4 Steps to Networking Success


                   Notes from presentation by
                          Bonnie Chan
                       at Canada Job Expo
                             Toronto
                        January 29th 2013



This presentation by Maira Bay de Souza is licensed under a
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Before we begin ...

Items in this font are the notes I took from what the
   presenter said




Items in this font are my own comments
Summary
The 4 steps to networking success can be summarized in
  one word: GROW



                 Generate
                 Research
                 Own
                 Work
Making small talk

Some tips for making conversation:
Location: “are you from here?”
Family: questions like “is that your
  family?” (pointing at interviewer's
  desk with a photo on it) are
  appropriate. But other questions like
  “are you married?” might not be.
Hobbies
Community
Making small talk (contd.)
Use open-ended questions such as “what do you like about
  your job/your community/your family/etc ?”



Excellent tip! This prevents people from answering 'Yes' or
  'No'. When people give that answer, you have little time to
  think about what to ask next. And you might end up in an
  uncomfortable silence.
When you ask open-ended questions, people elaborate, they
 talk more. This gives you several possibilities of subjects to
 talk about next.
Generate

 Create your elevator pitch (30 seconds introduction)
 Know what you are looking for (job, freelance, full-
   time, contract, what industry, company size, etc)


The key here is to be specific.
I know this can be hard for some people.
You don't have to write a perfect pitch from the start.
Just try writing one and refine it as time goes by and you
learn more about what you want.
Research
Find out where the people that will hire you hang out
  (coffee shop, sports club, etc)
Go there and hang out there too
Do the same for the people that will be your co-workers,
 or if you are looking to meet a specific person


I've done that and I agree that it is a good idea. Go for it!
  But please, don't be creepy!
A simple way is to go to events where the people who will
  hire you go to. Be honest and tell them what you're looking
  for, but never sound desperate.
Own

Take ownership of your networking
Use the Law of Attraction:
  
      Tell your brain who you're going to
      meet (example “I'm going to meet 3
      people today that will lead me to a
      job”)

Another great tip!
Work
Take action! Now!


List 3 networking actions that
  you will take in the next 72
  hours:
1.______________________
2.______________________
3.______________________
Thanking
Always thank people for their time
  and attention
Send personalized physical cards (as
  opposed to emails and other less
  personal ways of communication)


I like her idea, but I think you will agree
   that it might be very costly and time
   consuming.
Right now, I'm just focusing on following
  up monthly with all my contacts.
Disclaimer
The notes presented here are what I understood from what
  the presenter communicated. They might not be 100%
  accurate, as I was taking notes and listening to the
  presentation at the same time.
All the information I am quoting from the presenter is their
  intellectual property. I am reproducing it here under the fair
  use policy, for quoting purposes only.

4 steps to networking success

  • 1.
    4 Steps toNetworking Success Notes from presentation by Bonnie Chan at Canada Job Expo Toronto January 29th 2013 This presentation by Maira Bay de Souza is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License
  • 2.
    Before we begin... Items in this font are the notes I took from what the presenter said Items in this font are my own comments
  • 3.
    Summary The 4 stepsto networking success can be summarized in one word: GROW Generate Research Own Work
  • 4.
    Making small talk Sometips for making conversation: Location: “are you from here?” Family: questions like “is that your family?” (pointing at interviewer's desk with a photo on it) are appropriate. But other questions like “are you married?” might not be. Hobbies Community
  • 5.
    Making small talk(contd.) Use open-ended questions such as “what do you like about your job/your community/your family/etc ?” Excellent tip! This prevents people from answering 'Yes' or 'No'. When people give that answer, you have little time to think about what to ask next. And you might end up in an uncomfortable silence. When you ask open-ended questions, people elaborate, they talk more. This gives you several possibilities of subjects to talk about next.
  • 6.
    Generate Create yourelevator pitch (30 seconds introduction) Know what you are looking for (job, freelance, full- time, contract, what industry, company size, etc) The key here is to be specific. I know this can be hard for some people. You don't have to write a perfect pitch from the start. Just try writing one and refine it as time goes by and you learn more about what you want.
  • 7.
    Research Find out wherethe people that will hire you hang out (coffee shop, sports club, etc) Go there and hang out there too Do the same for the people that will be your co-workers, or if you are looking to meet a specific person I've done that and I agree that it is a good idea. Go for it! But please, don't be creepy! A simple way is to go to events where the people who will hire you go to. Be honest and tell them what you're looking for, but never sound desperate.
  • 8.
    Own Take ownership ofyour networking Use the Law of Attraction:  Tell your brain who you're going to meet (example “I'm going to meet 3 people today that will lead me to a job”) Another great tip!
  • 9.
    Work Take action! Now! List3 networking actions that you will take in the next 72 hours: 1.______________________ 2.______________________ 3.______________________
  • 10.
    Thanking Always thank peoplefor their time and attention Send personalized physical cards (as opposed to emails and other less personal ways of communication) I like her idea, but I think you will agree that it might be very costly and time consuming. Right now, I'm just focusing on following up monthly with all my contacts.
  • 11.
    Disclaimer The notes presentedhere are what I understood from what the presenter communicated. They might not be 100% accurate, as I was taking notes and listening to the presentation at the same time. All the information I am quoting from the presenter is their intellectual property. I am reproducing it here under the fair use policy, for quoting purposes only.