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2. In ancient societies, there were two
ways to go to war with neighboring
tribes.

3. One was the old fashioned way, where
you show up with a bunch of guys and
clubs and start swinging.

4. Even if you "win" this is pretty
dangerous.

5. You can lose a lot of good guys this
way.

6. That's why most ancient tribes, and
even certain primates, rarely have a
full on battle.

7. They usually have "raiding parties"
where they swoop in while everybody
is sleeping, bash a few guys, take a
bunch of stuff, and then leave before
anybody knows what's up.

8. In other ancient societies, they have a
much more advanced form of warfare.

9. One tribe will show up to another tribe
with a bunch of gifts.

10. It's kind of rude to not accept a bunch
of gifts, since it usually leads to old
school fighting.

11. So the receiving tribe is pretty much
forced to accept the gifts.

12. Which puts them on a lower standing
from a social status position.

13. When you show up and DEMAND gifts,
that's one thing.

14. But when you show up unexpected
and GIVE gifts, it's much more
powerful.

15. We humans do this all the time.

16. We do an unasked for "favor," and
then act like they are in our debt. You
do this, and this is done to you.

17. But there's a pretty sneaky way you
can use this to destroy any approach
anxiety.

18. How?

19. Just see yourself as giving her the
opportunity to get to know you.

20. Now, this ONLY works on getting rid of
that initial approach anxiety.

21. It's not a sure fire pick up method, and
you STILL have to talk to her in a way
that fires up her emotions.

22. But if you are too nervous to approach
her, then none of that will matter
anyway.

23. Most guys, when they approach, act
like they are asking for something.

24. Meaning a guy walks up to a girl, and
they think they can get "rejected."

25. Even thinking that "rejection" is even
possible presumes that she's got more
power than you.

26. She has the power to accept you, and
she has the power to reject you.

27. But this feeling will lessen considerably
when you imagine you're giving her an
opportunity.

28. Which you are.

29. Again, you are NOT imagining that
you're God's gift to women, or
expecting anything from her.

30. But if you just see it from an objective
standpoint, a guy talking to a girl, with
BOTH of them thinking that maybe it
will turn into something more, it will
be a lot easier.

31. Think about it from her perspective.

32. Unless you are going to walk over with
your ding-dong in your hand, or if you
smell like you just crawled out of a
dumpster, she's not going to be put off
if you're just a normal guy.

33. Even if nothing happens, she's going to
be GLAD that you approached her.

34. She's going to feel GOOD for having
been approached.

35. So ditch the "accept-reject"
continuum.

36. Think if it as giving her the gift of
opportunity.

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