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ARTICLE REVIEW SESSION 
ON 
CHANGE YOUR QUESTIONS , CHANGE YOUR LIFE 
Presented By 
C Viswachaithanya Reddy 
Siva Sivani Institute of Management
ABOUT THE AUTHOR 
Marilee G. Adams is a founder and partner with the center 
for Inquiring Leadership .An executive coach and 
corporate consultant. 
 Her background includes being a psychotherapist with 
over 25years in private practice. 
 She has spoken on the art of Question Thinking and 
Inquiring Leadership to organizations such as NASA, 
Siemens Building Technologies ,The Society for Human 
Resource Managers and many others.
 She is the author of The Art of the Question: A 
Guide to Short-Term Questioned –Centered 
Therapy.
INTRODUCTION 
 The book is the story of Ben Knight .He finds himself 
challenged ,seemingly beyond his limits, in his new 
promotion to a responsible management position 
.convinced he doesn’t have what it takes ,he drafts his 
resignation. That’s when his CEO steps in and gives him a 
second chance by introducing him to Joseph ,the inquiring 
coach. However ,Ben’s job isn’t his only problem. His 
marriage life is also in trouble. In this book Ben makes 
transformations both at work and at home.
Problem: 
Too much telling and not enough asking questions 
with his wife and in the office. 
 There are seven tools and practices that Ben led 
to such remarkable results. These tools are 
discussed in the story . 
A world of questions is a world of possibility . 
Questions open our minds , connect us to each 
other.
THE RIGHT QUESTIONS CAN TRANSFORM OUR LIFE 
 Everyday , we all ask questions from ‘what should I wear ?to 
“what I should do with my life?”. These kind of questions we 
ask ourselves . 
 Marilee introduces “Question Thinking” 
an easy to use system for transforming 
thinking, action, and results. With new 
perspectives and alternatives ,we take 
powerful , practical steps to transform 
our relationships and our work.
WHY QUESTIONS MATTER? 
 “We cannot solve our problems with the same 
thinking.”-Albert Einstein 
 “Asking a question is the simplest way of focusing 
thinking”-Edward de Bono 
 “All innovation and new thinking –in processes, 
products, services and anything else-begin with a 
new question or an old question in a new way.”- 
Marilee Goldberg
POWER & PURPOSE OF QUESTIONS 
 Resolve problems 
 Evaluate, assesses, & critique 
 Set & accomplish goals 
 Clarify & confirm listening 
 Learn , Teach & Reflect 
 Focus attention 
 Create & Innovate-open new possibilities 
 Gather information 
 Build & maintain relationships 
 Think critically, creatively, & strategically 
 Make decisions & choices
QUESTIONS ,BEHAVIOR & RESULTS
7 DIFFERENT TOOLS TO CHANGE YOUR WORK 
& LIFE 
 Putting the power of question to work 
 Choice map 
 Learner-Judger Question 
 Empowering your observer 
 Switching Question 
 Questioning Assumption 
 Top Twelve Question for Change
TOOL 1- PUTTING THE POWER OF QUESTION 
TO WORK 
 When we get stuck, it’s natural to look for answers 
and solutions. 
 We first need to change our questions: otherwise 
we keep recycling the same old, unhelpful answers. 
 Putting the power of questions to work is the first 
tool. 
 Questions drive results. 
 The most effective communication is about 20 
percent telling and 80 percent asking….most of us 
turned this around.
TOOL 2 –THE CHOICE MAP
TOOL 3- JUDGER-LEARNER QUESTIONS 
JUDGER LEARNER 
What’s wrong? What works? 
Who’s to blame? What I am responsible for? 
How can I prove I’am right? What are the facts? 
How can I protect my life? What’s the big picture? 
How can I be in control? What are my choices? 
How could I lose? What’s useful about this? 
How could I get hurt? What can I learn? 
Why is that person so clueless? What is the other person 
feeling,needing,wanting? 
Why bother? What’s possible?
JUDGER- LEARNER MINDSETS 
JUDGER MINDSETS LEARNER MINDSETS 
Judgemental Accepting 
Reactive , automatic Responsive , reflect 
“ Know - it –already” Values not – knowing 
Blame Responsibility 
Inflexible and rigid Flexible and adaptive 
Own point of view Multiple prespectives
TOOL 4- EMPOWERING YOUR OBSERVER 
 Once you’re able to observe your own thinking, and 
recognize the difference between Learner and 
Judger, you grab hold of the power of choice. 
 The questions we form in our minds shape our 
decisions, actions & lead to any result we get.
TOOL 5 – SWITCHING QUESTION 
 In the middle of the choice map there is a road joining the 
Judger and learner paths. The switching lane provides a 
powerful tool for switching from Judger to learner.
TOOL 6- QUESTIONING ASSUMPTION 
 You can answer tool to help make decisions- the A-B- 
C-C process. 
 A-Aware; Am I in judger? 
 B-Breathe- Do I need to step back, pause, and look 
situation more objectively. 
 C-Curiosity- Do I have all the facts? What’s 
happening here? 
 C-Choose- What’s my choice?
TOOL 7- TOP TWELVE QUESTIONS FOR CHANGE 
 What do I want? 
 What are my choices? 
 What assumptions am I thinking? 
 What am I responsible for? 
 How else can I think about this? 
 What is the other person thinking, feeling, needing, and 
wanting? 
 What am I missing or avoiding? 
 What can I learn? 
 What questions should I ask myself or others? 
 What action steps make the most sense? 
 How can I turn this into a win-win? 
 What is possible?
Thank you 
Great Results Begin With Great Questions

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Change your questions change your life (Book Review)

  • 1. ARTICLE REVIEW SESSION ON CHANGE YOUR QUESTIONS , CHANGE YOUR LIFE Presented By C Viswachaithanya Reddy Siva Sivani Institute of Management
  • 2. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Marilee G. Adams is a founder and partner with the center for Inquiring Leadership .An executive coach and corporate consultant.  Her background includes being a psychotherapist with over 25years in private practice.  She has spoken on the art of Question Thinking and Inquiring Leadership to organizations such as NASA, Siemens Building Technologies ,The Society for Human Resource Managers and many others.
  • 3.  She is the author of The Art of the Question: A Guide to Short-Term Questioned –Centered Therapy.
  • 4. INTRODUCTION  The book is the story of Ben Knight .He finds himself challenged ,seemingly beyond his limits, in his new promotion to a responsible management position .convinced he doesn’t have what it takes ,he drafts his resignation. That’s when his CEO steps in and gives him a second chance by introducing him to Joseph ,the inquiring coach. However ,Ben’s job isn’t his only problem. His marriage life is also in trouble. In this book Ben makes transformations both at work and at home.
  • 5. Problem: Too much telling and not enough asking questions with his wife and in the office.  There are seven tools and practices that Ben led to such remarkable results. These tools are discussed in the story . A world of questions is a world of possibility . Questions open our minds , connect us to each other.
  • 6. THE RIGHT QUESTIONS CAN TRANSFORM OUR LIFE  Everyday , we all ask questions from ‘what should I wear ?to “what I should do with my life?”. These kind of questions we ask ourselves .  Marilee introduces “Question Thinking” an easy to use system for transforming thinking, action, and results. With new perspectives and alternatives ,we take powerful , practical steps to transform our relationships and our work.
  • 7. WHY QUESTIONS MATTER?  “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking.”-Albert Einstein  “Asking a question is the simplest way of focusing thinking”-Edward de Bono  “All innovation and new thinking –in processes, products, services and anything else-begin with a new question or an old question in a new way.”- Marilee Goldberg
  • 8. POWER & PURPOSE OF QUESTIONS  Resolve problems  Evaluate, assesses, & critique  Set & accomplish goals  Clarify & confirm listening  Learn , Teach & Reflect  Focus attention  Create & Innovate-open new possibilities  Gather information  Build & maintain relationships  Think critically, creatively, & strategically  Make decisions & choices
  • 10. 7 DIFFERENT TOOLS TO CHANGE YOUR WORK & LIFE  Putting the power of question to work  Choice map  Learner-Judger Question  Empowering your observer  Switching Question  Questioning Assumption  Top Twelve Question for Change
  • 11. TOOL 1- PUTTING THE POWER OF QUESTION TO WORK  When we get stuck, it’s natural to look for answers and solutions.  We first need to change our questions: otherwise we keep recycling the same old, unhelpful answers.  Putting the power of questions to work is the first tool.  Questions drive results.  The most effective communication is about 20 percent telling and 80 percent asking….most of us turned this around.
  • 12. TOOL 2 –THE CHOICE MAP
  • 13. TOOL 3- JUDGER-LEARNER QUESTIONS JUDGER LEARNER What’s wrong? What works? Who’s to blame? What I am responsible for? How can I prove I’am right? What are the facts? How can I protect my life? What’s the big picture? How can I be in control? What are my choices? How could I lose? What’s useful about this? How could I get hurt? What can I learn? Why is that person so clueless? What is the other person feeling,needing,wanting? Why bother? What’s possible?
  • 14. JUDGER- LEARNER MINDSETS JUDGER MINDSETS LEARNER MINDSETS Judgemental Accepting Reactive , automatic Responsive , reflect “ Know - it –already” Values not – knowing Blame Responsibility Inflexible and rigid Flexible and adaptive Own point of view Multiple prespectives
  • 15. TOOL 4- EMPOWERING YOUR OBSERVER  Once you’re able to observe your own thinking, and recognize the difference between Learner and Judger, you grab hold of the power of choice.  The questions we form in our minds shape our decisions, actions & lead to any result we get.
  • 16. TOOL 5 – SWITCHING QUESTION  In the middle of the choice map there is a road joining the Judger and learner paths. The switching lane provides a powerful tool for switching from Judger to learner.
  • 17. TOOL 6- QUESTIONING ASSUMPTION  You can answer tool to help make decisions- the A-B- C-C process.  A-Aware; Am I in judger?  B-Breathe- Do I need to step back, pause, and look situation more objectively.  C-Curiosity- Do I have all the facts? What’s happening here?  C-Choose- What’s my choice?
  • 18. TOOL 7- TOP TWELVE QUESTIONS FOR CHANGE  What do I want?  What are my choices?  What assumptions am I thinking?  What am I responsible for?  How else can I think about this?  What is the other person thinking, feeling, needing, and wanting?  What am I missing or avoiding?  What can I learn?  What questions should I ask myself or others?  What action steps make the most sense?  How can I turn this into a win-win?  What is possible?
  • 19. Thank you Great Results Begin With Great Questions