4. Help will be more
efficient when you’ve
tried it on your own
“Try to find solution yourself
first before asking someone
so you can be more specific
in what you’re asking.”
—Sabari
5. Hesitation in asking
for help; fear of
being burdensome
“Feel burdensome to ask
questions because it
might sound silly.”
— Elijah
6. Doing something
for someone isn’t
teaching them
“When people teach you, they
might just take it over and that
doesn’t help because then
you’re not learning.”
—Sabari
7. Other people have
more efficient ways
of doing things
“It’ll be great if someone can
tell me another way that would
be more efficient.”
—Elijah
8. Time plays a crucial role
in both asking for help
and helping others
“Shorten the sharing
conversation if only
have limited time.”
—Ruitao