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Lelaine Riche
BA (Hons), Fulcrum Coach, Identity Compass Consultant
Slide design by Richard Riche
oneclearmessage.co.za
Feedback from othersAbilities
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How I see myself
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Masking your feelings
Automatic thinking patterns
Incongruence
8
Invalidation
9
Indirect expression
The price I pay
Why do I feel?
What do I feel?
Comfortable	
Safe	
Curious	
Enthusias6c
Apathe'c	
Withdrawn	
Defensive	
Confused
Primary or secondary?
How intensely?
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So what?
What’s your style?
Know yourself
Become aware
Be in control
Accept yourself
No comparisons
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Have empathy
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Emotionally Intelligent
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Lelaine Riche
BA (Hons), Fulcrum Coach, Identity Compass Consultant
Slide design by Richard Riche
oneclearmessage.co.za

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