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Why we all need to practice emotional first aid

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We go to the doctor when we feel sick. So why don’t we see a health professional when we feel emotional pain: guilt, loss, loneliness? Guy Winch makes a compelling case to practice emotional hygiene — taking care of our emotions, our minds, with the same diligence we take care of our bodies.

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Why we all need to practice emotional first aid

  1. WHY WE ALL NEED TO PRACTICE EMOTIONAL FIRST AID
  2. ABOUT THE SPEAKER Guy Winch is a licensed psychologist who works with individuals, couples and families. His most recent book is Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts. He writes the popular Squeaky Wheel Blog on PsychologyToday.com, and is the author of The Squeaky Wheel: Complaining the Right Way to Get Results, Improve Your Relationships and Enhance Self-Esteem.
  3. We all know how to maintain our physical health and how to practice dental hygiene.
  4. But what do we know about maintaining our psychological health?  What do we teach our children about emotional hygiene?  How is it that we spend more time taking care of our teeth than we do our minds? Why is it that our physical health is so much more important to us than our psychological health?
  5. We sustain psychological injuries even more often than we do physical ones, injuries like failure or rejection or loneliness.  And they can also get worse if we ignore them, and they can impact our lives in dramatic ways. 
  6. Even though there are scientifically proven techniques we could use to treat these kinds of psychological injuries, we don't. It doesn't even occur to us that we should.  "Oh, you're feeling depressed? Just shake it off; it's all in your head."  Can you imagine saying that to somebody with a broken leg:  "Oh, just walk it off; it's all in your leg." 
  7. It is time we closed the gap between our physical and our psychological health. It's time we made them more equal, more like twins.
  8. Loneliness creates a deep psychological wound, one that distorts our perceptions and scrambles our thinking.   It make us really afraid to reach out, because why set yourself up for rejection and heartache when your heart is already aching more than you can stand?  It makes us believe that those around us care much less than they actually do.  
  9. Loneliness won't just make you miserable, it will kill you  Chronic loneliness increases your likelihood of an early death by 14 percent Scientists have concluded that taken together, chronic loneliness poses as significant a risk for your long-term health and longevity as cigarette smoking. Now cigarette packs come with warnings saying, "This could kill you." But loneliness doesn't.   
  10. Failure does that as well. Are you aware of how your mind reacts to failure?  You need to be. Because if your mind tries to convince you you're incapable of something and you believe it, then like those two toddlers, you'll begin to feel helpless and you'll stop trying too soon, or you won't even try at all.  And then you'll be even more convinced you can't succeed. You see, that's why so many people function below their actual potential. Because somewhere along the way, sometimes a single failure convinced them that they couldn't succeed, and they believed it.
  11. Our mind is hard to change once we become convinced. So it might be very natural to feel demoralized and defeated after you fail.  But you cannot allow yourself to become convinced you can't succeed. You have to fight feelings of helplessness. You have to gain control over the situation. And you have to break this kind of negative cycle before it begins. 
  12. Another example of one of the unhealthiest and most common habits is called rumination.  It's when your boss yells at you, or your professor makes you feel stupid in class, or you have big fight with a friend and you just can't stop replaying the scene in your head for days, sometimes for weeks on end.  Spending so much time focused on upsetting and negative thoughts, you are actually putting yourself at significant risk for developing clinical depression, alcoholism, eating disorders, and even cardiovascular disease.
  13. We don't prioritize our psychological health. We know from dozens of studies that when your self-esteem is lower, you are more vulnerable to stress and to anxiety, that failures and rejections hurt more and it takes longer to recover from them.  So when you get rejected, the first thing you should be doing is to revive your self-esteem, not join Fight Club and beat it into a pulp. When you're in emotional pain, treat yourself with the same compassion you would expect from a truly good friend. 
  14. By taking action when you're lonely, by changing your responses to failure, by protecting your self- esteem, by battling negative thinking, you won't just heal your psychological wounds, you will build emotional resilience, you will thrive.  A hundred years ago, people began practicing personal hygiene, and life expectancy rates rose by over 50 percent in just a matter of decades. Our quality of life could rise just as dramatically if we all began practicing emotional hygiene.
  15. Can you imagine what the world would be like if everyone was psychologically healthier?   If there were less loneliness and less depression? If people knew how to overcome failure?  If they felt better about themselves and more empowered? If they were happier and more fulfilled?  If you just become informed and change a few simple habits, that's the world we can all live in.
  16. TED Talk: http://www.ted.com/talks/ guy_winch_the_case_for_emotional_hygiene

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