Have you ever wanted to become someone for that someone you admire from afar? This article may help you.

1. How can I exist… for this someone?
So you have seen this person for a long time… but
just from afar =( S/he looks like having a regular life:
friends, school, family, etc. S/he walks by, you look; s/he
talks, you look; s/he is there, you wish you were there
too. Then at sometime you find yourself saying, “S/he
doesn’t even know I exist!” (sigh). And oh yes, you’re
right! You don’t exist for this person. So what to do?
Begin existing! Here I will give you some tips on
becoming someone to that someone.
First of all, you have to understand that in the busy,
fast-pace lives everybody has nowadays, most people
find it hard to think about people around them. Think of
yourself for example: how many times you have passed
by without even paying attention to where you’re going
or who’s around? You see? It’s not that people want to be self-centered but that they
have little time to think or imagine that there is someone out there who cares about
them. In reality everyone seems to think that where they live is the whole word.
Okay, so it’s not really a matter of meeting the guy or the girl at the first
opportunity (though this would be great, wouldn’t it?). Just think, how did you get to
notice this person? Isn’t it true that it was because s/he does something that gets
noticed? Even if it isn’t a super popular guy or a sexy chick, s/he catched your eye in
some way. My point? You have to work your way so this person gets to see you as
someone to meet or get to know better.
Common interests are a key. You can probably tell me, “but I don’t see anything
which we two share.” I can understand that perfectly, and that is why one of the best
suggestions I can give is to improve your overall profile. Do not take me wrong, this is
only if you want to become more attractive on the long run, not to impress a boy/girl.
Once you start doing more things, you are likely to have more in common with a lot of
people which will help you in so many ways. In this case signing up in a club or any
other thing that can bring you two closer would simplify things a lot.
Take the step. Approaching someone and saying hi is something everybody can
advise. Not everybody in the situation does this, though. Offering advice and applying
it are two different things. Everybody wants friends, so do not be afraid. The worst
thing that can happen is getting dismissed in no particular way. The one thing you
should look for in reality is appearing friendly and respectful. No one wants weirdos
or bullies or know-it-all’s.

2. Open your eyes! Many people go by without realizing that there is someone
looking at them. A boy/girl at this moment can be sending you subtle or open signs
that s/he interested in you. Why do I say this? Is it not you the one taking a peek at
someone from the back of your eye? Hiding while this guy/girl ‘doesn’t even know you
exist’? Well, imagine this person making an effort to figure that you are there
watching him/her. Nice, isn’t it? Then, could be that this someone is also watching you
without your knowing it?
Admire yourself. More than you can imagine, the reasons not to ‘exist for that
someone’ are just inside your head. If you take a minute to observe yourself, you will
realize there are many things that make you interesting, a nice friend and sexy! So the
right approach is to channel those qualities in the right way. Everybody likes some
attitude. Show that you are important to yourself. Have you ever heard the saying,
“love yourself then others will love you”? With a healthy view of yourself you enhance
the possibilities that others see the worth in you.
Finally, you should remember that ‘existing for someone’ will not aways be what
you expect. Two individuals may not be for each other but you’ll never find out about
your ‘someone’ until you cross the bridge and ‘exist’ for him/her. So find common
ground, take the step, open your eyes, admire yourself and GO FOR IT!
This article was taken from Olda Brutha at http://loiverszche.wordpress.com/ Under the
love/relationships category.