The Big Idea
Be strong and courageous. Do not
be frightened, and do not be
dismayed, for the LORD your God
is with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9b (ESV) 2
Dating/marring someone much better than
yourself
Punter kicks the ball too far for his coverage team
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Outkicking
your
coverage
Our Text
Now there was a famine in the land. So Abram went
down to Egypt to sojourn there, for the famine was
severe in the land. When he was about to enter
Egypt, he said to Sarai his wife, “I know that you are
a woman beautiful in appearance, and when the
Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’
Then they will kill
Genesis 12:10–20 6
Our Text
me, but they will let you live. Say you are my sister,
that it may go well with me because of you, and that
my life may be spared for your sake.” When Abram
entered Egypt, the Egyptians saw that the woman
was very beautiful. And when the princes of
Pharaoh saw her, they praised her to Pharaoh. And
the woman was taken into
Genesis 12:10–20 7
Our Text
Pharaoh’s house. And for her sake he dealt well with
Abram; and he had sheep, oxen, male donkeys, male
servants, female servants, female donkeys, and
camels. But the LORD afflicted Pharaoh and his
house with great plagues because of Sarai, Abram’s
wife. So Pharaoh called Abram and said, “What is
this you have done to
Genesis 12:10–20 8
Our Text
me? Why did you not tell me that she was your
wife? Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ so that I
took her for my wife? Now then, here is your wife;
take her, and go.” And Pharaoh gave men orders
concerning him, and they sent him away with his
wife and all that he had.
Genesis 12:10–20 9
Hard times in the Promised Land!
Genesis 12:10…Now there was a famine in the
land. So Abram went down to Egypt to sojourn
there, for the famine was severe in the land.
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Uh, a good idea?
When he was about to enter Egypt, he said to
Sarai his wife, “I know that you are a woman
beautiful in appearance, and when the Egyptians
see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’ Then they
will kill me, but they will let you live. Say you are
my sister, that it may go well with me because of
you, and that my life may be spared for your
sake.”
Genesis 12:11–13 13
Bingo!
When Abram entered Egypt, the
Egyptians saw that the woman was
very beautiful. And when the
princes of Pharaoh saw her, they
praised her to Pharaoh. And the
woman was taken into Pharaoh’s
house.
Genesis 12:14–15 15
Bride payment!
Genesis 12:16 And for her sake he dealt well with
Abram; and he had sheep, oxen, male donkeys,
male servants, female servants, female donkeys,
and camels.
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This is for you
Your teeth are like a
flock of ewes that
have come up from
the washing; not one
among them is lost…
Song of Solomon 6:6 17
God steps in
But the LORD afflicted Pharaoh and
his house with great plagues
because of Sarai, Abram’s wife.
Genesis 12:17 18
God will not leave you
Many are the afflictions of the
righteous, but the LORD delivers
him out of them all.
Psalm 34:19 19
God will rescue us!
You, however, have followed my teaching, my
conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience,
my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions
and sufferings that happened to me…which
2 Timothy 3:10–13 20
God will rescue us!
persecutions I endured; yet from them all the
Lord rescued me. Indeed, all who desire to live
a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,
while evil people and impostors will go on from
bad to worse…
2 Timothy 3:10–13 21
Even from Satan
But the Lord is faithful, and He will
strengthen and protect you from
the evil one.
2 Thessalonians 3:3 22
Royal summons
So Pharaoh called Abram and said, “What is this
you have done to me? Why did you not tell me
that she was your wife? Why did you say, ‘She is
my sister,’ so that I took her for my wife? Now
then, here is your wife; take her, and go.”
Genesis 12:18–19 24
Expelled
And Pharaoh gave men
orders concerning him,
and they sent him
away with his wife and
all that he had.
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Take-away
1. The call for absolute confidence in God.
2. Profession of faith must be tested.
3. Beware of going down to Egypt.
4. Abram’s failures show the long-suffering of God.
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Not living up to his call
From there Abraham journeyed toward the
territory of the Negeb and lived between Kadesh
and Shur; and he sojourned in Gerar. And
Abraham said of Sarah his wife, “She is my sister.”
And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah.
Genesis 20:1–2 28
Feel Free to Make New Mistakes!
NO,
NO,
NO,
NO,
NO,
NO!
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God steps in again!
But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night
and said to him, “Behold, you are a dead man
because of the woman whom you have taken, for
she is a man’s wife.”
Genesis 20:3 30
A conversation with God
Did he not himself say to me, ‘She is my sister’?
And she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the
integrity of my heart and the innocence of my
hands I have done this.” Then God said to him in
the dream, “Yes, I know that you have done this
in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who
kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did
not let you touch her.
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Instructions
and
follow
through
Now then, return the man’s wife, for he is a
prophet, so that he will pray for you, and
you shall live. But if you do not return her,
know that you shall surely die, you and all
who are yours.” So Abimelech rose early in
the morning and called all his servants and
told them all these things. And the men
were very much afraid.
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Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him,
“What have you done to us? And how have I
sinned against you, that you have brought on me
and my kingdom a great sin? You have done to
me things that ought not to be done.” And
Abimelech said to Abraham, “What did you see,
that you did this thing?”
Confrontation
Genesis 20:9–10 33
Don’t think Abe!
I did it because I
thought, ‘There is no
fear of God at all in this
place, and they will kill
me because of my
wife.
Genesis 20:11 34
Besides, she is indeed my sister, the
daughter of my father though not the
daughter of my mother, and she became my
wife. And when God caused me to wander
from my father’s house, I said to her, ‘This is
the kindness you must do me: at every place
to which we come, say of me, “He is my
brother.” ’ ”
Excuses,
Excuses,
Excuses
Genesis 20:12-13 35
Did you get that?
Technically and Actually!
It’s God’s fault!
We do this all the time!
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And Abimelech said, “Behold, my land is before
you; dwell where it pleases you.” To Sarah he said,
“Behold, I have given your brother a thousand
pieces of silver. It is a sign of your innocence in
the eyes of all who are with you, and before
everyone you are vindicated.”
Magnanimous Abimelech
Genesis 20:15–16 37
Abraham makes it right
Then Abraham prayed to God, and
God healed Abimelech, and also
healed his wife and female slaves so
that they bore children.
Genesis 20:17 38
Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.
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Explain why the punt return went for a TD. Wind pushed it. Closest cover man is 13 yards away. Punt team spread out unevenly.
Dating/marring someone much better than yourself. Elon Musk. A couple billion dollars make you irresistible, I guess.
Men look at your wife, and if she smiles at you knowingly then you probably married out of your league!
PLEASE STAND FOR THE READING OF GOD’S WORD.
Now there was a famine in the land. So Abram went down to Egypt to sojourn there, for the famine was severe in the land. When he was about to enter Egypt, he said to Sarai his wife, “I know that you are a woman beautiful in appearance, and when the Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’ Then they will kill
me, but they will let you live. Say you are my sister, that it may go well with me because of you, and that my life may be spared for your sake.” When Abram entered Egypt, the Egyptians saw that the woman was very beautiful. And when the princes of Pharaoh saw her, they praised her to Pharaoh. And the woman was taken into
Pharaoh’s house. And for her sake he dealt well with Abram; and he had sheep, oxen, male donkeys, male servants, female servants, female donkeys, and camels. But the LORD afflicted Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because of Sarai, Abram’s wife. So Pharaoh called Abram and said, “What is this you have done to
me? Why did you not tell me that she was your wife? Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ so that I took her for my wife? Now then, here is your wife; take her, and go.” And Pharaoh gave men orders concerning him, and they sent him away with his wife and all that he had.
Genesis 12:10…Now there was a famine in the land. So Abram went down to Egypt to sojourn there, for the famine was severe in the land.
Hard times are not a sign of being out of the will of God!
2 Timothy 3:12 (ESV)
12 Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,
Perseverance-James 1:12 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.
Mistakes-Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge; because you have rejected knowledge,..
Character-Romans 5:3–5 Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.
Maturity-James 1:2–4 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, 3 for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. 4 And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
I don’t know! Isaiah 55:8–9 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. 9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Symbol of sin
Reliance on man
When he was about to enter Egypt, he said to Sarai his wife, “I know that you are a woman beautiful in appearance, and when the Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’ Then they will kill me, but they will let you live. Say you are my sister, that it may go well with me because of you, and that my life may be spared for your sake.” PRACTICE DECEPTION. NOT SEEKING GOD’S DIRECTION. NON-RELIANCE ON GOD.
Flattery you’re a good-looking gal
The Egyptians will want you and kill me
Say you’re my sister!
It will be better for me!
False Evidence Appearing Real
Forgot God’s promise
Doubt or unbelief
Abram would be the father of a great nation.
2. He would be blessed in his lifetime.
3. His name would be renowned.
4. He would be a blessing to others.
5. Others will be blessed who honor him.
6. Others will be cursed who reject him.
7. His influence would be universal.
Genesis 12:14–15…When Abram entered Egypt, the Egyptians saw that the woman was very beautiful. And when the princes of Pharaoh saw her, they praised her to Pharaoh. And the woman was taken into Pharaoh’s house.
Hebrews 13:5b–6 [God] said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” 6 So we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?”
Genesis 12:16 And for her sake he dealt well with Abram; and he had sheep, oxen, male donkeys, male servants, female servants, female donkeys, and camels.
Honey you’re great but I get to live and look at what I got! Reminds me of my favorite verse from Song of Solomon . This is for you Kim
Your teeth are like a flock of ewes that have come up from the washing; not one among them is lost…
Genesis 12:17…But the LORD afflicted Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because of Sarai, Abram’s wife.
Our lack of faith doesn’t tie God’s hands.
2 Timothy 2:13 if we are faithless, he remains faithful— for he cannot deny himself.
Psalm 34:19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all.
2 Timothy 3:10–13 You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions and sufferings that happened to me…which
persecutions I endured; yet from them all the Lord rescued me. Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, while evil people and impostors will go on from bad to worse…
2 Thessalonians 3:3…But the Lord is faithful, and He will strengthen and protect you from the evil one.
We can’t thwart them
Satan can’t thwart them
Your mean old boss…
Genesis 12:18–19 So Pharaoh called Abram and said, “What is this you have done to me? Why did you not tell me that she was your wife? Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ so that I took her for my wife? Now then, here is your wife; take her, and go.”
Genesis 12:20 And Pharaoh gave men orders concerning him, and they sent him away with his wife and all that he had.
“God removed him from there…”
Arthur Pink
1. The call which came to Abram comes to each one of his believing children—the call for absolute confidence in God; the call to take Him at His word and step out in simple and unquestioning faith; the call to separate ourselves from the world to a life of pilgrimage in dependency upon Jehovah.
2. The trial of Abram’s faith is also the lot of all his children. Profession must be tested and at times the meal in the barrel will run very low. The failure of Abram is a solemn warning against being occupied with circumstances instead of with God. Look not at the famine but unto God’s faithfulness.
3. Beware of going down to Egypt. The friendship of the world is enmity with God. Time spent in Egypt is wasted. Days lived out of communion with God produce nought but “wood, hay and stubble.”
4. As you see in the failures of Abram the sad record of your own history, marvel anew at the long sufferance of God which deals in such infinite patience and grace with His erring and ungrateful children.
Glad he learned his lesson
Genesis 20:1–2 From there Abraham journeyed toward the territory of the Negeb and lived between Kadesh and Shur; and he sojourned in Gerar. 2 And Abraham said of Sarah his wife, “She is my sister.” And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah.
Feel Free to Make New Mistakes! Even going from Abram to Abraham didn’t iron out his fear.
Genesis 20:3 But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night and said to him, “Behold, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man’s wife.”
Genesis 20:5–6 Did he not himself say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands I have done this.” 6 Then God said to him in the dream, “Yes, I know that you have done this in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did not let you touch her.
Genesis 20:7–8 Now then, return the man’s wife, for he is a prophet, so that he will pray for you, and you shall live. But if you do not return her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours.” 8 So Abimelech rose early in the morning and called all his servants and told them all these things. And the men were very much afraid.
Genesis 20:9–10 Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, “What have you done to us? And how have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin? You have done to me things that ought not to be done.”
Genesis 20:11 Abraham said, “I did it because I thought, ‘There is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.’
Besides, she is indeed my sister, the daughter of my father though not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife. And when God caused me to wander from my father’s house, I said to her, ‘This is the kindness you must do me: at every place to which we come, say of me, “He is my brother.” ’ ”
Technically and Actually! I didn’t really lie
It’s God’s fault! Caused me to wander
We do this all the time! WHAT!
generous or forgiving, especially toward a rival or less powerful person. Genesis 20:15–16 And Abimelech said, “Behold, my land is before you; dwell where it pleases you.” 16 To Sarah he said, “Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver. It is a sign of your innocence in the eyes of all who are with you, and before everyone you are vindicated.”
Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech, and also healed his wife and female slaves so that they bore children.
False evidence appearing real! Again!
Doubt your doubts
Believe your faith
Trust in God
Never put your spouse at risk. Emotionally, Physically, Spiritually
Your marriage is supernatural- what God has joined together…treat it that way. Steward of what He has given
Don’t default to old ways – learn from your mistakes. Make new ones. Mom and Dad’s ways
God provides great instructions- search out what the Bible says on marriage. Look for how we are supposed to treat believers and unbelievers