Creation of motivated environment is one of the biggest challenge of any leader. Significant changes can be achieved using Self-Determination Theory, Self-Regulation and Self-Awareness
2. About
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5 years of Agile experience
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7. Human basic needs
Finance stability
Communication
Love
Friendship
Family
Personal grow
Self-respect
Be Meaningful
Power
Competition
Freedom
Security
16. Relatedness
As a leader you should contribute to a social purpose of work and healthy
interpersonal relationship, caring about and feeling cared about,
contributing to something greater than oneself
17. Rational questions: What? When?
Where?
Empathy questions: What do you
feel? What do you need? What is
important for you?
Empathy
18. Empathy
See their world, in their shoes
Understand their feeling
Accept with no judgment
Communicate understanding
19. Empathy and Active Listening
Ignore
Questions storm
Addressing of your opinion
Silent listening
Developing of thoughts
Repeat of Story
Elaboration
Addressing your attitude about topic
Addressing the emotional condition
EffectiveIneffective
20.
21. Often, instead of offering
empathy, we have a strong
urge to give advice or
reassurance and to explain
our own position.
Marshall B. Rosenberg
29. Disinterested – no value
External – I will show my power
Imposed – I’m under the pressure
Aligned – I’m agree to do this
Integrated – Involvement
Inherent – enjoy to be there
Spectrum of Motivation
31. Ability to accurately recognize your emotions and thoughts and their influence to
your behavior
Know your strengths, weaknesses and role
You can control your emotions and sense (understand) fear, anger or despair stalks
you
32. Where to start
With your team:
Identify your state in Autonomy, Competence and Relatedness
Make the list of what you can do and can’t
Speak with Team and get the feedback
Make a plan, set the goals
With yourself:
Accept people with no judgement
Identify yourself, your points of success and to improve
Make a What to/ Don’t Want to table
Destroy labels
Keep emotions under control
34. Read & Watch
Jon Kabat-Zinn: What is Mindfulness?
Paul L. Marciano - Carrots and Sticks Don't Work: Build a Culture of
Employee Engagement with the Principles of RESPECT
Daniel Goleman - Primal Leadership, With a New Preface by the Authors:
Unleashing the Power of Emotional Intelligence
Susan Fowler - Why Motivating People Doesn't Work . . . and What Does
Amy Cuddy - Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are
Celeste Headlee – 10 ways to have a better conversation