15 Traits of Toxic People
• No matter how much time you spend to
get to know the people around you, no
matter how much care you put into
building that relationship and nurturing;
every once and a while you will slip
through a toxic person in your life.
• They do not wear a scarlet letter and do
not come with a big announcement
• Sooner or later you will figure it out
yourself.
Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh is a global leadership consultant and a self
development growth coach that had a vision for her life that she
made a reality. It wasn't easy and it wasn't without a lot of pain and
many tears and fear and self-doubt. She reinvented herself yet
again because she believed in herself and had faith.
Her mission now is to share the tools she has learned with you. She
has brought incredible success to herself, her family, and numerous
other people she mentored.
It is your CHOICE to take the next step to start living the life you
always dreamed of and that you so deserve.
Take the next step: Email for more information to start the
"Reinventing process".
http://www.reinventyourselftogreatness.com
• There are always signs
• We have a responsibility of the
company we keep
• No one does anything to us without
our permission.
• Allowing them into your circle, is
inviting toxicity in your life intentionally
or unintentionally.
• Toxic people have patterns you need
to watch for
• Especially to people who can’t or might
not be in a position to fight back
• They feel qualified to belittle others
• They judge others
• They are bullies, will push only the
weaker ones, shying away from the
powerful ones
1.Being condescending and demeaning to others
There is always a reason why they do
not achieve anything:
• Never had the opportunity
• Not having time or money
• Not having the proper connections.
There is always something or
someone to blame for their failure,
never holding themselves accountable
for anything they do.
2. Victim Syndrome
• Other people around you
(spouse. family, friends) will
always have a reason why they
can’t get together when that
person is around.
• Everyone around you tries to
warn you, but you still insist on
having them around
3. Other people around you try to avoid them
• Even though you have seen them
praise some people in their faces,
they shred them apart when they
are not present.
• Just know that this is a pattern
• If they do this to others they will
do it to you too
4. They talk bad around everyone around them
• They catastrophize everything.
• Everything is doom and gloom,
the sun never comes out.
• Nothing ever goes right, or will
ever go right, ever
5. The sun never rises!
6. Misery loves company
• They fail to see beauty in
anything, they chose to live in
darkness.
• They are miserable and misery
loves company.
• They have never been truly happy
and they won’t rest till everyone
around them is unhappy as well
7. Always Negative
• They see no possible way for
anyone to make their dreams
come true including themselves
• They find all the negative reasons
why you can’t do what you want to
do
8. They do not forget and will never forgive
They carry grudges that
eventually will become heavier
every day and keep regurgitating
them in everything they do all day
long
9. Feel as if they were the Center of the Universe
• No matter what discussion you are
having with them, it ends being about
them.
• They know it all
• They tell rather than waiting to be asked.
• Even when you share a personal issue,
it ends up about them going through
something similar or bigger than what
you are going through
10.They feel entitled
• Never grateful
• Feel entitled for everything and
anything without even the smallest
effort on their part.
11.The “I am King/ Queen Syndrome”
• They have a need to control everything
• Have an opinion about everything, even
about what is good for you.
• They need to be in control at all times
and might be self-righteous.
12.They suck your Energy
• They suck the energy out of you
• They whine and whine no matter
how many brakes they get in their
lives.
• They need your attention 24/7.
They leave you exhausted after a
while.
13.They think they are “Perfection”
Let us start by saying there is nothing
called perfection, no one is ever
perfect, and nothing is ever perfect
and it is fine. We can thrive to
excellence
14.It has always been done that way
• They are set in their own ways,
nothing you can say or do can
change their minds.
• They have a belief that their
destiny is pre-determined
15.They are always right
No matter how big or small a topic is,
they do not allow space for different
opinions and turns a discussion into
a debate that must be won at all
times and at any cost
Did you witness or suffer any more Toxic traits
through someone else or recognize some in yourself
that you need to change
Let me know!
Email me at:
info@reinventyourselftogreatness.com
Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
ReInvent Yourself to Greatness
www.reinventyourselftogreatness.com
info@reinventyourselftogreatness.com
@ReinventYurself
Facebook.com/reinventyourselftogreatness
G+/+Reinventyourselftogreatness
(818) 861 9434

15 Toxic People- ReInvent Yourself

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    15 Traits ofToxic People
  • 2.
    • No matterhow much time you spend to get to know the people around you, no matter how much care you put into building that relationship and nurturing; every once and a while you will slip through a toxic person in your life. • They do not wear a scarlet letter and do not come with a big announcement • Sooner or later you will figure it out yourself.
  • 3.
    Sahar Andrade, MB.BChis a global leadership consultant and a self development growth coach that had a vision for her life that she made a reality. It wasn't easy and it wasn't without a lot of pain and many tears and fear and self-doubt. She reinvented herself yet again because she believed in herself and had faith. Her mission now is to share the tools she has learned with you. She has brought incredible success to herself, her family, and numerous other people she mentored. It is your CHOICE to take the next step to start living the life you always dreamed of and that you so deserve. Take the next step: Email for more information to start the "Reinventing process". http://www.reinventyourselftogreatness.com
  • 4.
    • There arealways signs • We have a responsibility of the company we keep • No one does anything to us without our permission. • Allowing them into your circle, is inviting toxicity in your life intentionally or unintentionally. • Toxic people have patterns you need to watch for
  • 5.
    • Especially topeople who can’t or might not be in a position to fight back • They feel qualified to belittle others • They judge others • They are bullies, will push only the weaker ones, shying away from the powerful ones 1.Being condescending and demeaning to others
  • 6.
    There is alwaysa reason why they do not achieve anything: • Never had the opportunity • Not having time or money • Not having the proper connections. There is always something or someone to blame for their failure, never holding themselves accountable for anything they do. 2. Victim Syndrome
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    • Other peoplearound you (spouse. family, friends) will always have a reason why they can’t get together when that person is around. • Everyone around you tries to warn you, but you still insist on having them around 3. Other people around you try to avoid them
  • 8.
    • Even thoughyou have seen them praise some people in their faces, they shred them apart when they are not present. • Just know that this is a pattern • If they do this to others they will do it to you too 4. They talk bad around everyone around them
  • 9.
    • They catastrophizeeverything. • Everything is doom and gloom, the sun never comes out. • Nothing ever goes right, or will ever go right, ever 5. The sun never rises!
  • 10.
    6. Misery lovescompany • They fail to see beauty in anything, they chose to live in darkness. • They are miserable and misery loves company. • They have never been truly happy and they won’t rest till everyone around them is unhappy as well
  • 11.
    7. Always Negative •They see no possible way for anyone to make their dreams come true including themselves • They find all the negative reasons why you can’t do what you want to do
  • 12.
    8. They donot forget and will never forgive They carry grudges that eventually will become heavier every day and keep regurgitating them in everything they do all day long
  • 13.
    9. Feel asif they were the Center of the Universe • No matter what discussion you are having with them, it ends being about them. • They know it all • They tell rather than waiting to be asked. • Even when you share a personal issue, it ends up about them going through something similar or bigger than what you are going through
  • 14.
    10.They feel entitled •Never grateful • Feel entitled for everything and anything without even the smallest effort on their part.
  • 15.
    11.The “I amKing/ Queen Syndrome” • They have a need to control everything • Have an opinion about everything, even about what is good for you. • They need to be in control at all times and might be self-righteous.
  • 16.
    12.They suck yourEnergy • They suck the energy out of you • They whine and whine no matter how many brakes they get in their lives. • They need your attention 24/7. They leave you exhausted after a while.
  • 17.
    13.They think theyare “Perfection” Let us start by saying there is nothing called perfection, no one is ever perfect, and nothing is ever perfect and it is fine. We can thrive to excellence
  • 18.
    14.It has alwaysbeen done that way • They are set in their own ways, nothing you can say or do can change their minds. • They have a belief that their destiny is pre-determined
  • 19.
    15.They are alwaysright No matter how big or small a topic is, they do not allow space for different opinions and turns a discussion into a debate that must be won at all times and at any cost
  • 20.
    Did you witnessor suffer any more Toxic traits through someone else or recognize some in yourself that you need to change Let me know! Email me at: info@reinventyourselftogreatness.com
  • 21.
    Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh ReInventYourself to Greatness www.reinventyourselftogreatness.com info@reinventyourselftogreatness.com @ReinventYurself Facebook.com/reinventyourselftogreatness G+/+Reinventyourselftogreatness (818) 861 9434