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Keep visiting www.abidiqbal.com to learn more about positive thinking, mind power and personality development

Keep visiting www.abidiqbal.com to learn more about positive thinking, mind power and personality development

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    • Body Language by Abid Iqbal Khari
    • Please Be Attentive! You are going to learn about a very important aspect of your personality
    • How do you like to look like?
    • … a dull, angry and boring personality …
    • … or like a dazzling and awe-inspiring personality
    • This session would help you evaluate, and if need be, improve yourself as well
      • Body Language
    • It includes movements
    • Appearance (First impression – it happens only once)
    • Dress People don’t see what is in your stomach, they see what you’re wearing
    • The dress differentiates ….
    • Facial Expressions A happy face is loved by all
    • Facial Expressions …
    • Gestures Gestures should be in consistent with your words
    • Posture
    • Use of silence
      • Silence is half consent (saying)
      • A good way of showing your being angry
    • Use of touch Your grip shows either affection, indifference (carelessness) or threat
    • Timing Punctuality indicates how you value time (Pakistani politicians are exceptional case)
    • Physical Proxemity (Distance between speaker and listener) An appropriate distance is …
    • Physical Surrounding/Orientation Your living room also speaks ….
    • Tone & rhythm of speech Good rate to utter words is 80 to 120 words per minute
    • and colours HATRED LOVE BROADENING SACRED
    • Body Language means
      • Not to speak orally but even then to communicate …
    • Actions speak louder than words. Yes, they do. Aren’t they?
    •  
    • People may doubt what you say but they always believe what you do In communication Words play 7% role Body Language plays 93% role
    • Load your personality with this great art and your success is guaranteed in every meeting/ interview
    • “ Your words tell me a story but your body tells me the whole story”
    • Confidence
      • Leaning forward in chair
      • Chin up
      • Putting tips of fingers of one hand against the tips of fingers of other hand in “praying” or “steepling” position
      • Hands joined behind back when standing
    • Openness and Warmth
      • Open-lipped smiling
      • Open hands with palms visible
      • Unbuttoning coat upon being seated
    • Nervousness
      • Smoking
      • Whistling
      • Pinching skin
      • Fidgeting
      • Jiggling pocket contents
      • Running tongue along front of teeth
      • Clearing throat
      • Hands touching the face or covering part of the face
      • Pulling at skin or ear
      • Running fingers through hair
      • Wringing hands
      • Biting on pens or other objects
      • Twiddling thumbs
      • Biting fingernails (action itself or evidence of)
      • Tongue clicking
    • Untrustworthy/Defensive
      • Frowning
      • Squinting eyes
      • Tight-lipped grin
      • Arms crossed in front of chest
      • Pulling away
      • Chin down
      • Touching nose or face
      • Darting eyes
      • Looking down when speaking
      • Clenched hands
      • Gestures with fist
      • Pointing with fingers
      • Chopping one hand into the open palm of the other
      • Rubbing back of neck
      • Clasping hands behind head while leaning back in the chair.
    • Do your best to stay connected with your interviewer --- both verbally and non-verbally
    • Beauty --- the adjustment of all parts proportionately so that one cannot add or subtract or change without impairing the harmony of the whole Leon Battesta Alberti Beauty
    • Smile is a universal Body Language phrase (Other phrases vary in meaning across cultural lines)
    • You can’t be a good personality even when you are wearing a costly suit if you don’t have a smile
    • “ Thy smiling in thy brother’s face is charity ” (Al-Hadith)
    • Smile increases your face value Let’s increase our worth free of cost
    • Keep Smiling
    • Thanks Good bye Developed & presented by: www.abidiqbal.com