Children may misbehave as a way to seek power and control when they feel like they don't have any. Misbehaviors like screaming "no", refusing to comply, or throwing tantrums are ways for children to exert the control they desire. Rather than fighting with children over control, it is better to give them appropriate ways to feel powerful by allowing choices over small decisions and activities. Giving children a sense of power and control in constructive ways can help avoid power struggles and misbehaviors.