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FIRING VOLUNTEERS
Where to Draw the Line
DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE
AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR

 One of the best ways to avoid situations where
  you need to reprimand or dismiss volunteers is to
  make sure the framework within which they
  work is clearly outlined.
 In doing so, not only do you avoid many difficult
  situations, you also make it easy for yourself to
  handle when a volunteer crosses the line.
DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE
AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR

   What are some examples of boundaries we need
    to have?
DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE
AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR

 As a volunteer, boundaries and expectations are
  far easier to follow if they actually know what
  they are
 It is up to you to communicate these
  expectations.
THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT
SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION
   Pray
     Pray   for wisdom
     Pray   for the campers & their families
     Pray   for the volunteer
     Pray   for the rest of the staff & campers
THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT
SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION
   Seek council of those you trust
     Someone close to the situation so they can give an
      opinion based on what they have witnessed.
     Someone completely detached so they can offer advice
      without the emotion that often accompanies
      volunteering on a camp staff.
THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT
SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION
   Hear the offending volunteer’s side of the story
       Refrain from making a decision “on-the-fly” with
        them in the room. Hear them out, thank them and
        tell them you need some time to decide how you’re
        going to proceed.
THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT
SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION
   Decide how much precedence matters.
       Two schools of thought on precedence:
         I’ll undermine my authority as a leader if I’m not
          completely consistent.
         Even under very similar circumstances, many variables still
          exist, so those variables must be weighed & considered.
       Both are true. My advice:
         Lean more to weighing the variables and make a separate
          decisions based on the all information available.
         But do your best to appear consistent. This is where you
          need to communicate your decision to the key people around
          you. That will help others understand why this situation is
          different than the one(s) before.
         If you are feel strongly that precedence matters , then you
          need to may this one a rule.
BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A
VOLUNTEER
 Pray, again for all those involved.
 Remind yourself, this is in the best interest of
  your ministry. If you are not 100% confident of
  this, you’re not finished deliberating.
 Do this behind closed doors – always.

 Have someone with you - not only is this an
  appropriate step to keep key people involved, it
  also protects you.
BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A
VOLUNTEER
   Tell the offending volunteer what they have done,
    and why it is unacceptable. Be direct and don’t
    ramble. Practice if you need to.
     You’ve already heard their side. An open discussion
      at this point will only make this harder.
     Be as loving as possible, but don’t let your desire to
      be loving cause you to not be direct and honest. This
      is a very hard thing to do, again practice if you need
      to.
BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A
VOLUNTEER
 After you’ve said what you need to say, don’t ask
  if they have questions, and don’t allow
  discussion. If they try and discuss, say “I’m sorry
  that it has to be this way. I still love you, but my
  decision has been made.”
 Ask the person who is with you to help them
  gather their stuff.
       Ahead of time, make sure they understand that you
        are asking them to be nice and helpful to the person
        you just dismissed, but you are also asking them to
        stay with the volunteer until they leave – you still
        have a ministry to protect.
MANAGING THE FALLOUT
 Pray
 Let’s look at the most likely categories. You’ll
  probably have to put out fires in at least one of
  these areas:
     Interpersonal
     Legal
     Church Relations
     Donor Relations
MANAGING THE FALLOUT
   Interpersonal
       Let your Dean, Board member or other senior staff
        member who was with you go to bat for you. They
        were an integral part of this and witnessed you
        perform appropriately and need to communicate that.
        Be there while they do this so…
         Staff will see you willing to stand behind your actions
         You can take questions and help clear up any

          misunderstandings.
            Only take those questions publicly that will help the

             group understand.
            If someone is upset and intent on using this time to
             accuse or disrupt, tell them you are happy to hear their
             concerns, but that you need to do that privately – always
             with their Dean, Board Member, etc.
MANAGING THE FALLOUT
   Legal
     Call your insurance company immediately. They will
      most likely arrange and attorney.
     Call Board Chair immediately and bring them up to
      speed.
     Upon advice from insurance & board you may want
      to contact a trusted legal advisor, who may or may
      not end up directly involved – i.e. a lawyer who has
      given informal advice in the past.
MANAGING THE FALLOUT
   Church Relations
     Don’t let the church hear from the volunteer first.
      Get on the phone with the senior minister and/or
      chairman of the elders of the volunteer’s church and
      give them your side.
     Be open & honest and offer to have yourself and the
      other individual who was with you come meet if they
      would like.
MANAGING THE FALLOUT
   Donor Relations
     Call them
     Be open & honest in explaining what happened
     Offer to sit down and discuss it if they’d like.
Q&A

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Managing Volunteer Expectations and Dismissals

  • 2. DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR  One of the best ways to avoid situations where you need to reprimand or dismiss volunteers is to make sure the framework within which they work is clearly outlined.  In doing so, not only do you avoid many difficult situations, you also make it easy for yourself to handle when a volunteer crosses the line.
  • 3. DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR  What are some examples of boundaries we need to have?
  • 4. DEFINING EXPECTATIONS OF PERFORMANCE AND BOUNDARIES FOR BEHAVIOR  As a volunteer, boundaries and expectations are far easier to follow if they actually know what they are  It is up to you to communicate these expectations.
  • 5. THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION  Pray  Pray for wisdom  Pray for the campers & their families  Pray for the volunteer  Pray for the rest of the staff & campers
  • 6. THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION  Seek council of those you trust  Someone close to the situation so they can give an opinion based on what they have witnessed.  Someone completely detached so they can offer advice without the emotion that often accompanies volunteering on a camp staff.
  • 7. THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION  Hear the offending volunteer’s side of the story  Refrain from making a decision “on-the-fly” with them in the room. Hear them out, thank them and tell them you need some time to decide how you’re going to proceed.
  • 8. THOSE “GRAY AREAS” OF WHEN IT’S NOT SO CLEAR TO ARRIVE AT A DECISION  Decide how much precedence matters.  Two schools of thought on precedence:  I’ll undermine my authority as a leader if I’m not completely consistent.  Even under very similar circumstances, many variables still exist, so those variables must be weighed & considered.  Both are true. My advice:  Lean more to weighing the variables and make a separate decisions based on the all information available.  But do your best to appear consistent. This is where you need to communicate your decision to the key people around you. That will help others understand why this situation is different than the one(s) before.  If you are feel strongly that precedence matters , then you need to may this one a rule.
  • 9. BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A VOLUNTEER  Pray, again for all those involved.  Remind yourself, this is in the best interest of your ministry. If you are not 100% confident of this, you’re not finished deliberating.  Do this behind closed doors – always.  Have someone with you - not only is this an appropriate step to keep key people involved, it also protects you.
  • 10. BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A VOLUNTEER  Tell the offending volunteer what they have done, and why it is unacceptable. Be direct and don’t ramble. Practice if you need to.  You’ve already heard their side. An open discussion at this point will only make this harder.  Be as loving as possible, but don’t let your desire to be loving cause you to not be direct and honest. This is a very hard thing to do, again practice if you need to.
  • 11. BEST PRACTICES FOR DISMISSING A VOLUNTEER  After you’ve said what you need to say, don’t ask if they have questions, and don’t allow discussion. If they try and discuss, say “I’m sorry that it has to be this way. I still love you, but my decision has been made.”  Ask the person who is with you to help them gather their stuff.  Ahead of time, make sure they understand that you are asking them to be nice and helpful to the person you just dismissed, but you are also asking them to stay with the volunteer until they leave – you still have a ministry to protect.
  • 12. MANAGING THE FALLOUT  Pray  Let’s look at the most likely categories. You’ll probably have to put out fires in at least one of these areas:  Interpersonal  Legal  Church Relations  Donor Relations
  • 13. MANAGING THE FALLOUT  Interpersonal  Let your Dean, Board member or other senior staff member who was with you go to bat for you. They were an integral part of this and witnessed you perform appropriately and need to communicate that. Be there while they do this so…  Staff will see you willing to stand behind your actions  You can take questions and help clear up any misunderstandings.  Only take those questions publicly that will help the group understand.  If someone is upset and intent on using this time to accuse or disrupt, tell them you are happy to hear their concerns, but that you need to do that privately – always with their Dean, Board Member, etc.
  • 14. MANAGING THE FALLOUT  Legal  Call your insurance company immediately. They will most likely arrange and attorney.  Call Board Chair immediately and bring them up to speed.  Upon advice from insurance & board you may want to contact a trusted legal advisor, who may or may not end up directly involved – i.e. a lawyer who has given informal advice in the past.
  • 15. MANAGING THE FALLOUT  Church Relations  Don’t let the church hear from the volunteer first. Get on the phone with the senior minister and/or chairman of the elders of the volunteer’s church and give them your side.  Be open & honest and offer to have yourself and the other individual who was with you come meet if they would like.
  • 16. MANAGING THE FALLOUT  Donor Relations  Call them  Be open & honest in explaining what happened  Offer to sit down and discuss it if they’d like.
  • 17. Q&A

Editor's Notes

  1. As church camps we rely heavily on volunteers, which is a tremendous blessing. But, to be honest, at times some volunteers can become a hindrance to your program. In this workshop we will discuss when it is best for your camp to improve a volunteer’s contribution and when it is time to end their service at your camp.
  2. Write two headings at the top of the board – “Automatic Dismissal” & “Correction Needed” and tell the group that as we shout these out we’ll decide which column they need to go into.Obviously they can do this back home in their office lone or in a staff meeting, but doing this will get them more engaged and maybe some will share expectations others may not think of.Have a couple ready to throw out and stimulate the brainstorming in case the group is not quite awake yet – “We can start with an easy one – illegal or abusive behavior would fall under ‘Automatic Dismissal’. Another easy one – putting a camper in an unsafe situation.”
  3. At the camp where I am a volunteer, all staff – paid & volunteer – are given the summer rules well ahead of camp and all have to sign a covenant saying, among other things, that you agree to and will enforce all camp policies & rules. This leaves no room for “Well I didn’t know that was expected.”
  4. OK, that may take some work to define all of those expectations, but honestly that’s the easy part. The hard part now comes into play, because you are not going to – nor do you want to – anticipate every possible scenario where a volunteer could cause a problem. So you will face situations that you feel a volunteer needs to be corrected and/or dismissed and it wasn’t clearly defined.
  5. So here we are - you’ve done your job: You defined expectations & rules; You’ve communicated those expectations; If necessary, you’ve sought council & deliberated. Now it’s time to tell a most-likely well-meaning volunteer that you have to dismiss them. How do actually do this?Have someone with you: If this is someone more than one level below you in the “chain of command”, have their senior officer present – i.e. if it is a counselor, have the Program Director/Dean with you. If it is a Program Director/Dean, have a Board member with you.
  6. There will be fallout. It may be minor or it may be major. Either way be sensitive to the reactions of others, but also be confident in that you prayed and are following God’s will. Don’t let potential fallout drive your decision. Let God’s will drive your decision and ask Him to guide you through & protect you from the fallout.
  7. Those remaining on the staff still at camp may not understand.
  8. Sometimes there could be criminal or civil charges. If you feel that this could be one of those times, do the following.
  9. This will most likely get back to the volunteer’s church and possibly others.
  10. If you feel this is going to effect a donor, you need to…