Thank you for sharing your ideas. While I aim to provide helpful suggestions, discussing specific parenting situations would require understanding more context. Perhaps we could talk more generally about effective parenting strategies. The most important thing is showing your child unconditional love and support each day.
Here are some of our favorite things we like to do at our house to strengthen good behavior:
- Name the Good Playtime - We set aside time each day just to play and have fun together without any demands, focusing only on describing what the other person is doing in a positive way.
- Sure Y! First X, Then Y! - When my child asks for something, I start by saying "Sure you can have X" and then follow with a simple request or task for them to do first before getting to enjoy Y.
- Micro Choices - I offer very small, easy choices that don't really affect the outcome but still give my child a sense of control over little decisions.
- Super Kid Meet
Guiding Your Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 3kkeintz
This document provides guidance on parenting a strong-willed child. It discusses mapping out a weekly schedule with fixed time events and consistent routines to provide structure. It also recommends setting aside daily and weekly one-on-one time between parent and child. The document emphasizes making time for undivided attention and conversation to strengthen the parent-child relationship.
This document provides guidance on parenting a strong-willed child. It discusses mapping out a weekly schedule with fixed time events and consistent routines to provide structure. It also recommends setting aside daily and weekly one-on-one time between parent and child. The document emphasizes the importance of consistency, using choices to engage the child, and changing demands later rather than during challenging behavior.
This document provides guidance on using positive reinforcement to guide strong-willed children. It discusses mapping out a consistent weekly family schedule with fixed routines and events. It also recommends setting aside daily one-on-one time between parent and child using a timer to strengthen the parent-child relationship. Regular family meetings without children provide an opportunity for parents to connect without interruption.
This document discusses parenting strategies and behaviorism concepts. It includes:
- A quiz about parenting books and behaviorism terms like antecedents, consequences, reinforcement, and punishment.
- Explanations of key behaviorism concepts like establishing operations, discriminative stimuli, and positive/negative reinforcement and punishment.
- A discussion of how to objectively define behaviors for things like tantrums.
- An emphasis on understanding the function of behaviors to change them.
- Planning steps for creating a "Better Way" parenting plan at home.
- Announcement of a bonus workshop on planning parenting strategies using behaviorism principles.
Here is a 30-second video of a typically tricky time at our house:
[VIDEO OF CHILD REFUSING TO PUT SHOES ON TO LEAVE THE HOUSE. PARENT REMAINS CALM AND OFFERS MICRO CHOICES "WOULD YOU LIKE TO PUT YOUR LEFT SHOE ON FIRST OR YOUR RIGHT SHOE ON FIRST?"]
We've been working on making demands more instructive by offering specific choices, rather than vague demands like "put your shoes on." This seems to be helping reduce power struggles at tricky transition times like getting ready to leave the house. I'm excited to try more micro-choices and see if it continues to make these moments less stressful.
Building Resiliency And Success In Childrenmaadams
The document discusses how praise can impact a child's mindset and resilience. A study found that praising children for their effort led them to choose harder tasks, while praising intelligence led them to avoid risks. Those praised for effort improved on tests over time, while those praised for intelligence performed worse. The document advocates praising effort rather than innate qualities, embracing failure, and using stories of perseverance to build character.
Here are some of our favorite things we like to do at our house to strengthen good behavior:
- Name the Good Playtime - We set aside time each day just to play and have fun together without any demands, focusing only on describing what the other person is doing in a positive way.
- Sure Y! First X, Then Y! - When my child asks for something, I start by saying "Sure you can have X" and then follow with a simple request or task for them to do first before getting to enjoy Y.
- Micro Choices - I offer very small, easy choices that don't really affect the outcome but still give my child a sense of control over little decisions.
- Super Kid Meet
Guiding Your Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 3kkeintz
This document provides guidance on parenting a strong-willed child. It discusses mapping out a weekly schedule with fixed time events and consistent routines to provide structure. It also recommends setting aside daily and weekly one-on-one time between parent and child. The document emphasizes making time for undivided attention and conversation to strengthen the parent-child relationship.
This document provides guidance on parenting a strong-willed child. It discusses mapping out a weekly schedule with fixed time events and consistent routines to provide structure. It also recommends setting aside daily and weekly one-on-one time between parent and child. The document emphasizes the importance of consistency, using choices to engage the child, and changing demands later rather than during challenging behavior.
This document provides guidance on using positive reinforcement to guide strong-willed children. It discusses mapping out a consistent weekly family schedule with fixed routines and events. It also recommends setting aside daily one-on-one time between parent and child using a timer to strengthen the parent-child relationship. Regular family meetings without children provide an opportunity for parents to connect without interruption.
This document discusses parenting strategies and behaviorism concepts. It includes:
- A quiz about parenting books and behaviorism terms like antecedents, consequences, reinforcement, and punishment.
- Explanations of key behaviorism concepts like establishing operations, discriminative stimuli, and positive/negative reinforcement and punishment.
- A discussion of how to objectively define behaviors for things like tantrums.
- An emphasis on understanding the function of behaviors to change them.
- Planning steps for creating a "Better Way" parenting plan at home.
- Announcement of a bonus workshop on planning parenting strategies using behaviorism principles.
Here is a 30-second video of a typically tricky time at our house:
[VIDEO OF CHILD REFUSING TO PUT SHOES ON TO LEAVE THE HOUSE. PARENT REMAINS CALM AND OFFERS MICRO CHOICES "WOULD YOU LIKE TO PUT YOUR LEFT SHOE ON FIRST OR YOUR RIGHT SHOE ON FIRST?"]
We've been working on making demands more instructive by offering specific choices, rather than vague demands like "put your shoes on." This seems to be helping reduce power struggles at tricky transition times like getting ready to leave the house. I'm excited to try more micro-choices and see if it continues to make these moments less stressful.
Building Resiliency And Success In Childrenmaadams
The document discusses how praise can impact a child's mindset and resilience. A study found that praising children for their effort led them to choose harder tasks, while praising intelligence led them to avoid risks. Those praised for effort improved on tests over time, while those praised for intelligence performed worse. The document advocates praising effort rather than innate qualities, embracing failure, and using stories of perseverance to build character.
Steps to resolve conflict with your strong willedInpeaks Reviews
This document provides steps to resolve conflict with a strong-willed defiant child. It begins by explaining that defiance can go beyond normal developmental stages and may be driven by peer pressure, trauma, family issues, or mental health conditions like ODD. Defiant children think differently, see requests as opportunities for arguments, and use thinking errors like playing the victim. The steps recommend understanding how the child thinks, avoiding yelling, listening to understand their perspective, using positive reinforcement, redirecting their energy, setting clear boundaries, and getting help if the behavior escalates or could be due to conditions like ODD.
This document discusses Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development as they relate to the author's own life experiences. The author analyzes each of Erikson's eight stages - Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame/Doubt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority, Identity vs. Role Confusion, Intimacy vs. Isolation, Generativity vs. Stagnation, and Integrity vs. Despair - and discusses how they were influenced by being adopted from Russia as an infant, growing up with two older brothers, experiences in grade school, and developing interests in activities like cheerleading and diving as a teenager. The author reflects on how they have successfully navig
This article discusses self-esteem and provides tips to boost confidence. It defines self-esteem as how people view their ability to cope with challenges and find happiness. Self-esteem develops from experiences with family and others when growing up. High self-esteem is associated with liking new people and expressing oneself, while low self-esteem involves negative beliefs and isolating behaviors. The article recommends forgiving mistakes, focusing on strengths, surrounding with positivity, being honest, facing fears, and helping others to increase self-esteem.
This document provides an overview and instructions for administering the Ages and Stages Questionnaire, third edition (ASQ-3) developmental screening. It discusses the learning objectives, tips for administration, how to mark responses, examples of communication and problem-solving questions from the screening, how to score responses, and acknowledges the presenter. Additional early childhood provider training opportunities on developmental screening and other topics are also listed.
Most of the students responding believe that many of their peers at their school have a fixed mindset. They feel pressure to perform well and avoid failure. Some examples provided include students not taking notes because they feel entitled to get good grades without effort, focusing only on grades rather than feedback, and being afraid to try new things that may result in failure. However, some responses also acknowledge friends who worked to improve in areas they struggled with, showing a growth mindset.
Overadaptation - Passive behavior - Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA ...Manu Melwin Joy
The document discusses passive behaviors in transactional analysis. It provides an example of over adaptation, where a woman does the dishes and makes tea without being asked after coming home from work to see dishes piled up. Over adaptation occurs when a person complies with what they believe others want without checking or considering their own wishes. It is difficult to detect because it appears the person is thinking and being helpful. The person is actually discounting their ability to act on their own options and following what they think others want instead.
This reflective practice guidance log describes two incidents involving toddlers ages 17-18 months. In the first incident, two toddlers fought over a toy and one became upset when it was taken away. The teacher ignored the upset behavior, which was an appropriate strategy, and the toddler calmed down on their own. In the second incident, two toddlers began climbing bookshelves during free play. The teacher redirected them by telling them their feet belong on the floor, which the toddlers responded well to. The teacher's strengths are using appropriate guidance strategies, but could improve by being more preventative to avoid situations in the future.
The observer witnessed an interaction between herself and a toddler named Evelyn. Evelyn pulled the observer's hair twice while she was reading a story to the children. When confronted by the observer, Evelyn cried and falsely claimed the observer hurt her arm. The early childhood educator was called over and had Evelyn apologize to the observer. The observer accepted the apology but emphasized the importance of always telling the truth.
This document discusses the ethical and legal responsibilities of classroom teachers. It covers topics like professional boundaries, reporting requirements, negligence, and policies. Professional boundaries are important to establish appropriate teacher-student relationships and protect teachers from allegations. Teachers are mandatory reporters who must report any suspected child abuse or situations that could jeopardize a student's welfare. Negligence occurs when a teacher fails to properly perform job duties as described by their contract or policies. Teachers are responsible for understanding and following all relevant policies, and seeking membership in professional organizations can provide legal protection. It is not acceptable to ask for forgiveness for negligence or policy violations.
PGIS 6: Sex with Marja for 5th and 6th Grade Parentsguest282d275
Hear about SGS' sexual education delivered by Head of School and veteran sexuality educator Marja Brandon. How can you partner with us to have conversations at home? How can we support informed and empowered girls?
Guiding Your Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 3kkeintz
This document provides guidance for parents on managing strong-willed children. It discusses techniques like observing children to understand their behavior, preventing issues by preparing for challenges, and differentially reinforcing desired behaviors over undesired ones. The techniques aim to help parents practice being happy and boring in response to bad behaviors. The document also outlines tools for parents like naming good behaviors, using Premack's principle to motivate children, and holding regular family meetings. It provides examples and discussion questions to help parents implement these strategies at home.
The document provides an overview of week 1 content from a workshop on guiding strong-willed children. It includes perspectives on what constitutes a strong-willed or spirited child. It discusses operational definitions in behavior analysis and their importance for clear communication and ensuring the right response to behavior. Parents are given exercises to collaboratively map their weekly schedule, dedicate time for a "Daily Five" activity with their child, and have a weekly "How Are Things" meeting to discuss progress.
The document provides guidance on dealing with strong-willed children. It discusses offering choices to children to decrease challenging behavior and increase cooperation. Choices can include open-ended questions, structured options between two activities, micro-choices about small details, and choices between the child completing a task or the parent helping. The document also advises parents to identify antecedents, or events that occur before a behavior, to reduce opportunities for undesirable behaviors. It suggests avoiding "junk demands" that are vague, unnecessary, unenforceable, or posed as questions.
The document discusses reasons why teenagers rebel against their parents and tips for dealing with defiant children. It identifies the top 5 reasons for teenage rebellion as struggling with identity, seeking attention, desire for acceptance, wanting control, and seeking freedom. Additionally, it provides 10 tips for parents, including praising good behavior, using positive reinforcement, ignoring annoying behaviors, staying calm during tantrums, and ensuring punishment is brief and consistent. The overall message is that understanding why teens rebel and focusing on positive attention and reinforcement of good behaviors can help improve parent-child relationships.
Praise can be an effective form of positive reinforcement when used strategically. Some key points about praise:
- Praise should describe the specific behavior being reinforced (e.g. "Thank you for sharing your toys," rather than a general "Good job"). This helps the child understand what they did to earn the praise.
- Praise works best when it is sincere and immediate after the desired behavior occurs.
- Too much non-specific praise may decrease its reinforcing value over time. It's best to reserve praise for behaviors you truly want to see increase.
- Praise alone may not be as effective as praise combined with another reinforcer like a preferred activity or tangible item.
- The goal
Guiding the Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 1kkeintz
This document provides an overview of applied behavior analysis and strategies for guiding strong-willed children. It discusses applied behavior analysis as applying basic science to improve lives through observable and measurable behaviors. It also discusses parenting a strong-willed child by creating space to identify parenting goals, equipping parents to parent effectively and consistently over time, and expecting gradual growth. Specific parenting strategies are outlined, such as observing to understand behavior, preparing to prevent problems, and using tools like naming good behavior. The document is intended to help parents of the weekly workshop on guiding their strong-willed child through developing family values, behavioral analysis techniques, and a daily positive parenting practice.
This document provides guidance on managing a strong-willed child's behavior using positive reinforcement techniques. It discusses using specific praise and preferential reinforcers to teach new behaviors. Problem behaviors are best reduced by strengthening desirable behaviors, not weakening undesirable ones. The key is finding an acceptable replacement behavior that serves the same functional purpose for the child. A road map activity can help children understand and choose behaviors that "work" versus those that don't.
Teen Depression: A Common, Treatable ConditionSummit Health
Statistics show 10 % to 15% of teen’s experience symptoms of depression, and an estimated 1 in 8 teens will be diagnosed with clinical depression. If you are a parent concerned about your teen’s psychological well-being, check out this presentation about risk factors for teen depression and how to recognize potential for self-harm. Treatment options such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and ways you can support treatment
to help your teen achieve her or his goals for a bright outlook
will be discussed.
This document provides an introduction to classical and operant conditioning theories of learning. It defines learning as a long-term change in behavior based on experience. Classical conditioning is described through Pavlov's dog experiment in which dogs learned to associate the sound of a bell with food. Operant conditioning is explained as how behavior is strengthened or weakened by consequences, like reinforcement and punishment. Examples are given of positive and negative reinforcement as well as positive and negative punishment. The document aims to explain how environments and consequences impact behavior.
Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative approach to the th...Manu Melwin Joy
Each time we meet a problem, We have two options. We can use the full power of our grown up thinking, feeling and action to solve the problem or We can go to into the script. Discounting is defined as unawarely ignoring information relevant to the solution to the problem.
Steps to resolve conflict with your strong willedInpeaks Reviews
This document provides steps to resolve conflict with a strong-willed defiant child. It begins by explaining that defiance can go beyond normal developmental stages and may be driven by peer pressure, trauma, family issues, or mental health conditions like ODD. Defiant children think differently, see requests as opportunities for arguments, and use thinking errors like playing the victim. The steps recommend understanding how the child thinks, avoiding yelling, listening to understand their perspective, using positive reinforcement, redirecting their energy, setting clear boundaries, and getting help if the behavior escalates or could be due to conditions like ODD.
This document discusses Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development as they relate to the author's own life experiences. The author analyzes each of Erikson's eight stages - Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame/Doubt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority, Identity vs. Role Confusion, Intimacy vs. Isolation, Generativity vs. Stagnation, and Integrity vs. Despair - and discusses how they were influenced by being adopted from Russia as an infant, growing up with two older brothers, experiences in grade school, and developing interests in activities like cheerleading and diving as a teenager. The author reflects on how they have successfully navig
This article discusses self-esteem and provides tips to boost confidence. It defines self-esteem as how people view their ability to cope with challenges and find happiness. Self-esteem develops from experiences with family and others when growing up. High self-esteem is associated with liking new people and expressing oneself, while low self-esteem involves negative beliefs and isolating behaviors. The article recommends forgiving mistakes, focusing on strengths, surrounding with positivity, being honest, facing fears, and helping others to increase self-esteem.
This document provides an overview and instructions for administering the Ages and Stages Questionnaire, third edition (ASQ-3) developmental screening. It discusses the learning objectives, tips for administration, how to mark responses, examples of communication and problem-solving questions from the screening, how to score responses, and acknowledges the presenter. Additional early childhood provider training opportunities on developmental screening and other topics are also listed.
Most of the students responding believe that many of their peers at their school have a fixed mindset. They feel pressure to perform well and avoid failure. Some examples provided include students not taking notes because they feel entitled to get good grades without effort, focusing only on grades rather than feedback, and being afraid to try new things that may result in failure. However, some responses also acknowledge friends who worked to improve in areas they struggled with, showing a growth mindset.
Overadaptation - Passive behavior - Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA ...Manu Melwin Joy
The document discusses passive behaviors in transactional analysis. It provides an example of over adaptation, where a woman does the dishes and makes tea without being asked after coming home from work to see dishes piled up. Over adaptation occurs when a person complies with what they believe others want without checking or considering their own wishes. It is difficult to detect because it appears the person is thinking and being helpful. The person is actually discounting their ability to act on their own options and following what they think others want instead.
This reflective practice guidance log describes two incidents involving toddlers ages 17-18 months. In the first incident, two toddlers fought over a toy and one became upset when it was taken away. The teacher ignored the upset behavior, which was an appropriate strategy, and the toddler calmed down on their own. In the second incident, two toddlers began climbing bookshelves during free play. The teacher redirected them by telling them their feet belong on the floor, which the toddlers responded well to. The teacher's strengths are using appropriate guidance strategies, but could improve by being more preventative to avoid situations in the future.
The observer witnessed an interaction between herself and a toddler named Evelyn. Evelyn pulled the observer's hair twice while she was reading a story to the children. When confronted by the observer, Evelyn cried and falsely claimed the observer hurt her arm. The early childhood educator was called over and had Evelyn apologize to the observer. The observer accepted the apology but emphasized the importance of always telling the truth.
This document discusses the ethical and legal responsibilities of classroom teachers. It covers topics like professional boundaries, reporting requirements, negligence, and policies. Professional boundaries are important to establish appropriate teacher-student relationships and protect teachers from allegations. Teachers are mandatory reporters who must report any suspected child abuse or situations that could jeopardize a student's welfare. Negligence occurs when a teacher fails to properly perform job duties as described by their contract or policies. Teachers are responsible for understanding and following all relevant policies, and seeking membership in professional organizations can provide legal protection. It is not acceptable to ask for forgiveness for negligence or policy violations.
PGIS 6: Sex with Marja for 5th and 6th Grade Parentsguest282d275
Hear about SGS' sexual education delivered by Head of School and veteran sexuality educator Marja Brandon. How can you partner with us to have conversations at home? How can we support informed and empowered girls?
Guiding Your Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 3kkeintz
This document provides guidance for parents on managing strong-willed children. It discusses techniques like observing children to understand their behavior, preventing issues by preparing for challenges, and differentially reinforcing desired behaviors over undesired ones. The techniques aim to help parents practice being happy and boring in response to bad behaviors. The document also outlines tools for parents like naming good behaviors, using Premack's principle to motivate children, and holding regular family meetings. It provides examples and discussion questions to help parents implement these strategies at home.
The document provides an overview of week 1 content from a workshop on guiding strong-willed children. It includes perspectives on what constitutes a strong-willed or spirited child. It discusses operational definitions in behavior analysis and their importance for clear communication and ensuring the right response to behavior. Parents are given exercises to collaboratively map their weekly schedule, dedicate time for a "Daily Five" activity with their child, and have a weekly "How Are Things" meeting to discuss progress.
The document provides guidance on dealing with strong-willed children. It discusses offering choices to children to decrease challenging behavior and increase cooperation. Choices can include open-ended questions, structured options between two activities, micro-choices about small details, and choices between the child completing a task or the parent helping. The document also advises parents to identify antecedents, or events that occur before a behavior, to reduce opportunities for undesirable behaviors. It suggests avoiding "junk demands" that are vague, unnecessary, unenforceable, or posed as questions.
The document discusses reasons why teenagers rebel against their parents and tips for dealing with defiant children. It identifies the top 5 reasons for teenage rebellion as struggling with identity, seeking attention, desire for acceptance, wanting control, and seeking freedom. Additionally, it provides 10 tips for parents, including praising good behavior, using positive reinforcement, ignoring annoying behaviors, staying calm during tantrums, and ensuring punishment is brief and consistent. The overall message is that understanding why teens rebel and focusing on positive attention and reinforcement of good behaviors can help improve parent-child relationships.
Praise can be an effective form of positive reinforcement when used strategically. Some key points about praise:
- Praise should describe the specific behavior being reinforced (e.g. "Thank you for sharing your toys," rather than a general "Good job"). This helps the child understand what they did to earn the praise.
- Praise works best when it is sincere and immediate after the desired behavior occurs.
- Too much non-specific praise may decrease its reinforcing value over time. It's best to reserve praise for behaviors you truly want to see increase.
- Praise alone may not be as effective as praise combined with another reinforcer like a preferred activity or tangible item.
- The goal
Guiding the Strong Willed Child Workshop, Week 1kkeintz
This document provides an overview of applied behavior analysis and strategies for guiding strong-willed children. It discusses applied behavior analysis as applying basic science to improve lives through observable and measurable behaviors. It also discusses parenting a strong-willed child by creating space to identify parenting goals, equipping parents to parent effectively and consistently over time, and expecting gradual growth. Specific parenting strategies are outlined, such as observing to understand behavior, preparing to prevent problems, and using tools like naming good behavior. The document is intended to help parents of the weekly workshop on guiding their strong-willed child through developing family values, behavioral analysis techniques, and a daily positive parenting practice.
This document provides guidance on managing a strong-willed child's behavior using positive reinforcement techniques. It discusses using specific praise and preferential reinforcers to teach new behaviors. Problem behaviors are best reduced by strengthening desirable behaviors, not weakening undesirable ones. The key is finding an acceptable replacement behavior that serves the same functional purpose for the child. A road map activity can help children understand and choose behaviors that "work" versus those that don't.
Teen Depression: A Common, Treatable ConditionSummit Health
Statistics show 10 % to 15% of teen’s experience symptoms of depression, and an estimated 1 in 8 teens will be diagnosed with clinical depression. If you are a parent concerned about your teen’s psychological well-being, check out this presentation about risk factors for teen depression and how to recognize potential for self-harm. Treatment options such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and ways you can support treatment
to help your teen achieve her or his goals for a bright outlook
will be discussed.
This document provides an introduction to classical and operant conditioning theories of learning. It defines learning as a long-term change in behavior based on experience. Classical conditioning is described through Pavlov's dog experiment in which dogs learned to associate the sound of a bell with food. Operant conditioning is explained as how behavior is strengthened or weakened by consequences, like reinforcement and punishment. Examples are given of positive and negative reinforcement as well as positive and negative punishment. The document aims to explain how environments and consequences impact behavior.
Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative approach to the th...Manu Melwin Joy
Each time we meet a problem, We have two options. We can use the full power of our grown up thinking, feeling and action to solve the problem or We can go to into the script. Discounting is defined as unawarely ignoring information relevant to the solution to the problem.
On Course - Personal Responsiblity - Inner Voices - Wise ChoicesSarah Rach
The document discusses the concept of personal responsibility and the difference between having a victim mentality versus a creator mentality. It states that successful students adopt the role of creator, believing their choices shape their lives, while struggling students see themselves as victims of outside forces. The document provides examples of victim language like making excuses and blaming others, compared to creator language like accepting responsibility and seeking solutions. It emphasizes the importance of conscious decision making and owning one's problems rather than giving up or pretending problems belong to others.
This document provides information and advice from Angela Searcy on positive parenting strategies. It discusses the importance of building strong, positive relationships with children in order to encourage good behavior. It provides tips for parents, such as using positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, solving problems constructively, and helping children manage their emotions. The document emphasizes catching children being good and filling their "relationship tank" to promote healthy development.
The document discusses using positive reinforcement strategies to guide strong-willed children. It explains that behavior is functional, meaning it occurs to achieve a desired outcome. Reinforcement, whether positive or negative, increases the future probability of the behavior. The document provides examples of how to use a "Sure! First x, Then y!" strategy to motivate children to complete less preferred tasks by offering a preferred activity contingent upon completing a small initial request. Parents are encouraged to practice this strategy at home by creating brief training videos to share.
This is a material that can be used to introduce people to learn about being 'healthy' at work or in personal life by practicing self discovery, proactive mindset, and growth mindset
This document provides 10 tips for positive parenting to improve the parent-child relationship. The tips include spending one-on-one time with your child, establishing clear rules and routines, focusing on positive behaviors, using meaningful consequences, and reflecting with your child on their actions. The overall goals are to develop a healthy relationship and provide parents with strategies tailored to each unique child.
This document provides guidance on addressing challenging behaviors in children. It discusses mapping behaviors to understand their function, using reinforcement, preference assessments, extinction, and creating a "DIY A Better Way" plan. The plan involves understanding the problem behavior, planning a replacement, advertising the change, including the child, practicing the replacement, allowing the new rule, and celebrating success. Examples are given for creating individual plans for children named Fred and guidance is provided for an at-home extension activity.
This document provides 8 steps for positive discipline with children: 1) Model desired behaviors, 2) Establish rules and logical consequences, 3) Set limits and follow through, 4) Be consistent in enforcing consequences, 5) Give children choices when possible, 6) Use a timer to gamify chores, 7) Implement behavior charts with stickers to reward positive actions, 8) Answer any questions. The overall message is that discipline works best when it is positive, consistent, and involves setting clear expectations and consequences.
The document provides guidance for parents on guiding strong-willed children. It discusses decreasing a child's need for challenging behavior by focusing on meeting their physical, attention, activity and escape needs in positive ways. It also emphasizes making challenging behavior boring and broken while celebrating and rewarding good behavior. Real and lasting change takes consistent practice of good habits over time.
This document discusses 10 keys to raising successful, happy, and confident children. It focuses on the importance of setting goals, catching children doing things right through specific praise, and using a praise-correct-praise approach when providing feedback. The author shares examples from their experience as a martial arts instructor working with thousands of children. They emphasize focusing on and rewarding positive behaviors to encourage more of those behaviors, rather than just correcting negative behaviors.
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This document provides an agenda for a presentation on cultivating character in children. It begins with introductions of the presenter and a survey of attendees' families. The presentation then discusses how character is developed through personal experience, not just knowledge or imitation. It emphasizes creating habits and a prepared environment to guide children. The rest of the agenda focuses on helping parents prioritize the character traits they want to cultivate, define specific habits to practice, and celebrate successes to encourage the desired behaviors.
Cultivating Your Child's Character Workshopkkeintz
This document provides an overview of a presentation on cultivating character in children. The presentation includes introductions, defining character and its importance, discussing character qualities in one's family, and presenting a framework for developing character. This framework includes scheduling monthly character planning meetings, selecting a character quality each month, providing concrete examples, stories that showcase it, and ways to celebrate demonstrating it. Daily practices like modeling, reading stories, role playing and celebrating the character quality are also discussed.
The document discusses using positive reinforcement strategies with strong-willed children, specifically the "Sure! First, Then" technique where a child completes a less preferred task and is then allowed to engage in a preferred activity or reward. It provides examples of how to apply this technique and asks readers to record a short video modeling its use to share with the group.
This document provides guidance on managing a strong-willed child using positive behavior techniques. It discusses using choices before demands to share control, avoiding junk demands, using establishing operations and discriminative stimuli, and making demands in a positive way like "first, then" structure. Commitment to consistency is important when responding to behavior. Periodic meetings between parents can review progress and make adjustments to their approach over time based on how techniques are working.
This document provides guidance on managing strong-willed children through positive behavior techniques. It discusses using antecedents to prevent challenging behaviors by controlling triggers and setting clear expectations. Examples are given of antecedent interventions like visual schedules and timers. The importance of offering choices to children through open questions, simple options, and patience is emphasized. Committing consistently to behavior plans and making changes through structured meetings is advised to change behaviors long-term.
The document provides guidance for parents on guiding strong-willed children. It discusses defining strong-willed behavior using precise, objective descriptions called operational definitions. Operational definitions focus only on observable behaviors and are important for effective communication and ensuring the right response to a child's behavior. The document also recommends that parents offer children choices to build a sense of autonomy while still maintaining parental control through the choices given. Building positive experiences through quality time and deposits in the parent-child relationship bank can help in both good and challenging times.
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This will be used as part of your Personal Professional Portfolio once graded.
Objective:
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2. Not-A-Test
• Krista believes that the best way to parent is
described in the book:
• The Absorbent Mind by Maria Montessori
• Parenting with Love & Logic by Foster Cline & Jim Fay
• The Attachment Parenting Book by William & Martha
Sears
• French Kids Eat Everything by Karen LeBillion
• On Behavior by BF Skinner
• None of the above
Review
3. Not-A-Test
• Krista believes that the best way to parent is
described in the book:
•
•
•
•
•
• None of the above
Parenting is personal! The plan you make at your HAT is the best way for YOU to
parent. Harnessing the science of learning can make parenting easier.
Review
4. Not-A-Test
• Circle all of the words you might find in an
“operational definition” of a tantrum.
Wanted toy Produces tears Shouts “no” Angry
Kicks feet Mad at brother Didn’t sleep well
Longer than a minute Happy Throws object
Review
5. Not-A-Test
• Circle all of the words you might find in an
“operational definition” of a tantrum.
Wanted toy Produces tears Shouts “no” Angry
Kicks feet Mad at brother Didn’t sleep well
Longer than a minute Happy Throws object
• Answer? All but those in black – those all are presumptions we make based on our observations, but are not
objective descriptions of behavior
Review
6. Not-A-Test
• An antecedent, behaviorally speaking, can
best be described as:
• what happens after a behavior occurs
• what happens before a behavior occurs
• what causes a behavior to occur
• how a child feels before she engages in a behavior
Review
7. Not-A-Test
• An antecedent, behaviorally speaking, can
best be described as:
•
• what happens before a behavior occurs
•
•
Answer: An antecedent comes before a behavior but does not cause operant
behavior contrary to popular opinion
Review
8. Not-A-Test
• Which of the following could be described as
a consequence? Select ALL that apply.
• politely asking your child to sit on time out after she hit
her brother
• passing your child the milk when she says, “milk please!”
• talking with your child about how it makes you feel when
she hits her brother
• giving your child “the look” but not talking with her after
she hits her brother
• giving your child a big hug after she falls down
Review
9. Not-A-Test
• Which of the following could be described as
a consequence? Select ALL that apply.
• politely asking your child to sit on time out after she hit her brother
• passing your child the milk when she says, “milk please!”
• talking with your child about how it makes you feel when she hits her brother
• giving your child “the look” but not talking with her after she hits her brother
• giving your child a big hug after she falls down
ALL ARE CONSEQUENCES. A consequence is simply what
happens as a result of a behavior, it could be reinforcing or
punishing or have no effect.
Review
10. Not-A-Test
• All behavior serves a __________________.
Please write in your single word answer. If you
don’t know the real answer, creative wrong answers
will earn partial credit ☺
Review
11. Not-A-Test
• All behavior serves a __________________.
Please write in your single word answer. If you
don’t know the real answer, creative wrong answers
will earn partial credit ☺
FUNCTION!
Answer: And the key to changing a behavior is to understand its function.
Review
12. Not-A-Test
• Reinforcement has occurred in which of the
following examples:
a) Your child completes a chore & receives a sticker on
her daily chore chart
b) Your child is being too loud at a restaurant so you
say, “If you don’t quiet down, I will take away your
ipad” and he quiets down
c) Your child, stuck in her snowsuit, says, “Help, please” so
you free her. She starts asking for help more often as
a result.
Review
13. Not-A-Test
• Reinforcement has occurred in which of the
following examples:
(c) Your child, stuck in her snowsuit, says, “Help, please”
so you free her. She starts asking for help more often as
a result
This is the only example in which we know that the
probability of behavior increased in the future as a
result of the consequence!
Review
14. Not-A-Test
• Behavior of both children and adults _________
be reinforced or punished.
• probably should
• probably should not
• will
• will never
Review
15. Not-A-Test
• Behavior of both children and adults WILL be
reinforced or punished.
No matter our preferences or actions, the natural world and our
social communities WILL dole out consequences serve to
reinforce and punish our behavior. It serves us best to
understand how they work so that they can be employed to
help strengthen “good” behavior, and transparently so that
“good” is democratically defined.
Review
17. Week Five
Community Micro Demands
Content A New Way
Collaboration Negotiables
Extension Super Kid Meeting
18. Junk Demands Summary
• Question Demands
– Are you ready for bedtime?
• Unnecessary Demands
– No running (when it is actually safe)
• Vague Demands
– Be careful
• Unenforceable Demands
– Come here (from across the room)
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Community
19. A Quest for Good Demands
• Assertive
– Polite but firm tone says, “This is not a question. When I make a
demand, you can trust that I will always follow through calmly.”
– Explanations belong outside the context of the demand. Either
before you give it or after its been obeyed.
• Necessary
– Spend your “investment” only on important demands
• Instructive
– Tell child exactly what to do instead, not what to stop doing
• Enforceable
– Ask for something you can follow through on
Community
20. Desensitization: Micro Demands Game
• Old message. If I resist hard enough or ignore
long enough, demands go away
• New message. My parents only make assertive,
necessary, instructive & enforceable demands
• Old message. Demands are things to be resisted
or ignored
• New message. All demands aren’t bad
Community
21. Making Life Easier… Eventually!
Community
• If every time you issue a demand, your child
currently raises his boxing gloves to prepare for a
fight…
– Decrease your junk demands
– Increase fun demands & simple demands
– Make sure all demands are ASSERTIVE, NECESSARY,
INSTRUCTIVE & ENFORCEABLE
– Commit & stick no matter the demand
22. SWC Survival Guide to Demands
Community
BEFORE PROBLEM ONE SOLUTION
Go get ready for school GIANT CHAIN
Micro Demand Game
Fly like a bird! (Yahoo!)…
Bring me your backpack!
It’s time to leave the park COMPLIANCE = END OF FUN
Sure Y! First X, Then Y
Would you like a piggyback
ride? Sure! First bye park.
Then, piggyback ride.
We need to hurry up VAGUE
Micro Choices Game
Would you to put on your rain
boots or jacket first?
Don’t touch anything NOT INSTRUCTIVE Hands in pockets please
Come here (from upstairs) UNENFORCEABLE Come here (from 1 ft way)
Remember to be careful UNNECESSARY
If not in peril, allow natural
consequences to teach
23. Community Group Reflection
• Did you notice yourself issuing junk demands?
– Was there a particular category of junk demands that
you noticed yourself making most often?
• How did you experience the Micro Demand
Game?
– If positively, what worked for you?
– If not, what was the most difficult part?
• Do you feel ready to start using Good (Real)
Demands in addition to Micro Demands?
Community
24. Week Five
Community Micro Demands
Content A New Way
Collaboration Negotiables
Extension Super Kid Meeting
25. Nuts & Bolts of Behavior
Operational
Definitions
Antecedent
Original
Behavior
Replacement
Behavior
Consequence
Content
26. Today’s Gift from Science
Operational
Definitions
Antecedent
Behavior
REPLACEMENT
Consequence
Content
27. A New Way
• The Million Dollar Questions:
– What is the function of the challenging behavior?
– What can he or she do instead that will work just as well
or better than the old behavior?
– How can I help him or her to take the new way BEFORE
they start going the old way?
– How can I increase the probability that he or she will
take the new way more often in the future?
Content
28. Not-a-Test
• While attempting to quickly pick up a few things for dinner with you,
your child pointed to the candy aisle and said, “I need candy now!”
You said, “Sorry, no candy today pal. We are having your favorite
lunch though right when we get home! Macaroni & cheese!” Your
child was not impressed. He threw himself to the ground and in a
Broadway-style performance screamed, “You are a terrible parent! I
am so hungry! CANDY!” You said, “Stop screaming. If you ask
nicely, then you can have one piece of candy. Just one piece.” He
stopped screaming and asked nicely. You let him pick one piece of
candy. He was pleasant the whole ride home.
Content
29. Not-a-Test, Part One
• You are now preparing to go grocery
shopping with your child again. (You tried to
trade the chore with someone else but to no
avail ☺) What would you expect to happen if
you do nothing differently?
Answer: (one point) Groundhog’s Day – The behavior was reinforced so science tells
us that the future probability of it occurring will increase
Content
30. Not-a-Test, Part Two…
• There are many ways you could probably get
a better outcome. Please write ONE specific
idea you have and WHY you think it would
work (you may wish to consider making
changes to the antecedent, behavior, or
consequence).
Content
31. Step One: Identify Challenging Behavior
• Pick a challenging behavior to replace
– He threw himself to the ground and in a Broadway-style
performance screamed, “You are a terrible parent! I
am so hungry! CANDY!
Content
32. Step Two: Pick Functional Replacement
• Pick a new behavior to replace the old one that
will SERVE THE SAME FUNCTION
– Function: Access to tangible (candy)
– Functional Replacement Behavior: Grocery helper finds
all 5 items on list. Trades list in for a piece of candy at
check-out.
Content
33. Step Three: Un-Set the Stage
• Make candy less valuable by grocery shopping
on a full stomach
• OLD: We are having your favorite lunch though
right when we get home! Macaroni & cheese!”
• NEW: Have lunch before grocery shopping
Content
34. Step Four: Re-Set the Stage
• Choices before, consistency during, changes later
• OLD: Your child pointed to the candy aisle
• NEW: Before entering the store, invite your child to
pick how many items she wants on her list (5 or 10)
& then take her to candy aisle to pick out her
favorite piece when you enter the store
Content
35. Step Five: Stop, Celebrate & Document
• When your child finds an item on her list…
• Stop the shopping cart
– Upside Down Principal: Adults often give bad behavior
their full attention, flip this paradigm
• Celebrate their participation
– Name the Good: “You found the butter! Now we will
be able to make our pie crust.”
• Document their success
– Invite child to cross it off the list and to count how many
more items she needs to find
Content
36. Step Six: Super Kid Meeting Follow-Up
• At the end of the day, rather than meet to discuss
the tantrum that your child had at dinner, invite your
child to join you for a Super Kid Meeting
• Using a notebook, diagram (with or for, depending
on age of child) WHAT WORKED WELL including
the antecedents, behavior & consequences. I like
to call it “The Road that Worked.”
– You may wish to include the road that they didn’t take
(that would not have worked!) in the diagram but if so,
don’t make it a big deal
Content
37. Week Five
Community Micro Demands
Content A New Way
Collaboration Negotiables
Extension Super Kid Meeting
39. That is Negotiable!
Collaboration
• CHOICES BEFORE, CONSISTENCY DURING,
CHANGES LATER (key!)
– If it is a choice (where shall we go to dinner?) or a
possibility (you might be allowed to have a friend over)
– offer it as one proactively
• Make sure child doesn’t “earn” choices through challenging
behavior
• Only choice that may be appropriate in context of
challenging behavior is a “you or me” choice
40. Your Turn: Negotiable
Collaboration
• Make a list of what you currently negotiate with
your child about.
• Review the list by asking the following questions:
– Does this belong on our Yes or No lists instead?
• If you are okay with it remaining negotiable, then ask...
– How can we begin this negotiation proactively?
– What would make it okay today but not tomorrow?
» If it is a conditional Yes or No, is there a way to write down the
conditions so that they can be communicated consistently?
41. For Example… Dessert Night
Collaboration
• What are you negotiating about?
– We often end up negotiating about dessert after dinner.
• Does this belong on our Yes or No lists instead?
– Sometimes we have dessert & sometimes we don’t. It is negotiable!
• What would make it okay today but not tomorrow?
– We want to be able to have dessert a few nights a week but we don’t want
our child to expect it every night.
• If it is a conditional Yes or No, is there a way to write down the conditions so that
they can be communicated consistently?
– What if we made a calendar at the start of each week & let our child put a
“Dessert Night” post-it on three nights?
• How can we begin this negotiation proactively?
– What if we did the scheduling every Sunday night & then checked the
calendar BEFORE dinner each night?
42. Week Five
Community Micro Demands
Content A New Way
Collaboration Negotiables
Extension Super Kid Meeting
43. Super Kid Meeting
Community
KEY: Turn the
principal office
upside down!
Attention for
good, boring if
bad, create a
new way
Extension
44. Why?
“Research has shown that the most effective way to
reduce problem behavior in children is to
strengthen desirable behavior through positive
reinforcement rather than trying to weaken
undesirable behavior using aversive or negative
processes.”
• Sidney W. Bijou, Ph.D.
Extension
45. Super Kid Meeting Notebook
• After your child using a replacement behavior,
consider drawing a road map with him or her as a
celebration
• Your child can bind many of these road maps
together to make a book
• Spend most of your time diagramming the “road
that works”
• Make the “road that doesn’t work” boring!
Extension
48. At-Home Extension: Super Kid Meeting
• By Sunday night, please email me a 30-sec clip
of you having a Super Kid Meeting with your child
– Work with your child to draw a behavior map
highlighting the Road that Works!
– Send the video clip & bring your Road that Works map
to the workshop next week
Extension