This document discusses challenging behaviors that foster children may exhibit and strategies for managing those behaviors. It notes behaviors like withdrawing, being easily exhausted or excited, trying to control people, and being destructive or aggressive. It advises foster parents to listen, be consistent, use praise, set realistic expectations, and help children articulate goals rather than using physical punishment, threats, or humiliation. The document encourages discussion of strategies for responding when feeling pushed too far by a child's behavior.