For Parents & Teachers
Tips To Deal With Adolescent Behavior
• Dealing with teenagers is not rocket science.
• You can have a healthy relationship with
your teenager.
• You have to be patient .
• You have to put in the effort to understand
and work with the adolescents.
# Create A Trusting Relationship
• Trust is important for any
relationship.
# Create A Trusting Relationship
• If you want your teenager to listen
to you, you should earn their trust.
# Create A Trusting Relationship
• Keep an open relationship, you share
things with them.
# Create A Trusting Relationship
• when your teen realizes that you trust
him/her , he/she is more likely to open
up to you about his/her life.
# Empathize
• No matter how unreasonable your
teen’s behavior may seem, try to
imagine how they are feeling.
# Empathize
• Put yourself in their shoes and
understand their perspective.
# Empathize
• When you reflect their feelings, they
feel acknowledged and are willing to
share their feelings, ideas, and
opinions freely.
# Respect Them as human being
• Do you want your teen to
respect you?
• Teach them about it by
respecting them.
# Respect Them as human being
• Fear or intimidation cannot
earn you your teen’s respect.
# Respect Them as human being
• Respect their personality, ideas,
opinions, and emotions.
# Respect Them as human being
• Do not belittle them in front of
their friends or even in private.
# Respect Them as human being
• Most importantly, do not
trivialize or criticize their ideas
or opinions as that can make
them insecure as adults.
# Respect Them as human being
• When you treat your children
with respect, they will respond
with the same respect towards
you.
# Offer them Help
• It is important to let them
know that you are willing to
help them should they need
any.
# Offer them Help
• Some teens may feel the need
to do everything on their own
and consider seeking help as a
sign of inadequacy.
# Offer them Help
• Help your kids understand that
not everyone can do everything,
and it is okay to ask for help
sometimes.
# Offer them Help
• You could, alternatively, seek
their help in small matters to
make them feel involved. When
they see you seeking help, they
will do so from you, too.
#Show Them You Care
• Your teenager may hate you or
at least, say so. That may not
necessarily be true.
#Show Them You Care
• They may see your discipline
and strictness as hatred
towards them and believe that
you only want to make life
difficult for them.
#Show Them You Care
• You can prevent your teenager
from developing negative
feelings towards you by showing
that you care.
#Show Them You Care
• Tell them how much you love
them and do little things to
make them happy.
# Talk & talk before they walk
• Remember, you were a teenager
once.
• Behavioral changes are common
in teenagers.
# Talk & talk before they walk
• Whether you have a teenage boy
or girl, know what is normal.
• Know what can help you deal
and interact with them.
• Build a cooperative relationship
that benefits both of you.
# Talk & talk before they walk
If you have some other ideas or way
you deal with behavior problems in
your teen-
Tell me about it .
Please share , so that other parents
may be benefited.
pnpratima@gmail.com

Tips to deal with adolescent behavior- for parents

  • 1.
    For Parents &Teachers
  • 2.
    Tips To DealWith Adolescent Behavior • Dealing with teenagers is not rocket science. • You can have a healthy relationship with your teenager. • You have to be patient . • You have to put in the effort to understand and work with the adolescents.
  • 3.
    # Create ATrusting Relationship • Trust is important for any relationship.
  • 4.
    # Create ATrusting Relationship • If you want your teenager to listen to you, you should earn their trust.
  • 5.
    # Create ATrusting Relationship • Keep an open relationship, you share things with them.
  • 6.
    # Create ATrusting Relationship • when your teen realizes that you trust him/her , he/she is more likely to open up to you about his/her life.
  • 7.
    # Empathize • Nomatter how unreasonable your teen’s behavior may seem, try to imagine how they are feeling.
  • 8.
    # Empathize • Putyourself in their shoes and understand their perspective.
  • 9.
    # Empathize • Whenyou reflect their feelings, they feel acknowledged and are willing to share their feelings, ideas, and opinions freely.
  • 10.
    # Respect Themas human being • Do you want your teen to respect you? • Teach them about it by respecting them.
  • 11.
    # Respect Themas human being • Fear or intimidation cannot earn you your teen’s respect.
  • 12.
    # Respect Themas human being • Respect their personality, ideas, opinions, and emotions.
  • 13.
    # Respect Themas human being • Do not belittle them in front of their friends or even in private.
  • 14.
    # Respect Themas human being • Most importantly, do not trivialize or criticize their ideas or opinions as that can make them insecure as adults.
  • 15.
    # Respect Themas human being • When you treat your children with respect, they will respond with the same respect towards you.
  • 16.
    # Offer themHelp • It is important to let them know that you are willing to help them should they need any.
  • 17.
    # Offer themHelp • Some teens may feel the need to do everything on their own and consider seeking help as a sign of inadequacy.
  • 18.
    # Offer themHelp • Help your kids understand that not everyone can do everything, and it is okay to ask for help sometimes.
  • 19.
    # Offer themHelp • You could, alternatively, seek their help in small matters to make them feel involved. When they see you seeking help, they will do so from you, too.
  • 20.
    #Show Them YouCare • Your teenager may hate you or at least, say so. That may not necessarily be true.
  • 21.
    #Show Them YouCare • They may see your discipline and strictness as hatred towards them and believe that you only want to make life difficult for them.
  • 22.
    #Show Them YouCare • You can prevent your teenager from developing negative feelings towards you by showing that you care.
  • 23.
    #Show Them YouCare • Tell them how much you love them and do little things to make them happy.
  • 24.
    # Talk &talk before they walk • Remember, you were a teenager once. • Behavioral changes are common in teenagers.
  • 25.
    # Talk &talk before they walk • Whether you have a teenage boy or girl, know what is normal. • Know what can help you deal and interact with them. • Build a cooperative relationship that benefits both of you.
  • 26.
    # Talk &talk before they walk If you have some other ideas or way you deal with behavior problems in your teen- Tell me about it . Please share , so that other parents may be benefited. pnpratima@gmail.com