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3. Once you get going, it's a lot easier to
keep going.
4. This is true for behavior as well as
physical momentum, but for
completely different reasons.
5. With physical momentum, you're
relying on Newton's Second Law
(bodies in motion tend to stay in
motion).
6. Once you get something going, all you
need to do is put in enough energy in
the system to overcome the natural
resistance, like friction, and you're
good.
7. If you reduce friction, you can coast for
quite a while.
8. Similarly, when you're doing some kind
of behavior, it's much, much easier to
keep going, than it is to get going.
17. So the more you talk to people, the
easier it gets for a couple of reasons.
18. One is you're have more experience
with a wide diversity of people. For
this reason, it's crucial to talk to as
many different people as you can.
19. If you're trying to build up your
confidence in talking to a girl of a
specific type, talking to regular people
will help.
20. It will build in your deep
understanding that no matter WHO
you talk to, most people have a LOT in
common.
21. So when you do see that girl, you'll see
her more a human than an imaginary
perfect angel.
22. The second reason it will keep getting
easier, is you'll build up your
experience of handling uncertainty.
23. Sure, it's never going to be completely
comfortable doing things where you
don't know what's going to happen.
24. But the more you can prove to yourself
that you can handle any conversation
with anybody, no matter what
happens, the fact that you DON'T
know what's going to happen will
bother you less and less.
25. So if you want to get better at talking
to gorgeous girls, talk to people.