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LEARNING &
DEVELOPMENT
“THE MOST SUCCESSFUL
PEOPLE AND BUSINESSES
NEVER STOP LEARNING”
This session will start at 12:45
Attitude and understanding:
Improving your negotiation
skills.
User guide
 Questions/ comments: chat box
 Host only
 All participants
Write here…..
You are a leader responsible for a project due to be delivered
on Wednesday (today is Friday). You are behind schedule and
it will reflect badly on you (and the team) if the project is late
so you will have to demand that the project team work some
of the weekend and late early next week (they won’t like it).
One of the team comes to you and asks if he could have
Thursday off. Would you:
1. Agree to the day off
2. Say no to the day off
3. Explain that the project is late and that you can’t
agree to the day off as the rest of the team will
suffer even more
4. Ask why the team member wants a day off at such
short notice
5. Something else…
 Define what we mean by negotiation
 Briefly look at the process
 Explore the importance of attitude
 Identify a range of behaviours useful in
negotiations
 Explore “perceived value”
Agenda
 …working side by side to achieve mutually
beneficial and satisfactory results
 …a process through which parties move from
their initially divergent positions to a point
where agreement can be reached
What is Negotiation?
Types of Negotiation
Personal
Business
FinancialNon-Financial
Family
Friends
Partners
Kids
etc
Project team
members
Boss
Peers
Other colleagues
Purchasing and
selling goods and
services
Selling/buying car
House
The Negotiation Process
Preparation
Opening
Analysing/Influencing
Deal making
Closure
Documentation
The importance of attitude…
Distributive
The importance of attitude…
Integrative
Attitude
Focusonownneeds
Focus on other’s needsLo
Lo
Hi
Hi
Covey’s “win/win” matrix
Win/Win
Lose/Lose
Win/Lose
Lose/Win
Relationships
Personal
Business
FinancialNon-Financial
Family
Friends
Partners
Kids
etc
Project team
members
Boss
Peers
Other colleagues
Purchasing and
selling goods and
services
Selling/buying car
House
ProfitImpact
Supply RiskLow
Low
Hi
Hi
Kraljic matrix
Leverage Items Strategic Items
Non-critical Items Bottleneck Items
Exploitation of
purchasing power
Diversify, balance or
exploit
Efficient processing Volume assurance
Supplier Perspective
AccountAttractiveness
Relative ValueLo
Lo
Hi
Hi
Supplier Preferencing matrix
Development
Nurture client
Expand business
Seek new
opportunities
Core
Cosset client
Defend vigorously
High service and response
Nuisance Exploitable
Give low attention
Lose without pain
Drive premium price
Seek short-term
advantage
Risk losing customer
Attitude
Focusonownneeds
Focus on other’s needsLo
Lo
Hi
Hi
Covey’s “win/win” matrix
A B
Values Iceberg
VALUES
BELIEFS
ATTITUDES
CAPABILITIES
BEHAVIOURS
EXPECTATIONS
Behaviour
Focusonownneeds
Focus on other’s needsLo
Lo
Hi
Hi
Compromising
Covey cf Thomas-Kilmann
Variables
A B
Important to me Important to you
 Consider ALL the variables – be creative
 Identify those that wouldn’t cost much to give
way on
 Identify the key ones for you and ‘how much’
you really need of each
 Emphasise the value of concessions you make
 Downplay the value of concessions you
receive
Variables
 How much is a bottle of water worth?
 How much would you pay for it if you
were…
 Standing next to a free water cooler with an empty
bottle?
 In a country where you can’t drink the tap water?
 Close to a shop where the price of a bottle is £1?
 Close to a shop where the price of a bottle is £2?
 Dying of thirst in a desert?
Perceived value…
 If you were buying my car…
 “The Life of Brian”
Perceived value…
 Consider ALL the variables – be creative
 Identify those that wouldn’t cost much to give
way on
 Identify the key ones for you and ‘how much’
you really need of each
 Emphasize the value of concessions you make
 Downplay the value of concessions you
receive
 Remember perceived value is what matters
Variables
 Attitude is key to successful negotiation
outcomes
 Attitude is even important in the planning
stage
 Relationships are nearly always important
 A range of behaviours will enable us to better
maintain relationships
 Variables are the way in which we are able to
make ‘bigger pies’
Summary
Contact us
 NAME: Sayuri Espinoza
 EMAIL: s_espinoza@imeche.org
 OFFICE: +44 (0) 20 7304 6922
 FAX: +44 (0) 20 7304 6845
“THE WIDEST RANGE OF TRAINING
PROGRAMMES DESIGNED FOR
ENGINEERS
AND BUSINESSES WITH
TECHNICAL PEOPLE
AROUND THE WORLD”

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Attitude and understanding the surprising ways you can improve your negotiation skills

  • 1. LEARNING & DEVELOPMENT “THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE AND BUSINESSES NEVER STOP LEARNING” This session will start at 12:45 Attitude and understanding: Improving your negotiation skills.
  • 2. User guide  Questions/ comments: chat box  Host only  All participants Write here…..
  • 3. You are a leader responsible for a project due to be delivered on Wednesday (today is Friday). You are behind schedule and it will reflect badly on you (and the team) if the project is late so you will have to demand that the project team work some of the weekend and late early next week (they won’t like it). One of the team comes to you and asks if he could have Thursday off. Would you: 1. Agree to the day off 2. Say no to the day off 3. Explain that the project is late and that you can’t agree to the day off as the rest of the team will suffer even more 4. Ask why the team member wants a day off at such short notice 5. Something else…
  • 4.  Define what we mean by negotiation  Briefly look at the process  Explore the importance of attitude  Identify a range of behaviours useful in negotiations  Explore “perceived value” Agenda
  • 5.  …working side by side to achieve mutually beneficial and satisfactory results  …a process through which parties move from their initially divergent positions to a point where agreement can be reached What is Negotiation?
  • 6. Types of Negotiation Personal Business FinancialNon-Financial Family Friends Partners Kids etc Project team members Boss Peers Other colleagues Purchasing and selling goods and services Selling/buying car House
  • 8. The importance of attitude… Distributive
  • 9. The importance of attitude… Integrative
  • 10. Attitude Focusonownneeds Focus on other’s needsLo Lo Hi Hi Covey’s “win/win” matrix Win/Win Lose/Lose Win/Lose Lose/Win
  • 12. ProfitImpact Supply RiskLow Low Hi Hi Kraljic matrix Leverage Items Strategic Items Non-critical Items Bottleneck Items Exploitation of purchasing power Diversify, balance or exploit Efficient processing Volume assurance
  • 13. Supplier Perspective AccountAttractiveness Relative ValueLo Lo Hi Hi Supplier Preferencing matrix Development Nurture client Expand business Seek new opportunities Core Cosset client Defend vigorously High service and response Nuisance Exploitable Give low attention Lose without pain Drive premium price Seek short-term advantage Risk losing customer
  • 14. Attitude Focusonownneeds Focus on other’s needsLo Lo Hi Hi Covey’s “win/win” matrix A B
  • 16. Behaviour Focusonownneeds Focus on other’s needsLo Lo Hi Hi Compromising Covey cf Thomas-Kilmann
  • 17. Variables A B Important to me Important to you
  • 18.  Consider ALL the variables – be creative  Identify those that wouldn’t cost much to give way on  Identify the key ones for you and ‘how much’ you really need of each  Emphasise the value of concessions you make  Downplay the value of concessions you receive Variables
  • 19.  How much is a bottle of water worth?  How much would you pay for it if you were…  Standing next to a free water cooler with an empty bottle?  In a country where you can’t drink the tap water?  Close to a shop where the price of a bottle is £1?  Close to a shop where the price of a bottle is £2?  Dying of thirst in a desert? Perceived value…
  • 20.  If you were buying my car…  “The Life of Brian” Perceived value…
  • 21.  Consider ALL the variables – be creative  Identify those that wouldn’t cost much to give way on  Identify the key ones for you and ‘how much’ you really need of each  Emphasize the value of concessions you make  Downplay the value of concessions you receive  Remember perceived value is what matters Variables
  • 22.  Attitude is key to successful negotiation outcomes  Attitude is even important in the planning stage  Relationships are nearly always important  A range of behaviours will enable us to better maintain relationships  Variables are the way in which we are able to make ‘bigger pies’ Summary
  • 23. Contact us  NAME: Sayuri Espinoza  EMAIL: s_espinoza@imeche.org  OFFICE: +44 (0) 20 7304 6922  FAX: +44 (0) 20 7304 6845 “THE WIDEST RANGE OF TRAINING PROGRAMMES DESIGNED FOR ENGINEERS AND BUSINESSES WITH TECHNICAL PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD”