what is spiled identity as in disability? Are all aspects of spoiled identity are inevitable? Solution Within a society, certain people are normal and few of them are so different from others. The abnormal identity of an individual from others might be due to the social situations, the race, the gender and physical deformities. This leads to a social stigma on the person who is abnormal. The person who is experiencing stigma has been said to be having a spoiled identity..