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ADOLESCENCE- THE CHARM
AND CHALLENGES
ICE BREAKER
 LETTER SCAVENGER HUNT
WHAT IS ADOLESCENCE ?
 The word adolescence comes from the Latin word
‘adolscere’ which means to grow or mature while
achieving an identity.
 It is a period of transition from childhood to
adulthood
 It spans from 10 to 18 yrs.
 It is also called a period of stress and storm as it
might be challenging for some.
 We go through a number of biological, hormonal,
psychological, social-emotional and cognitive
changes.
FACTORS AFFECTING THE TRANSITION
 Gender
 Family values
 Parenting style
 School environment
 Cultural background
 Media
 Peer group
 Socio-economic status
FUN TIME
 I SPY
PHYSIOLOGICAL CHANGES
 Growth spurts – Height and weight
 Puberty – Sexual maturation
 Puberty changes may happen slowly.
Or several changes may occur at the same time.
 Hormonal changes
 Pubic hair growth
 Voice changes
PSYCHOLOGICAL CHANGES
 WE SEEK
 More liberty
 Freedom of expression
 Independent thinking
 Self Identity
 Freedom of choice
 Acceptance and validation
 CONSCIOUS OF BODY IMAGE
COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
 Curiosity & exploration
 Reasoning skills
 Abstract thinking
 Diversified interests
 Change in Perspective
 Creativity
BRAIN BREAK
 CAN YOU GUESS THE SENTENCE
SOCIAL EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT
 Search for self identity in relation to others
 Peer interaction
 Self awareness
 Leadership
 Decision making
 Risk taking
 Responsibility
CHALLENGES
 Distractions
 Accepting biological changes
 Ignorance/confusion about sexuality
 Peer pressure
 Lack of guidance and motivation
 Self concept
 School demands
 Parental expectations
 Social pressure
 Mood swings
 Imaginary audience
REACTIONS
 Defiance
 Sulking
 Frustration
 Anger
 Rebelling
 Anxiety
 Blaming /criticizing
 Verbal aggression
 Self harm
WHAT YOU SHOULD AVOID
 Strong reactions
 Verbal aggression / arguments
 Rebellious behaviour
 Social media
 Inappropriate content
 Self harm
 Social pressure
 Substance abuse
 Binge eating
FUN ACTIVITY
 DRAW A LAZY EIGHT IN THE AIR
COPING
STRATEGIES
 Choose a sport / physical activity/ Brain gym
 Develop a hobby in Art or Music
 Set simple goals
 Have a routine
 Have good sleep and food habits
 Communicate more
 Practice relaxation techniques
 (Yoga/ meditation/Pranayama)
 Limit social media
 Don’t give into peer pressure
 Talk to an adult or seek
professional help
RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS
 Avoid looking at your parents as the enemy. They love you and have your best
interests in mind, even if you don't necessarily agree with their way of
showing that.
 Try to understand that your parents are human beings, with their own
insecurities, needs and feelings.
 Listen to your parents with an open mind, and try to see situations from their
point of view.
 Share your feelings with your parents so that they can understand you better.
 Live up to your responsibilities at home and in school so that your parents will
be more inclined to grant you the kind of independence you want and need.
 Express your opinions and suggestions freely for practical improvements.
 Be as courteous and considerate to your own parents as you would be to the
parents of your friends.
LET’S MOVE
 CROSS CRAWLS
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Adolescence ppt

  • 2. ICE BREAKER  LETTER SCAVENGER HUNT
  • 3. WHAT IS ADOLESCENCE ?  The word adolescence comes from the Latin word ‘adolscere’ which means to grow or mature while achieving an identity.  It is a period of transition from childhood to adulthood  It spans from 10 to 18 yrs.  It is also called a period of stress and storm as it might be challenging for some.  We go through a number of biological, hormonal, psychological, social-emotional and cognitive changes.
  • 4. FACTORS AFFECTING THE TRANSITION  Gender  Family values  Parenting style  School environment  Cultural background  Media  Peer group  Socio-economic status
  • 6. PHYSIOLOGICAL CHANGES  Growth spurts – Height and weight  Puberty – Sexual maturation  Puberty changes may happen slowly. Or several changes may occur at the same time.  Hormonal changes  Pubic hair growth  Voice changes
  • 7. PSYCHOLOGICAL CHANGES  WE SEEK  More liberty  Freedom of expression  Independent thinking  Self Identity  Freedom of choice  Acceptance and validation  CONSCIOUS OF BODY IMAGE
  • 8. COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT  Curiosity & exploration  Reasoning skills  Abstract thinking  Diversified interests  Change in Perspective  Creativity
  • 9. BRAIN BREAK  CAN YOU GUESS THE SENTENCE
  • 10. SOCIAL EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT  Search for self identity in relation to others  Peer interaction  Self awareness  Leadership  Decision making  Risk taking  Responsibility
  • 11. CHALLENGES  Distractions  Accepting biological changes  Ignorance/confusion about sexuality  Peer pressure  Lack of guidance and motivation  Self concept  School demands  Parental expectations  Social pressure  Mood swings  Imaginary audience
  • 12. REACTIONS  Defiance  Sulking  Frustration  Anger  Rebelling  Anxiety  Blaming /criticizing  Verbal aggression  Self harm
  • 13. WHAT YOU SHOULD AVOID  Strong reactions  Verbal aggression / arguments  Rebellious behaviour  Social media  Inappropriate content  Self harm  Social pressure  Substance abuse  Binge eating
  • 14. FUN ACTIVITY  DRAW A LAZY EIGHT IN THE AIR
  • 15. COPING STRATEGIES  Choose a sport / physical activity/ Brain gym  Develop a hobby in Art or Music  Set simple goals  Have a routine  Have good sleep and food habits  Communicate more  Practice relaxation techniques  (Yoga/ meditation/Pranayama)  Limit social media  Don’t give into peer pressure  Talk to an adult or seek professional help
  • 16. RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS  Avoid looking at your parents as the enemy. They love you and have your best interests in mind, even if you don't necessarily agree with their way of showing that.  Try to understand that your parents are human beings, with their own insecurities, needs and feelings.  Listen to your parents with an open mind, and try to see situations from their point of view.  Share your feelings with your parents so that they can understand you better.  Live up to your responsibilities at home and in school so that your parents will be more inclined to grant you the kind of independence you want and need.  Express your opinions and suggestions freely for practical improvements.  Be as courteous and considerate to your own parents as you would be to the parents of your friends.