The document provides tips for improving husband and wife relationships by advising couples to treat each other with kindness, respect, and as partners rather than adversaries. It cautions against abuse, humiliation, and tyrannical behavior, noting relationships should be characterized by love, mercy, and tranquility as described in the Quran. The tips encourage open communication, shared decision-making, appreciation, spending quality time together, and always treating one's spouse as one wishes to be treated.
2013 02 03 Love, Courtship, Sex, and Marriageroadsidebbc
How love, courtship, sex, and marriage are defined in a biblical standpoint. Includes discussions on the no-no's of premarital sex and the integrity in relationships
2013 02 03 Love, Courtship, Sex, and Marriageroadsidebbc
How love, courtship, sex, and marriage are defined in a biblical standpoint. Includes discussions on the no-no's of premarital sex and the integrity in relationships
Successful couples have learned to resist holding grudges and bringing up the past. They remember that they married an imperfect person — and so did their spouse.
When we see any successful interracial couple in our neighborhood, we should be ready to welcome them anytime. Making excuses to avoid them can never be a good idea. It is good to appreciate them instead of asking why do white women like black men? They are in love, and that is why they like each other.
One of the reasons people marry is to fight loneliness. Once they marry they misunderstand each other and don’t appreciate each other. That kind of marriage does not work. Be there for each other
YES! BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER. THERE ARE NO HEIGHTS YOU CANNOT GO TOGETHER. IF ONE SUCCEEDS, BOTH HAVE SUCCEEDED. THAT IS THE JOY OF BEING THERE FOR EACH OTHER.
This was used on our report (or should I say symposium) in our Guidance and Counseling subject. This tackles about crushes, love (different types of love and how to love yourself), courtship (in the Philippines), and marriage (rights and obligations of a wedded couple, the stages of marriage, the common marital problems) and there are also some additional pictures to make the topic easier to understand.
Reporters:
Cindy Asence
Madel Austria
Kitz Bajao
John Kevin Benigno
Marie Buena Bunsoy
Aser Canta
Instructor:
Mrs. Jesselyn Mortejo
The root of our struggles is found in the struggle with an over-estimation of ourselves. It’s pride.
The Bible says that “Pride only breeds quarrels” (Proverbs 13:10a). If pride is left unchecked, it can eventually lead to an absolute loss of intimacy, communication, and connection between a husband and wife.
A happy wife makes a happy life.
Marriage is a give and give and give and give, sing it with me, relationship.
A successful, godly marriage is not based upon the issue as long as both shall live but as long as both shall give.
Marriage is empowered by the grace of God and sustained by the love of God.
Marriage is probably one of the greatest opportunities to experience the goodness and grace of God in your own personal life and to experience love for each other.
We say marriages are made in heaven. Truly its a kind of relationship which we want to cherish throughout our lives. It depends upon us how to grow into a relationship. An ideal marriage is based on trust, love and respect towards each other. When these ingredients go missing problem arises. This presentation gives 10 tips on how to keep your marriage going and successful, and most importantly bring happiness to it.
Seek to understand your spouse. The more you do, the more he/she will reciprocate. I always advise that marriage is not a contract or competition but it is a relationship. Relationships are built over time. Spouses have to work out their relationships and built more capacity in their marriages.
Successful couples have learned to resist holding grudges and bringing up the past. They remember that they married an imperfect person — and so did their spouse.
When we see any successful interracial couple in our neighborhood, we should be ready to welcome them anytime. Making excuses to avoid them can never be a good idea. It is good to appreciate them instead of asking why do white women like black men? They are in love, and that is why they like each other.
One of the reasons people marry is to fight loneliness. Once they marry they misunderstand each other and don’t appreciate each other. That kind of marriage does not work. Be there for each other
YES! BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER. THERE ARE NO HEIGHTS YOU CANNOT GO TOGETHER. IF ONE SUCCEEDS, BOTH HAVE SUCCEEDED. THAT IS THE JOY OF BEING THERE FOR EACH OTHER.
This was used on our report (or should I say symposium) in our Guidance and Counseling subject. This tackles about crushes, love (different types of love and how to love yourself), courtship (in the Philippines), and marriage (rights and obligations of a wedded couple, the stages of marriage, the common marital problems) and there are also some additional pictures to make the topic easier to understand.
Reporters:
Cindy Asence
Madel Austria
Kitz Bajao
John Kevin Benigno
Marie Buena Bunsoy
Aser Canta
Instructor:
Mrs. Jesselyn Mortejo
The root of our struggles is found in the struggle with an over-estimation of ourselves. It’s pride.
The Bible says that “Pride only breeds quarrels” (Proverbs 13:10a). If pride is left unchecked, it can eventually lead to an absolute loss of intimacy, communication, and connection between a husband and wife.
A happy wife makes a happy life.
Marriage is a give and give and give and give, sing it with me, relationship.
A successful, godly marriage is not based upon the issue as long as both shall live but as long as both shall give.
Marriage is empowered by the grace of God and sustained by the love of God.
Marriage is probably one of the greatest opportunities to experience the goodness and grace of God in your own personal life and to experience love for each other.
We say marriages are made in heaven. Truly its a kind of relationship which we want to cherish throughout our lives. It depends upon us how to grow into a relationship. An ideal marriage is based on trust, love and respect towards each other. When these ingredients go missing problem arises. This presentation gives 10 tips on how to keep your marriage going and successful, and most importantly bring happiness to it.
Seek to understand your spouse. The more you do, the more he/she will reciprocate. I always advise that marriage is not a contract or competition but it is a relationship. Relationships are built over time. Spouses have to work out their relationships and built more capacity in their marriages.
Getting Ready for Marriage - A 7 Day Reading Plan - By Jim Burns and Doug FieldsDavid_C_Cook
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no topic is off-limits as you and your fiancé get ready to step from engagement into a life-long covenant to each other.
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True, it is not easy to have a happy and lasting marriage, but it is possible. Many married couples have lived happily together for 20, 40, or more years. Here is what has helped them to succeed...
Marriage is not a game, nor is it an end in itself to be accomplished and then set aside.
Marriage is a means for two people to better themselves through their love for one another and for their Creator.
This eBook contains some of the most informative and powerful consultations provided by OnIslam’s professional counselors, collected in four areas where (Muslim) marriages struggle the most: communication, intimacy, financial problems, and issues with in-laws.
We sincerely hope that this eBook will provide you with lots of help, useful tips, and guidance to achieve a harmonic and blessed marriage.
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It is a greater honour to be called a husband. Most women talk well of their husbands more than the husbands talk about their wives. I have heard women who say: ‘My husband……..My husband…………’ Then as husbands, we have to do all that pertains to being husbands. Be the husband and again be the husband.
You’re a Christian woman who is gifted, hardworking and striving to have it all. You work outside the home, are a leader at work and seem to have it all together. We’ve counseled with many women who fit this description, but they come to us because life is unraveling at home. I want to offer some suggestions if you desire to see changes.
There are some marital problems that are obvious to detect such as money and intimacy. But how do you resolve the marital problems that no one is talking about?
As’salaam O Alaikum,
1000 Sunnah per Day & Night.
A very useful booklet shows 1000 acts of Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (Sall-Allaahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam) Per Day & Night. It contains different situations i.e. waking up, going to the bathroom, performing ablutions, using sewak, wearing shoes, wearing clothes, going out and coming back home, going to the mosque, athan, iqama, praying at night and post-prayer sunnahs. Insha'Allah keep act on these Sunnah and share these treasures with your family and friends as well.
Jazakallah khayran
In Jude 17-23 Jude shifts from piling up examples of false teachers from the Old Testament to a series of practical exhortations that flow from apostolic instruction. He preserves for us what may well have been part of the apostolic catechism for the first generation of Christ-followers. In these instructions Jude exhorts the believer to deal with 3 different groups of people: scoffers who are "devoid of the Spirit", believers who have come under the influence of scoffers and believers who are so entrenched in false teaching that they need rescue and pose some real spiritual risk for the rescuer. In all of this Jude emphasizes Jesus' call to rescue straying sheep, leaving the 99 safely behind and pursuing the 1.
The Book of Joshua is the sixth book in the Hebrew Bible and the Old Testament, and is the first book of the Deuteronomistic history, the story of Israel from the conquest of Canaan to the Babylonian exile.
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A PowerPoint Presentation based on the Dhamma Reflections for the PBHP DYC for the years 1993 – 2012. To motivate and inspire DYC members to keep on practicing the Dhamma and to do the meritorious deed of Dhammaduta work.
The texts are in English.
For the Video with audio narration, comments and texts in English, please check out the Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zF2g_43NEa0
The Good News, newsletter for June 2024 is hereNoHo FUMC
Our monthly newsletter is available to read online. We hope you will join us each Sunday in person for our worship service. Make sure to subscribe and follow us on YouTube and social media.
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Tips for a Happy Marriage
1. Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barkatuh!
Tips for a Better Husband and Wife Relationship
Although many Muslims may right now be in failing
marriages and on a fast track to divorce and its terrible
consequences, there are many ways to put their marriage
back on the right track if the husband and wife are sincere
in their desire to reconcile. The following principles can be
used by Muslims whose marriages are already in trouble
or by Muslims who would like to avoid trouble in their
marriage.
Examples of Negative
Relationship of Husband & Wife
Many Muslim husbands and wives treat each other like
adversaries rather than partners. The husband feels that
he is the boss, and whatever he says goes. The wife feels
2. that she must squeeze everything she can out of her
husband. Some wives never show their husband that they
are satisfied with anything he does or buys for them in
order to trick him into doing and buying more. They make
him feel like a failure if he does not give them the lifestyle
that their friends and families enjoy. Some husbands
speak very harshly to their wives, humiliate them, and
even physically abuse them. Their wives have no voice or
opinion in the family.
Marriage In The Eyes of Allah
It is very sad that this relationship which Allah (SWT) has
established for the good has been made a source of
contention, deception, trickery, tyranny, humiliation, and
abuse. This is not the way marriage is supposed to be.
Allah (SWT) described marriage very differently in the
Holy Quran: '. . . He created for you mates from among
yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them,
and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts) . . .
" (Holy Quran 30:21, Yusuf Ali Translation).
Do not be a Tyrant
Regardless of whether or not Islam has made the husband
the head of the household, Muslims are not supposed to be
dictators and tyrants. We are taught to treat our wives
well. The Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) was reported to
have said: 'The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith
is one who has excellent behavior; and the best among you
are those who behave best towards their wives" (From
Mishkat al-Masabih, No. 0278(R) Transmitted by
3. Tirmidhi).
Be Partners in the Decision Making Process.
Follow the principle of 'Shura," and make decisions as a
family. There will be much more harmony in the family
when decisions are not imposed and everyone feels that
they had some part in making them.
Never be Emotionally
Never be emotionally, mentally, or physically abusive to
your spouse. The Prophet (SAWS) never mistreated his
wives. He is reported to have said: 'How could they beat
their women in daytime as slaves and then sleep with them
in the night?"
Be Careful of Your Words
Be very careful what you say when you are upset.
Sometimes you will say things that you would never say
when you were not angry. If you are angry, wait until you
calm down before continuing the conversation.
Show Affection
Show affection for your mate. Be kind, gentle, and loving.
Be Your Spouse's Friend
Show interest in your mate's life. Too often, we live in the
same house but know nothing about each other's lives. It
would be great if the husband and wife could work
4. together for the same cause or on the same project. They
could perhaps establish a husband/wife prison ministry,
take care of orphans in their home, or lead an Islamic
weekend class.
Show Appreciation
Show appreciation for what your spouse does for the
family. Never make your husband feel that he is not doing
good enough for the family or that you are not satisfied
with his work or his efforts, unless, of course, he is truly
lazy and not even trying to provide for the family. The
Prophet (SAWS) was reported to have said: 'On the Day
of Judgment, God will not look upon the woman who has
been ungrateful to her husband." (where is this hadith
found) Show your wife that you appreciate her. If she
takes care of the house and the children, don't take it for
granted. It is hard work, and no one likes to feel
unappreciated.
Work Together in the House
The Prophet (SAWS) is known to have helped his wives in
the house. And if the Prophet (SAWS) was not above
doing housework, modern Muslim husbands shouldn't feel
that they are.
Communication is Important
Communication, Communication, Communication! This is
the big word in counseling. And it should be. Husbands
and wives need to talk to each other. It is better to deal
with problems early and honestly than to let them pile up
5. until an explosion occurs.
Forget Past Problems
Don't bring up past problems once they have been solved.
Live Simply
Don't be jealous of those who seem to be living a more
luxurious life than your family. The 'rizq" is from Allah
(SWT). In order to develop the quality of contentment,
look at those people who have less than you, not those who
have more. Thank Allah (SWT) for the many blessings in
your life.
Give Your Spouse Time Alone
If your mate doesn't want to be with you all the time, it
doesn't mean he or she doesn't love you. People need to be
alone for various reasons. Sometimes they want to read, to
think about their problems, or just to relax. Don't make
them feel that they are committing a sin.
Admit Your Mistakes
When you make a mistake, admit it. When your mate
makes a mistake, excuse him or her easily. If possible,
never go to sleep angry with each other.
Physical Relationship is Important
Be available to your mate sexually, and don't let your
sexual relationship be characterized by selfishness. The
6. Prophet (SAWS) was reported to have said: 'It is not
appropriate that you fall upon your wives like a beast but
you must send a message of love beforehand."
Have Meals Together
Try to eat together as a family when possible. Show the
cook and the dishwasher, whether it is the husband or the
wife, appreciation for his or her efforts. The Prophet
(SAWS) did not complain about food that was put before
him.
Be Mindful of Your discussion Topics
Never discuss with others things about your marriage that
your spouse wouldn't like you to discuss, unless there is an
Islamic reason to do so. Some husbands and wives, believe
it or not, complain to others about their mate's physical
appearance. This is a recipe for disaster. Information
about your intimate relations should be kept between you
and your spouse.
Many of us treat our spouses in ways that we would never
treat others. With others, we try to be polite, kind, and
patient. With our spouses, we often do not show these
courtesies. Of course, we are usually with our spouses at
our worst times --- when we are tired and frustrated after
a hard day. After a bad day at the office, husbands usually
come home angry and on edge. The wife has probably also
had a hard day with the children and the housework.
Wives and husbands should discuss this potential time
bomb so that if they are short-tempered with each other
during these times, they will understand the reasons
7. rather than automatically thinking that their spouse no
longer loves them.
Good marriages require patience, kindness, humility,
sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and
hard work. Following these principles should help any
marriage to improve. The essence of them all can be
summed up in one sentence: Always treat your spouse the
way you would like to be treated. If you follow this rule,
your marriage will have a much greater chance for
success. If you discard this rule, failure is just around the
corner.
Courtesy: This beneficial mail was shared by Sister Mominah