As infants, we know this instinctively. For almost all of us, in early childhood, there were times when we experienced not getting the positive strokes we needed or wanted.
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3. No strokes
• You might imagine that
people would always
seek positive strokes and
avoid negative strokes.
4. No strokes
• But in reality, we work by
a different principle : Any
kind of stroke is better
than no stroke at all.
5. Stroke Deficit
• As infants, we know this
instinctively. For almost
all of us, in early
childhood, there were
times when we
experienced not getting
the positive strokes we
needed or wanted.
6. Stroke Deficit
• At such times, we
figured out ways to
get negatives
strokes. Painful as
they were, we
preferred them to
the dreaded
alternative of being,
left stroke deprived.
7. Stroke Deficit
• In grown up life, we
may replay this infant
patterns, and
continue to seek out
negative strokes.
• This is the source of
some behaviors that
seems on the fact of
it to be self
punishing.