You often have less than 30 seconds to qualify for a relationship. If you can gain rapport quickly you often get permission to build the relationship and eventually have the person as a member or client. This first session covers:
• How to develop a strong personal presence
• How to read and use body-language to connect
• Steps to quickly read buyer styles and adjust your communications to establish rapport
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1. The ability to connect with and
communicate with another party in a
synergistic fashion.
2. To send information in a way that
receiver can easily accept it and
understand it.
3. To make the other party feel totally
wanted and listened to.
“It’s about building and strengthening
bridges or commonalities.”
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• 7% is in the words
• 23% is in the Tone of Voice
• 35% is in the Facial Expression
• 35% is in the Body Language
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• Eye movements
• Gestures and posture
• Breathing rates
• Tonality
• Flow and pace of language
“People like to do business and socialize with
people who are much like them”
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• Take time to break the ice
• Drop the traditional roles
• Monitor your body language
• Match / Mirror / Pace
• Use understandable language
• Story telling
• Listening through clarification
(Listen to understand not
just to respond)
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• Sensitive
• Lacks structure
• Save the relationship
• Loves to help others
• Persuade – guarantees and assurances
• Speciality – supportive role
• Downfall – a friend in need
• Back up style under pressure – fit in
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• Typical Sales Strengths:
• Promotes harmony and balance
• Is reliable and consistent
• Tries to adapt to stress
• Sees the obvious that others miss
• Is often easy-going and warm
• Common Sales Difficulties:
• Can be too easy-going and accepting
• Can allow prospects to take advantage
• Can become bitter if unappreciated
• Can be low in self-worth
• Can be too dependent on others
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• Provide details, facts and data
• Save face
• Lacks spontaneity
• Persuade – support principles and
thinking
• Speciality – accuracy
• Downfall – decisions can take forever
• Back up style under pressure – to avoid
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• Typical Sales Strengths:
• Acts cautiously to avoid errors
• Engages in critical analysis
• Seeks to create a low-stress climate
• Wants to insure quality control
• Can follow directives and standards
• Common Sales Difficulties:
• Can bog down in details and lose time
• Can be too critical or finicky
• Can be overly sensitive to feedback
• Can seem to be lacking in courage
• Can be too self-sufficient, alone
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• Loves results
• Decision maker
• Save time
• Likes to be in charge
• Persuade – options and probabilities
– support their conclusions
and actions
• Speciality – action NOW
• Downfall – need to be right /argumentative
• Back up style under pressure – my way or the highway
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• Typical Sales Strengths:
• Acts rapidly to get sales results
• Is inventive and productive
• Shows endurance under stress
• Is driven to achieve sales goals
• Can take authority boldly
• Common Sales Difficulties:
• Can be too forceful or impatient
• Can often think their way is best
• Can be insensitive to needs of prospects
• Can be manipulative or coercive
• Can be lonely or fatigued
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• Likes applause
• Best Starters
• Saves effort – takes short cuts
• Influenced by their dreams and intuitions
• Persuade – testimony & incentives
• Speciality – expressive
• Downfall – lack of focus, follow through
and they think aloud
• Back up style under pressure – attack
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• Typical Sales Strengths:
• Acts / sells creatively on intuition
• Is sensitive to others' feelings
• Is resilient in times of stress
• Develops a network of contacts / leads
• Is often willing to help others
• Common Sales Difficulties:
• Can lose track of time / be late
• Can "overburn" and over-indulge
• Can be too talkative
• Can lose objectivity, be emotional
• Can be self-oriented, overly self-assured
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B – Very Unstructured
B – Very Structured
A - Very
Outspoken
A – Very Quiet
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• Sensitivity
• Space
• Tone
• Feelings
• Ask for support
• Show (prove) trust
• Pace (Move at
their speed)
• Don’t box them in
• Comfortable
approach
• Relationship building
• Be helpful
• Don’t rush
• Respect loved ones
• Show you care for
humanity (walk your
talk)
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• Don’t ask them to take risks
• Console and listen to them
• Move them slowly to acceptance
• DO NOT RUSH THEM
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• Cover the fine
points
• Be accurate
• Be specific – details
• Deliver quality
• Talk
savings/security
• Do your research
• Ask for their input
• Don’t push them
• Don’t embarrass
them
• Don’t be too flashy
• Respect their
space
• Be friendly
• Do not interrupt
• Do not touch
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• Do not change direction once agreed
• Respect their schedule – pace
• Give them all the information they need to
make a decision
– Data
– Graphs
– Charts
– Reports (they will actually read them)
• Acknowledge and work within their
principles and thinking
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• Talk results
• Talk profits
• Be concise
• Be clear
• Don’t waste their
time
• Stick to business
• Do not control
• Use logic
• Summarise
• Hit the high-lights
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• Talk bottom line
• Give options
• Outline
probabilities
• Show your ability
• Strong direct
posture
• Do not be too
chatty
• Don’t get too
personal
• Action
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• Exude energy and
fun, give
compliments
• Appropriate
contact is OK
• Be witty
• Show flexibility
• Do NOT criticise
• They WILL attack
under pressure
• Visually show
response
• Be personal
• Talk to them – not
down
• Have time for them
• Keep them away
from details
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• Show them the positive impact they have on you
• Show them how to save effort and look good
• Be willing to listen to them expand on their concepts
• Keep them on focus
• Give them the opportunity to be:
– 1st in
– Pace setter
– Ahead of the pack
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B – Very Unstructured
B – Very Structured
A - Very
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A – Very Quiet
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