The document provides tips for how to talk to the woman of your dreams. It recommends being playful in conversation to create a light and flirty atmosphere. It also suggests being counterintuitive and different from others to stand out. Additionally, it advises acting indifferent rather than needy, and using push and pull techniques like disapproving of something she says to create an emotional rollercoaster. The document also promotes using humor to break the ice and make people more receptive, as well as leaving a positive last impression since that is what will be remembered most. Finally, it notes that being direct can work if you acknowledge potential awkwardness up front.

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How to talk to the woman
of your dreams
Tip 1: Be playful
When I say you should be playful, I mean you should create a light, flirty non-awkward
conversation with women. Playfulness should come from your physical and verbal delivery.
The way you say things is more important than the actual thing said.
Tip 2: Be counter intuitive, be different
What that means is that you say, do or act in a way that differs from the usual expected norm.
Let's take an example. Somebody asks you 'What do you do for a living?' - a very normal
question early on in the getting to know somebody -process. The usual response to this would
be to start blabbering about how you are a doctor/lawyer/banker/an artist and try to impress
the woman. Even though I have university degrees in business and law, I still prefer to be
counter intuitive and make a joke about how I am a professional proof-reader for skywriters.
It is an answer that is funny, shows that I don't take myself too serious and most importantly
it differentiates me from the rest of the crowd. (Read: 10 things not to do or say while trying
to seduce women!)
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Tip 3: Be indifferent
Don't make a woman that you just met and don't really know, the centre of your universe.
Coming off as needy will definitely kill the attraction. Instead of revealing all your cards at
once, keep things a bit mysterious and send some mixed messages.
Tip 4: Try the push and pull method
The concept of push and pull is a bit related to the principle of indifference. Basically what I
mean is that you shouldn't be the 'yes-man' all the time. It is perfectly fine to disapprove
something that women say or do. This is what I call the push. The pull means that we counter
the effects of the push by saying something positive, complimenting the woman about
something we truly like about her. We want to create an emotional roller coaster that just
makes the interactions more enjoyable. In short, women are attracted 80% mentality and 20%
visually so it is NOTmen's appearance - it is the affect they have on women's psychology.
(Read: Valentine's Day special: Seduce your partner with these aphrodisiacs)

2. Tip 5: Use humour to break the ice
You can break the ice in many ways and humour is by far the most effective. If people are
laughing, their defences are down and their brains are producing positive chemical releases.
Additionally, humour is seen by women as a trait of intelligence and works positively
towards their instincts to find a man who has survival and replication value. Let us say you
are in a nightclub and she is waving her hand in front of her trying to get rid of some smoke.
This is the perfect chance for you to make a witty situational comment to open her .e.g. 'If
you want to hail a cab you should leave the club'. Or a woman at your local store pays for
something with a lot of small change so you could comment 'Slow down big spender, I
cannot say I've ever met someone who's as fond of coins as you are.'
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Tip 6: Leave the right impression
You have probably heard the first impression is very important but they're wrong. People will
only remember the last 20% of the time they spend /interact with you. So, you can actually
have a terrible conversation for the first 80% of the time and still be successful as you will be
remembered not on your first impression, but on your last. Always try to end the interaction
on a high note.
Tip 7: Be direct
If you choose to be direct, meaning that you go up to the woman and says 'Hi, I wanted to
meet you because you are cute/beautiful/look like an interesting person', then you should also
state that 'I knows this is a bit weird / sleazy / forward / inappropriate'. You need to say it out
loud because that's what the woman is thinking. If you bring negatives or awkwardness to the
surface then it becomes non-threatening. The inherently less threatening way is to start the
conversation with a witty comment about something related to the situation or environment
you two are in. If you see that she is focused on something, then concentrate on what she is
interested in already. She will be more likely to talk about something if it is on her mind
already.