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Practical Parenting Sheila O’Malley
What do you want to take away today? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Unconditional love is the most important aspect of relationship with self and others
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],How you feel about you is mirrored in how you care for self
Physical expression of Self ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Emotional  Self: your ability to give & receive love Men's’ challenge is to give & women's’ is to receive ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Other expressions of Self ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
When we don’t take care of ourselves - ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Parenting styles: ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Difficult behaviour arises from what happens in the family
When he feels right; he will behave right
Teens who are troubled or troubling are not out to make your life difficult; they’re unconsciously trying to show you how difficult life is for them
When I act different; others act differently ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Defensive communication is: controlling, superior, judgemental, & mirrors an insecure self. ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],Separateness is the basis for togetherness! You respond better to conflict when you maintain your own boundary
All behaviour mirror’s  relationship with self ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Press the PAUSE button and catch them being good
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],What I feel, think; say and do is only about me
What my teen says, feels,  thinks and does is about him ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
If what you are doing is not working;  try something different!  Keep connecting.. ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],Listening is the first act of communication
Good communication is: Emphatic, real, non judgemental ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Use ‘I’ messages – they work! ,[object Object],[object Object]
Top Tips to Take Care of You:  Plan/Diary/Schedule
Time out helps manage stress ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Identify 1 change you can make:  Happy Parent, Happy Teen ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Book a Course: 6 evenings beginning Oct 4/5/6 Glenageary, Foxrock; Leopardstown & Goatstown
Thank you for your attention ,[object Object]

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