L e adin g w ith
I n f lu e n ce
Characteristics of a…
Successful and Famous Business Leader
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Hard-hearted narcissist
Treated loyal employees like garbage
Uncharitable
Ran roughshod over his people
“Most readers come away
stunned at how much of a
jerk the guy was.”
David Weidner (Wall Street Journal)
on the Biography of Steve Jobs
Walter Isaacson on Steve Jobs – Apple [Biography]
Published in the The Wall Street Journal March 31,2012

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Who Are These People?
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Darwin Smith
Colman M. Mockler
George Cain
Charles R. Walgreen III
Alan L. Wurtzel

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Kimberly-Clark (1971-1991)
Gillette (1975-1991)
Abbott Laboratories (1958-1999)
Walgreens (1975-2000)
Circuit City (1972-1986)

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The TwoLevel 5of
Sides Leadership …
Level 5 Leadership
Professional Will

Personal Humility

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Creates superb results, a clear catalyst
in the transition from good to great.

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•

Demonstrates an unwavering resolve
to do whatever must be done to
produce the best long-term results, no
matter how difficult.

Demonstrates a compelling
modesty, shunning public
adulation; never boastful.

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Sets the standard of building an
enduring great company; will settle for
nothing less.

Acts with quiet, calm
determination; relies principally
on inspired standards, not
inspiring charisma, to motivate.

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Channels ambition into the
company, not the self; sets up
successors for even greater
success in the next generation.

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Looks out the window, not in the
mirror, to apportion credit for the
success of the company—to other
people, external factors, and good
luck.

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Looks in the mirror, not out the
window, to apportion responsibility for
poor results, never blaming other
people, external factors, or bad luck.

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Question

Do You Have to Be a “Jerk” to
Be a Highly Successful Leader?
Leadership Is Easy…
…Until It’s Difficult
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Tough decisions
Managing change
Motivating employees
Delivering results
Improving performance
Strategic focus
Balance – Company & People

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Definition: Leadership
The process of social influence in
which one person can enlist the
aid and support of others in the
accomplishment of a common
task, objective, or goal.

Leadership: the
art of getting
someone else to
do something you
want done
because he wants
to do it.
Dwight D.
Eisenhower
#1 Leadership Differentiator
THE ABILITY TO

INFLUENCE
OTHERS
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Influential Leadership Skills
 Inspirational
 Presence
 Awareness
 Collaborative
 Trustworthy
What is common to each of these skills?
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5 Elements of Influential Communication
1.
2.
3.
4.

Self-awareness
Effective listening
Understanding your audience
Clearly articulating your point of view
or message
5. Achieving a mutually positive
outcome

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Awareness
The powerful mental
state from which we can
respond rather than react

The greatest
leaders are like the
best conductors:
they reach beyond
the notes to reach
the magic in the
players.
Blaine Lee
Emotional Resilience

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What is Listening?
DEFINITION:

Listening is the ability
to accurately perceive a
message conveyed by
another person.
NO Really…

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Knowing Your Audience

Source material: Inscape Publishing, Inc.
Articulating Your Message
The Communication Rule
Body Language =

55%

38%
Words = 7%

Tone =

17
Mutually Beneficial Outcome
Summary
1. Be aware of your leadership style
2. Listening for meaning
3. Understand your audience
4. Communicate with more than just
your words
5. Seek to understand – then to be
understood

A leader leads
by example,
whether he
intends to or
not.
Anonymous
Thank You for
Your Time!
DAVID LIDDELL
603.881.9999
dliddell@skye-solutions.com
www.skye-solutions.com

Leading with Influence_SKYE

  • 1.
    L e ading w ith I n f lu e n ce
  • 2.
    Characteristics of a… Successfuland Famous Business Leader     Hard-hearted narcissist Treated loyal employees like garbage Uncharitable Ran roughshod over his people “Most readers come away stunned at how much of a jerk the guy was.” David Weidner (Wall Street Journal) on the Biography of Steve Jobs Walter Isaacson on Steve Jobs – Apple [Biography] Published in the The Wall Street Journal March 31,2012 2
  • 3.
    Who Are ThesePeople?      Darwin Smith Colman M. Mockler George Cain Charles R. Walgreen III Alan L. Wurtzel      Kimberly-Clark (1971-1991) Gillette (1975-1991) Abbott Laboratories (1958-1999) Walgreens (1975-2000) Circuit City (1972-1986) 3
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    The TwoLevel 5of SidesLeadership … Level 5 Leadership Professional Will Personal Humility • Creates superb results, a clear catalyst in the transition from good to great. • • Demonstrates an unwavering resolve to do whatever must be done to produce the best long-term results, no matter how difficult. Demonstrates a compelling modesty, shunning public adulation; never boastful. • Sets the standard of building an enduring great company; will settle for nothing less. Acts with quiet, calm determination; relies principally on inspired standards, not inspiring charisma, to motivate. • Channels ambition into the company, not the self; sets up successors for even greater success in the next generation. • Looks out the window, not in the mirror, to apportion credit for the success of the company—to other people, external factors, and good luck. • • Looks in the mirror, not out the window, to apportion responsibility for poor results, never blaming other people, external factors, or bad luck. 4
  • 5.
    Question Do You Haveto Be a “Jerk” to Be a Highly Successful Leader?
  • 6.
    Leadership Is Easy… …UntilIt’s Difficult        Tough decisions Managing change Motivating employees Delivering results Improving performance Strategic focus Balance – Company & People 6
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    Definition: Leadership The processof social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task, objective, or goal. Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it. Dwight D. Eisenhower
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    #1 Leadership Differentiator THEABILITY TO INFLUENCE OTHERS 8
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    Influential Leadership Skills Inspirational  Presence  Awareness  Collaborative  Trustworthy What is common to each of these skills? 9
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    5 Elements ofInfluential Communication 1. 2. 3. 4. Self-awareness Effective listening Understanding your audience Clearly articulating your point of view or message 5. Achieving a mutually positive outcome 10
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    Awareness The powerful mental statefrom which we can respond rather than react The greatest leaders are like the best conductors: they reach beyond the notes to reach the magic in the players. Blaine Lee
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    What is Listening? DEFINITION: Listeningis the ability to accurately perceive a message conveyed by another person.
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  • 15.
    Knowing Your Audience Sourcematerial: Inscape Publishing, Inc.
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    The Communication Rule BodyLanguage = 55% 38% Words = 7% Tone = 17
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    Summary 1. Be awareof your leadership style 2. Listening for meaning 3. Understand your audience 4. Communicate with more than just your words 5. Seek to understand – then to be understood A leader leads by example, whether he intends to or not. Anonymous
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    Thank You for YourTime! DAVID LIDDELL 603.881.9999 dliddell@skye-solutions.com www.skye-solutions.com