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IMPROVING INTERPERSONAL
EFFECTIVENESS
PROF LEENA CHATTERJEE
INTERPERSONAL SKILLS
• UNDERSTANDING AND MANAGING
RELATIONSHIPS
• INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
• INFLUENCING SKILLS
• MANAGING CONFLICTS/
NEGOTIATIONS
• MANAGING TEAMS
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
(J.R. Gibbs)
DEFENSIVE
COMMUNICATION
1. EVALUATION
2. CONTROL
3. STRATEGY
4. SUPERIORITY
5. NEUTRALITY
6. CERTAINTY
SUPPORTIVE
COMMUNICATION
• DESCRIPTION
• PROBLEM-SOLVING
• SPONTANIETY
• EQUALITY
• EMPATHY
• PROVISIONALISM
EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONAL
COMMUNICATION
• Clear objectives
• Share / clarify
objectives
• Clarity of expression
• Avoid hidden
agendas
• Direct communication
preferable
• Understanding others
– empathy
• Listening Skills
• Ability to give and
receive feed-back
• Managing emotions
• Positive attitude
toward others
(willingness to build
trust and openness)
• Positive self concept
JOHARI WINDOW
JOSEPH LUFT & HARRY INGRAM
OPEN
SELF
BLIND
SELF
HIDDEN
SELF
UNKNOWN
SELF
D
I
S
C
L
O
S
U
R
E
GET FEEDBACK
KNOWN
TO
OTHERS
UNKNOWN
TO
OTHERS
KNOWN
TO SELF
UNKNOWN
TO SELF
BENEFITS OF GIVING
FEEDBACK
• IT REDUCES UNCERTAINTY
• IT HELPS SOLVE PROBLEMS
• IT BUILDS TRUST
• IT STRENGTHENS RELATIONSHIPS
• IT IMPROVES WORK QUALITY
GIVING FEEDBACK
• BE DESCRIPTIVE, NOT EVALUATIVE
• FEEDBACK SHOULD BE SPECIFIC
• FOCUS ON THE BEHAVIOUR NOT THE
PERSON
• FEEDBACK SHOULD BE TIMELY
• FEEDBACK MUST BE ONGOING
• FEEDBACK MUST BE INTENDED TO
HELP
RECEIVING FEEDBACK
• AVOID QUICK ACCEPTANCE OR
DENIAL/ USE OF HUMOUR
• BE OPEN TO FEEDBACK
• DO NOT BE DEFENSIVE/ TRUST
INTENT
• GET AS MUCH INFORMATION AS
POSSIBLE
• GIVE FEEDBACK SERIOUS
CONSIDERATION

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Managing interpersonal relationships lc

  • 2. INTERPERSONAL SKILLS • UNDERSTANDING AND MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS • INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION • INFLUENCING SKILLS • MANAGING CONFLICTS/ NEGOTIATIONS • MANAGING TEAMS
  • 3. INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION (J.R. Gibbs) DEFENSIVE COMMUNICATION 1. EVALUATION 2. CONTROL 3. STRATEGY 4. SUPERIORITY 5. NEUTRALITY 6. CERTAINTY SUPPORTIVE COMMUNICATION • DESCRIPTION • PROBLEM-SOLVING • SPONTANIETY • EQUALITY • EMPATHY • PROVISIONALISM
  • 4. EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION • Clear objectives • Share / clarify objectives • Clarity of expression • Avoid hidden agendas • Direct communication preferable • Understanding others – empathy • Listening Skills • Ability to give and receive feed-back • Managing emotions • Positive attitude toward others (willingness to build trust and openness) • Positive self concept
  • 5. JOHARI WINDOW JOSEPH LUFT & HARRY INGRAM OPEN SELF BLIND SELF HIDDEN SELF UNKNOWN SELF D I S C L O S U R E GET FEEDBACK KNOWN TO OTHERS UNKNOWN TO OTHERS KNOWN TO SELF UNKNOWN TO SELF
  • 6. BENEFITS OF GIVING FEEDBACK • IT REDUCES UNCERTAINTY • IT HELPS SOLVE PROBLEMS • IT BUILDS TRUST • IT STRENGTHENS RELATIONSHIPS • IT IMPROVES WORK QUALITY
  • 7. GIVING FEEDBACK • BE DESCRIPTIVE, NOT EVALUATIVE • FEEDBACK SHOULD BE SPECIFIC • FOCUS ON THE BEHAVIOUR NOT THE PERSON • FEEDBACK SHOULD BE TIMELY • FEEDBACK MUST BE ONGOING • FEEDBACK MUST BE INTENDED TO HELP
  • 8. RECEIVING FEEDBACK • AVOID QUICK ACCEPTANCE OR DENIAL/ USE OF HUMOUR • BE OPEN TO FEEDBACK • DO NOT BE DEFENSIVE/ TRUST INTENT • GET AS MUCH INFORMATION AS POSSIBLE • GIVE FEEDBACK SERIOUS CONSIDERATION