Body Language By Abid Iqbal Khari

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Body Language By Abid Iqbal Khari

  1. 1. Body Language by Abid Iqbal Khari
  2. 2. Please Be Attentive! You are going to learn about a very important aspect of your personality
  3. 3. How do you like to look like?
  4. 4. … a dull, angry and boring personality …
  5. 5. … or like a dazzling and awe-inspiring personality
  6. 6. This session would help you evaluate, and if need be, improve yourself as well
  7. 7. <ul><li>Body Language </li></ul>
  8. 8. It includes movements
  9. 9. Appearance (First impression – it happens only once)
  10. 10. Dress People don’t see what is in your stomach, they see what you’re wearing
  11. 11. The dress differentiates ….
  12. 12. Facial Expressions A happy face is loved by all
  13. 13. Facial Expressions …
  14. 14. Gestures Gestures should be in consistent with your words
  15. 15. Posture
  16. 16. Use of silence <ul><li>Silence is half consent (saying) </li></ul><ul><li>A good way of showing your being angry </li></ul>
  17. 17. Use of touch Your grip shows either affection, indifference (carelessness) or threat
  18. 18. Timing Punctuality indicates how you value time (Pakistani politicians are exceptional case)
  19. 19. Physical Proxemity (Distance between speaker and listener) An appropriate distance is …
  20. 20. Physical Surrounding/Orientation Your living room also speaks ….
  21. 21. Tone & rhythm of speech Good rate to utter words is 80 to 120 words per minute
  22. 22. and colours HATRED LOVE BROADENING SACRED
  23. 23. Body Language means <ul><li>Not to speak orally but even then to communicate … </li></ul>
  24. 24. Actions speak louder than words. Yes, they do. Aren’t they?
  25. 26. People may doubt what you say but they always believe what you do In communication Words play 7% role Body Language plays 93% role
  26. 27. Load your personality with this great art and your success is guaranteed in every meeting/ interview
  27. 28. “ Your words tell me a story but your body tells me the whole story”
  28. 29. Confidence <ul><li>Leaning forward in chair </li></ul><ul><li>Chin up </li></ul><ul><li>Putting tips of fingers of one hand against the tips of fingers of other hand in “praying” or “steepling” position </li></ul><ul><li>Hands joined behind back when standing </li></ul>
  29. 30. Openness and Warmth <ul><li>Open-lipped smiling </li></ul><ul><li>Open hands with palms visible </li></ul><ul><li>Unbuttoning coat upon being seated </li></ul>
  30. 31. Nervousness <ul><li>Smoking </li></ul><ul><li>Whistling </li></ul><ul><li>Pinching skin </li></ul><ul><li>Fidgeting </li></ul><ul><li>Jiggling pocket contents </li></ul><ul><li>Running tongue along front of teeth </li></ul><ul><li>Clearing throat </li></ul><ul><li>Hands touching the face or covering part of the face </li></ul><ul><li>Pulling at skin or ear </li></ul><ul><li>Running fingers through hair </li></ul><ul><li>Wringing hands </li></ul><ul><li>Biting on pens or other objects </li></ul><ul><li>Twiddling thumbs </li></ul><ul><li>Biting fingernails (action itself or evidence of) </li></ul><ul><li>Tongue clicking </li></ul>
  31. 32. Untrustworthy/Defensive <ul><li>Frowning </li></ul><ul><li>Squinting eyes </li></ul><ul><li>Tight-lipped grin </li></ul><ul><li>Arms crossed in front of chest </li></ul><ul><li>Pulling away </li></ul><ul><li>Chin down </li></ul><ul><li>Touching nose or face </li></ul><ul><li>Darting eyes </li></ul><ul><li>Looking down when speaking </li></ul><ul><li>Clenched hands </li></ul><ul><li>Gestures with fist </li></ul><ul><li>Pointing with fingers </li></ul><ul><li>Chopping one hand into the open palm of the other </li></ul><ul><li>Rubbing back of neck </li></ul><ul><li>Clasping hands behind head while leaning back in the chair. </li></ul>
  32. 33. Do your best to stay connected with your interviewer --- both verbally and non-verbally
  33. 34. Beauty --- the adjustment of all parts proportionately so that one cannot add or subtract or change without impairing the harmony of the whole Leon Battesta Alberti Beauty
  34. 35. Smile is a universal Body Language phrase (Other phrases vary in meaning across cultural lines)
  35. 36. You can’t be a good personality even when you are wearing a costly suit if you don’t have a smile
  36. 37. “ Thy smiling in thy brother’s face is charity ” (Al-Hadith)
  37. 38. Smile increases your face value Let’s increase our worth free of cost
  38. 39. Keep Smiling
  39. 40. Thanks Good bye Developed & presented by: www.abidiqbal.com

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