1) The document discusses 3 common beliefs ("big fat lies") about personality development, healing from trauma, and relationships.
2) Regarding personality development, it argues that research shows the brain continues developing into late adolescence, contradicting the idea that personality is fully formed by age 5-6.
3) Regarding healing, it claims that simply waiting does not heal wounds- people must take active steps to process and move on from trauma.
4) Regarding relationships, it disputes that a first breakup is always the most painful, suggesting deeper hurt comes from investing more in relationships over time.
Being single again for the first time in a hot minute, I decided to do some research on the world out there that awaits us lonely wanderers — what the dating experts say on relationships. In doing so, I uncovered some interesting, alarming and a couple sadly unsurprising statistics. Some of them confirmed awful fears (and made the feminist in me cringe) and others made me want to hi-five a million angels.
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Men! Where are you? Can we take our rightful position, understand who we are, what is expected of us, learn what God wants with us and let us take the lead.
Being single again for the first time in a hot minute, I decided to do some research on the world out there that awaits us lonely wanderers — what the dating experts say on relationships. In doing so, I uncovered some interesting, alarming and a couple sadly unsurprising statistics. Some of them confirmed awful fears (and made the feminist in me cringe) and others made me want to hi-five a million angels.
http://mindpersuasion.com/
If you want anything, all you've got to do is define it clearly enough, and keep taking action until you get it. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girlfriend-generator/
Men! Where are you? Can we take our rightful position, understand who we are, what is expected of us, learn what God wants with us and let us take the lead.
This was used on our report (or should I say symposium) in our Guidance and Counseling subject. This tackles about crushes, love (different types of love and how to love yourself), courtship (in the Philippines), and marriage (rights and obligations of a wedded couple, the stages of marriage, the common marital problems) and there are also some additional pictures to make the topic easier to understand.
Reporters:
Cindy Asence
Madel Austria
Kitz Bajao
John Kevin Benigno
Marie Buena Bunsoy
Aser Canta
Instructor:
Mrs. Jesselyn Mortejo
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This was used on our report (or should I say symposium) in our Guidance and Counseling subject. This tackles about crushes, love (different types of love and how to love yourself), courtship (in the Philippines), and marriage (rights and obligations of a wedded couple, the stages of marriage, the common marital problems) and there are also some additional pictures to make the topic easier to understand.
Reporters:
Cindy Asence
Madel Austria
Kitz Bajao
John Kevin Benigno
Marie Buena Bunsoy
Aser Canta
Instructor:
Mrs. Jesselyn Mortejo
Many People Want To Know Why The Business Was Late, I Was Waiting For Mr. Republocrat To Get My Money Straight
Download It On Your Comp To Scope The Business in 1080p
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3 Big Fat Lies that Deserve to Die
Big Fat Lie 1: Your personality is formed and unchangeable by age 5 or 6
Somehow we have accepted the idea that we are complete by age 5 or 6 because some
"learned psychologist" said so.
Recent research reveals, however, that our neocortex, the front part of our brain that is
responsible for reasoning and decision-making, is still developing well into late adolescence.
I can hear the parents of teens saying "Well, duh!"
If you pause to think about this notion, it really makes little sense, for at least two reasons:
1) It implies that people cannot change, and my 25 years of working with people makes me
conclude just the opposite it true.
Although just about every phase of my work life involves talking with people, I am basically a
shy person. In high school and college there was a guy in our church who was very friendly
to everyone, and just about everywhere we went, he knew someone. Because I admired this,
I watched and modeled some of his behavior because my shyness was something I very
much wanted to change.
2) If you are 40 years old and everything was formed and complete by age 5, then this
implies that you have wasted the last 35 years. I doubt that to be true
Big Fat Lie 2: Time heals all wounds.
We have all heard this one many times. Sounds good, doesn't it?
The problem is that time does not heal all wounds.
The reality is this: all time does is pass.
It's what we do while time is passing that makes the difference.
I've worked with people that have had huge tragedies in their lives, and because of the way
they handled it, were doing fairly well relatively soon.
I've also worked with people who have had misfortune in their lives who talk about it as if it
were last week when, in fact, it occurred 15 years ago.
They have kept it alive and recent for them.
It's what we do while time passes that makes the difference.
Big Fat Lie 3: The first cut is the deepest
From Rod Stewart to Sheryl Crow, "the first cut is the deepest" has become an accepted
myth about relationships.
The first breakup is supposed to be the worst and most difficult. "Isn't this supposed to hurt
more?" I've even had teens and adults say, as if there were doing something wrong with not
being broken-hearted enough.
The reality is that the deepest cut, or most hurt, comes in the relationships where you have
cared, loved and given the most.
The difficult task is to recover enough to, in the words of the song, "try to love again."
It's an important thing to accomplish, otherwise you give the other person way too much
power over you.
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