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BREAKYOUR 
Mind 
POPCORNED BY DEY DOS 
OPEN
Your 
LEADHOSTS
DEYDOS 
AMALIAGHIBAN
How do you break 
your mind open? 
BY BEING OPEN TO LEARN FROM EVERY 
SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU LIVE
What stops you from 
learning from every 
single experience? 
MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT 
GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE 
AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME
Never let your printer 
know that you are in a 
hurry… 
PRINTERS CAN SMELL 
YOUR FEAR! 
p
How do you 
usually respond to 
“bad” experiences? 
anger Ÿ detachment Ÿ ignore it 
EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD 
EXPERIENCE, 
WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER
Is change a 
“bad” 
experience?
SOME FACTS ABOUT 
BAD EXPERIENCES 
! Everybody has them 
! No one likes them 
! Few turn them into positives 
! Normally later…
What separates people 
who thrive from those who 
merely survive? 
HOW THEY FACE 
THE PAIN OF THEIR 
BAD EXPERIENCES
PAIN 
SUFFERING
It is all about PAIN
Pain prompt us to face 
who we have become and 
where we are. 
WHAT WE DO WITH THAT 
EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE 
CONSTANTLY BECOME
THE PAIN OF 
INEXPERIENCE 
THE PAIN OF 
INCOMPETENCE 
THE PAIN OF 
DISAPPOINTMENT 
THE PAIN OF 
CONFLICT
THE PAIN OF 
CHANGE 
THE PAIN OF 
REGRET 
THE PAIN OF 
HARD DECISIONS 
THE PAIN OF 
DISCIPLINE
THE PAIN OF 
THE NEW 
THE PAIN OF 
NOT BEING Nº 1 
THE PAIN OF 
LEAVING 
THE PAIN OF 
RESPONSIBILITY
What could all these 
painful experiences 
teach us?
LET DISCOMFORT BE A 
CATALYST FOR OUR 
DEVELOPMENT 
Blame…
NOPAIN 
NOGAIN
1. EMBRACE A 
GROWTH MINDSET 
To a large degree in life we 
get what we expect. 
Why would I want to 
expect the worst?
2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE 
YOUR EMOTIONS 
Use the energy that comes from 
strong emotions and adrenaline to 
solve problems and learn lessons. 
How can I smartly 
utilize my emotional 
energy?
3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF 
BAD EXPERIENCES 
Facing them is inevitable, learning 
is optional, and we normally learn 
long after they happen. 
Why would I wait for 
after?
4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH 
BAD EXPERIENCES 
We either face the hard 
feelings and embrace change 
or we try to escape. 
Why would I choose the 
pain of regret over the 
pain of discipline?
5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR 
YOUR OWN LIFE 
Circumstances don’t define us, what 
we do in the face of them does. 
Why would I give 
such power to the 
circumstances?
No matter what you have 
gone through in this role so 
far – or what you are 
currently going through 
– you have the opportunity 
to grow from it.
It’s sometime very hard 
and difficult to see the 
opportunities… 
BUT THEY ARE 
THERE!
Even if you can’t see them… 
THEY ARE 
THERE!
It’s not just about being 
willing to believe and look 
for them, but to pursue them 
with discipline. 
THEN 
IT GETS EASIER 
EVERY TIME!
Life is not the way it’s 
supposed to be. 
It’s the way it is. 
The way you cope with it is 
what makes the difference. 
virginiasatir
My @XP is not the way 
it’s supposed to be. 
It’s the way it is. 
The way I cope with it is 
what makes the difference. 
THERE IT IS WHERE THE 
LEADER IN ME EMERGES
Am I ready to look for 
opportunities in 
everything that comes in 
the way of my @XP? 
AM I WILLING TO START 
AT NSC 2014?
Break Your Mind Open

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Break Your Mind Open

  • 1. BREAKYOUR Mind POPCORNED BY DEY DOS OPEN
  • 4. How do you break your mind open? BY BEING OPEN TO LEARN FROM EVERY SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU LIVE
  • 5. What stops you from learning from every single experience? MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME
  • 6. Never let your printer know that you are in a hurry… PRINTERS CAN SMELL YOUR FEAR! p
  • 7. How do you usually respond to “bad” experiences? anger Ÿ detachment Ÿ ignore it EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD EXPERIENCE, WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER
  • 8. Is change a “bad” experience?
  • 9. SOME FACTS ABOUT BAD EXPERIENCES ! Everybody has them ! No one likes them ! Few turn them into positives ! Normally later…
  • 10. What separates people who thrive from those who merely survive? HOW THEY FACE THE PAIN OF THEIR BAD EXPERIENCES
  • 12. It is all about PAIN
  • 13. Pain prompt us to face who we have become and where we are. WHAT WE DO WITH THAT EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE CONSTANTLY BECOME
  • 14. THE PAIN OF INEXPERIENCE THE PAIN OF INCOMPETENCE THE PAIN OF DISAPPOINTMENT THE PAIN OF CONFLICT
  • 15. THE PAIN OF CHANGE THE PAIN OF REGRET THE PAIN OF HARD DECISIONS THE PAIN OF DISCIPLINE
  • 16. THE PAIN OF THE NEW THE PAIN OF NOT BEING Nº 1 THE PAIN OF LEAVING THE PAIN OF RESPONSIBILITY
  • 17. What could all these painful experiences teach us?
  • 18. LET DISCOMFORT BE A CATALYST FOR OUR DEVELOPMENT Blame…
  • 20. 1. EMBRACE A GROWTH MINDSET To a large degree in life we get what we expect. Why would I want to expect the worst?
  • 21. 2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE YOUR EMOTIONS Use the energy that comes from strong emotions and adrenaline to solve problems and learn lessons. How can I smartly utilize my emotional energy?
  • 22. 3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF BAD EXPERIENCES Facing them is inevitable, learning is optional, and we normally learn long after they happen. Why would I wait for after?
  • 23. 4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH BAD EXPERIENCES We either face the hard feelings and embrace change or we try to escape. Why would I choose the pain of regret over the pain of discipline?
  • 24. 5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR YOUR OWN LIFE Circumstances don’t define us, what we do in the face of them does. Why would I give such power to the circumstances?
  • 25. No matter what you have gone through in this role so far – or what you are currently going through – you have the opportunity to grow from it.
  • 26. It’s sometime very hard and difficult to see the opportunities… BUT THEY ARE THERE!
  • 27.
  • 28. Even if you can’t see them… THEY ARE THERE!
  • 29. It’s not just about being willing to believe and look for them, but to pursue them with discipline. THEN IT GETS EASIER EVERY TIME!
  • 30. Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference. virginiasatir
  • 31. My @XP is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way I cope with it is what makes the difference. THERE IT IS WHERE THE LEADER IN ME EMERGES
  • 32. Am I ready to look for opportunities in everything that comes in the way of my @XP? AM I WILLING TO START AT NSC 2014?