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2. A lot of us feel it takes a while to "get
to know us."

3. Which is true, in many ways. After all,
humans are very complicated beings
with many different layers of
complexity.

4. You can know somebody for a long,
long time, and never really know
everything there is to know about
them.

5. This part is very straightforward.

6. Meaning it will take a while to learn
anything that's complicated and
diverse.

7. You can only handle so much at any
given time.

8. But on another level, it takes most of
us a while to feel comfortable enough
with somebody to share certain things
about ourselves.

9. It's funny when you see a couple at a
restaurant, and they're obviously on a
first date.

10. Or maybe some kind of sales meeting,
or an interview.

11. Both people are very careful to project
the "right" image to the other person.

12. If you pay close attention, you can
usually figure out who's trying to
impress whom, regardless of the
situation.

13. On the other hand, it's pretty easy to
spot couples (opposite sex or not) that
are completely comfortable with one
another.

14. They are much more relaxed, have
much more open body language, and
seem to not worry too much.

15. One thing that is a clear signal of
people who are totally comfortable
around each other is how they handle
silence.

16. If you've been on a first date, and
there was that uncomfortable silence,
it can seem terrifying.

17. But when you're with a close friend,
you can sit for a long, long time and
not really say anything.

18. One of the hallmarks of people who
are naturally charismatic and magnetic
is they feel this way, all the time, no
matter who they're around.

19. That's why we love being around them
so much.

20. It's like they've figured out a way to
shortcut the "getting to know you"
phase and go straight to the
"comfortable with long silences
phase."

21. How do they do this?

22. Well, for starters they just simply feel
like they belong, everywhere they go.

23. They feel comfortable, no matter who
they are with, and no matter what
they are doing.

24. If a stranger comes up and starts
talking, they don't wonder who they
are or what they want.

25. They just enjoy their company.

26. Many people feel this is a special gift.
One that you either have or you don't.

27. Luckily, that's not true.

28. It's easy to cultivate that ever present
feeling of comfort.

29. Just accept who you are, and
understand that no matter what
happens, you'll be fine.

30. Once you get to this level, you'll be
able to relax, and enjoy the world.

31. And everything, and everybody in it.

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