two suggestions for the future
[75%] Following up
• Do it consequently, never let go 4. That’s a good idea, thx!
[80%] Practicing Feedforward
• Just do it (p. 171/172)
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6. Part 4: Pulling Out The Stops
Not 7 steps but 8 rules, check and challenge…
1. You might not have a disease that behavioral change can cure
2. Pick the right thing to change
3. Don’t delude yourself about what you Really must change
4. Don’t hide from the truth you need to hear
5. There is no ideal behavior
6. If you can measure it, you can achieve it
7. Monetize the result, create a solution
8. The best time to change is now
>> Make a “how to handle me” memo
>> Make a “stop doing list” in stead of a “to do list”
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