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以佛法
面對老病死
善心
May 25, 2022
溫習
上星期 May 18, 2022
o 面對病苦、阿那律病重、以四念住面對病痛。
o 天史經。
Chris 的故事
o 1959年、當過兵。之後無家可歸 homeless。
o 二十多年前、在過度之家 (transitional home)見到將
來的太太。他們結婚。沒有兒女。這三四年他的太
太病重、不能工作、在家醫病。太太很怕死。他儘
量安徽太太。
o 今年63歲、他修一行禪師的法門靜觀。對太太的病
況、很平靜心來接受與面對。一點擔心、害怕都沒
有。接受當下的情況 Accept what is. (caretaker 照顧
者)
女居士:玄言
 住在德國、越南國籍、1955出生。
 2018 請我去德國分享監獄的經驗。
 這三年來、似乎胃癌、但醫生不知道是什麼病。
 吃就吐、常常去醫院。
 現在吃輻射丸 (radiation pill)、不能說話。
An Introduction to Buddhist
Psychology & Counselling
De Silva, Padmasiri 2014
心的令一方面看法 (心理醫
生):
 三種性格: 雕刻石、沙、水。
 Three types of mind:
carving rock, sand, and
water.
Page 73
似雕刻的性格
似沙子的心
似水的心
Illnesses
病痛
慢性:
 癌症、重病-身體有關-》三至五年以上
 精神病:可能一世
 我媽媽患膀胱癌、醫了兩年醫生說她只有幾個月、她繼
續活多差不多三年。
急性:
 病疫、災難、戰爭、 急性病-〉幾日至幾個星期。
 我爸爸患肝癌、只活五星期。
Anathapindika’s Last Illness
教化給孤獨長者經--中部經143
 He sent a message to the Elder Sariputta asking him to
visit. Both Sariputta and Ananda came.
 給孤獨長者病得很重、吩咐一個下人去頂禮世尊、
之後前往舍利弗尊者那裏,頂禮舍利弗尊者、說:
「大德,給孤獨長者生了病,病得很重。他頂禮尊
者雙足。願尊者悲憫,前往給孤獨長者的居所就好
了。」
 舍利弗尊者保持沉默以表示願意探望給孤獨長者。
Anathapindika’s Last Illness
 Sariputta: Then householder, you should train thus: “I will
not cling to the eye; there shall be no consciousness of
mine based on the eye.” You should train thus. He went
on to instruct him likewise about the other four senses
and the mind, about the objects of those five senses and
the mind, about these six kinds of consciousness and
contact and feeling, about the elements of earth, water,
fire, air, space, and consciousness, about the five
aggregates, …finally about all that is seen, heard, sensed
(by nose, tongue, and body), and cognized, sought after
and accessible to the mind.
教化給孤獨長者經
 「居士,既然這樣,你應這樣修學:不要執取眼,
心識不要依賴眼;不要執取耳,心識不要依賴耳;
不要執取鼻,心識不要依賴鼻;不要執取舌,心識
不要依賴舌;不要執取身,心識不要依賴身;不要
執取意,心識不要依賴意。居士,你應這樣修學。」
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取色。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取眼識。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取眼觸。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取眼觸所生的受,心識不要依
賴眼觸所生的受。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取地,心識不要依賴
地。。。水、火、風、空、識。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取空無邊處,心識不
要依賴空無邊處。。。 識無邊處。。。 無所有
處。。。 非想非非想處。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取此世,心識不要依
賴此世;。。。他世。。。
 居士,你應這樣修學:不要執取見、聞、覺、知、
尋、意行,心識不要依賴見、聞、覺、知、尋、意
行。居士,你應這樣修學。
 阿難:「居士,這樣的法語主要不是為穿白色衣服
的在家人而說的,居士,這樣的法語主要是為出家
人而說的。」
 舍利弗尊者和阿難尊者離去不久,給孤獨長者身壞
命終,投生在兜率天。
http://www.chilin.edu.hk/edu/report_section_detail.asp?section_id=60&id=476
 Anathapindika wept and tears ran down his face. Ananda
asked: “Are you holding back, householder? Are you
failing?”
 “I am not holding back, venerable Ananda, I am not
failing. Though I have long waited on the Master and the
meditative bhikkhus, yet I have never before heard such a
talk on the Dhamma as that. Such talks on the Dhamma
are not given to the white-clothed laity, householder, they
are given to those gone forth from the house life.
 He requested to have such talks given to the laity who
would gain final knowledge of the Dhamma. He passed
away and attained stream-entered (only seven more
lives).
Dealing with excruciating pain
如何應付痠痛
 Label the pain as “pain” and let go of any story associated
with it.
Repeat: 默念
 “This is not me!” 「這不是我。」
 “This is not mine!” 「這不是屬於我的。」
Prevent the mind from grasping to the pain area.
Death
 June 2021: A seven year-old, diagnosed with brain cancer,
passed away after 7 weeks.
 Death could happen anytime regardless of age or health.
 死亡可以隨時發生、不分老幼。
https://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/study/beyondcoping/examples.html
Citta’s Death
 On that occasion Citta the householder was diseased, in
pain, severely ill.
 From the devas: "Make a wish, householder: 'In the future,
may I become a king, a wheel-turning monarch!’”
 "Even that is inconstant; even that is impermanent; one
must abandon even that when one passes on.”
看病人經--相應部41相應10經
https://agama.buddhason.org/SN/SN1156.htm
 當時,居士質多 Citta 生病、受苦、重病者。
那時,眾多園林天神、樹林天神、樹木天神、居住
在藥草與大樹中的天神們會合後,對屋主質多說這
個:
「居士!請你祈願:『願我為未來世的轉輪
王。』」
在這麼說時,居士質多對那些園林天神、樹林天神、
樹木天神、居住在藥草與大樹中的天神們說這個:
「那也是無常的,那也是不堅固的,捨棄後那也應
該被行。」
看病人經--相應部41相應10經
 在這麼說時,居士質多的朋友、同僚、親族、親屬
對居士質多說這個:「聖男子!請你使(正)念現
起,不要胡言亂語。」
「那我說什麼,你們會這麼說我:『聖男子!請你
使(正)念現起,不要胡言亂語。』呢?」
「聖男子!你這麼說:『那也是無常的,那也是不
堅固的,捨棄後那也應該被行。』」
「但像那樣是因為諸園林天神、樹林天神、樹木天
神、居住在藥草與大樹中的天神們對我這麼說:
『居士!請你祈願:「願我為未來世的轉輪
王。」』那個我這麼說:『那也是無常的……(中
略)捨棄後那也應該被行。』」
 「聖男子!那樣的話,請你也教誡我們。」
因此,應該被你們這麼學:
『我們將成為在佛上具備不壞淨者:「像這樣,那
位世尊是阿羅漢、如來、應供、正遍知、明行足、
善逝、世間解、無上士、調御丈夫、天人師、佛、
世尊 (佛陀十號)。」
 我們將成為在法上具備不壞淨者:「法是世尊善說
的、直接可見的、即時的、請你來看的、能引導的、
應該被智者各自經驗的。」
 我們將成為在僧團上具備不壞淨者:「世尊的弟子
僧團是善行者,世尊的弟子僧團是依正直而行者,
世尊的弟子僧團是依真理而行者,世尊的弟子僧團
是方正行者,即:四雙之人、八輩之士,這世尊的
弟子僧團應該被奉獻、應該被供奉、應該被供養、
應該被合掌,為世間的無上福田。」』
 又,凡在家族中任何能施與法(物),全都將成為與持
戒者、善法者無差別的,應該被你們這麼學。」
 那時,居士質多在佛上、在法上、在僧團上、在施
捨上勸導朋友、同僚、親族、親屬後命終。
Citta’s Faith in Buddhism
As instructed by the Buddha:
 I will be endowed with verified confidence in the Buddha:
"Indeed, the Blessed One [the Buddha] is pure & rightly self-awakened,
consummate in knowledge & conduct, well-gone, an expert with regard to the
cosmos, unexcelled as a trainer for those people fit to be tamed, the Teacher
of divine & human beings, awakened, blessed.”
 I will be endowed with verified confidence in the
Dhamma: "The Dhamma is well-expounded by the Blessed One, to be seen
here & now, timeless, inviting verification, pertinent, to be realized by the
wise for themselves.”
 I will be possessed of verified confidence in the Sangha:
"The Sangha of the Blessed One's disciples who have practiced well... who
have practiced straight-forwardly... who have practiced methodically... who
have practiced masterfully — in other words, the four types [of noble
disciples] when taken as pairs, the eight when taken as individual types —
they are the Sangha of the Blessed One's disciples: worthy of gifts, worthy of
hospitality, worthy of offerings, worthy of respect, the incomparable field of
merit for the world."
 'Whatever there may be in our family that can be given
away, all that will be shared unstintingly with virtuous
ones who are of admirable character.' That's how I should
train myself.
 Then, having enjoined his friends & colleagues, his
relatives & kinsmen, to place confidence in the Buddha,
Dhamma, & Sangha; having exhorted them to undertake
generosity, Citta the householder passed away.
Sources
 Majjhima Nikaya (1029-1032).
 Thus We Heard by Bhante Piyananda & Stephen Long
 The Life of the Buddha by Bhikkhu Nanamoli

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