1. rule no.1 = limit your contact, limit your availibility and limit what you tell
her before u sleep.
rule no.2 = have mojo - be confident, unfazed and unaffacted by success or
failure. Be smooth and be confident. plan for adversity and know this is just
another phase..
rule no.3 = Failing to act will force you deeper into a fear-based morass of
self-doubt.Keep taking shots, all the time. Who cares? You’re not breaking any
laws, and there’s only upside, really.
rule no.4 = establishing credibility and creating intrigue. SAFE is word.
rule no.5 = create a feeling of ultimate security while at the same time taking
on a thrilling and unpredictable ride
rule no.6 = A constrained time-frame (’I have to run, but’’) - admit, dont look
back.. jus keep walking and disappear..
rule no.7 = Here’s what you want to accomplish in the 45 seconds, in descending
order of importance:
’ Get her phone number
’ End it before she wants to.
’ Get her name
’ Mention something noteworthy, like that you live in the neighborhood.
’ Give her your name.
rule no.8 = You never get credit for playing by their rules.
rule no.9 = move from stranger to qualified...
rule no.10 = Why is verbal game important? 1. Women are verbal beings. They
relate through language and intonation. 2. A lot of men have no verbal skill so
the ones who do really stand out.
Let me ask you this question: what happens to the good-looking guy who is
sitting on the train as the hottie nearby is checking him out? What happens when
she gets to her stop and the doors open? Answer: she gets off the train.
rule no.11 = And here’s the reason women gravitate to men who have game, which
is the same thing as saying men who have verbal game: words keep it fun and
prevent awkwardness. What’s the opposite of a fun, playful chat with some
innocent teasing thrown in? Awkward silence and boredom. Cross Cyndi Lauper’s
words at your own peril, gentlemen. Girls do just want to have fun. Bore them
because you can’t rap or worse, make it awkward because you don’t have anything
to say and see her leave rather quickly.
rule no.12 = Reluctance? use this = Just get your phone out and say, ’Just give
it to me and I’ll text you. If you don’t want to have coffee you can decide that
later. No big deal.’
rule no.13 = What are some standard things to ask?
’ Directions
’ Where’s a good sushi restaurant around here?
’ Do you know where there’s a Chase® ATM?
’ (at Starbucks®) What is the difference between Splenda® and Equal®?
’ The time.
’ ’You look fit. What gym do you go to? I need to find one myself.’
’ (at Starbucks®) ’Don’t you find that Grande has too much caffeine?
’ Where’s an American Apparel® store?
’ (at a grocery store, holding a cantaloupe) ’I can never tell when these
things are ripe’’
rule no.14 = some of the laws as I know them:
’ If a woman is over-pursued she will lose interest.
’ Unavailability is a huge turn on for most women. They do have a breaking
2. point after which it becomes neglect, however.
’ Women generally like to become intrigued by the man while they’re unsure
if he’s interested.
’ Women don’t mind to be attendant to a man who has a calling or is
passionate about his work; they’re happy to be the one who is there when he
needs a break.
Keep these ideas in mind as you interact with your women.
rule no.15 = Avoid ’hard’ questions that force them to make a yes/no response
rule no.16 =
start from pg 38.