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• Point out that controlling sexual desires is good.
• Clarify why love and marriage must go together.
• Explain why cohabitation (sex without marriage) brings less satisfaction and greater risk.
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In order to sustain the marriage institution, both spouses must work on their marriage. Yes, one can work more than the other, but both must participate.
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You may have been disappointed by some issues in your marriage in the past. You can do nothing about your past as it is history but you can make the necessary amends in 2016.
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Appreciate your spouse.
This is the best gift you have in your life.
In my mother tongue there is a saying: ‘ What you couldn’t get in your home is what you came for in your spouse’s life.’
This lesson will:
• Increase the awareness about the importance of marriage and how best to prepare for it.
• Highlight the advantages of platonic, non-sexual love among brothers and sisters.
• Point out that controlling sexual desires is good.
• Clarify why love and marriage must go together.
• Explain why cohabitation (sex without marriage) brings less satisfaction and greater risk.
Current divorce statistics speak volumes: one in three marriages end up on the rocks. The reasons for divorce mentioned are so far-fetched that it is seriously doubtful whether the marriage partners have done everything to make their marriage a success. We go back to statements such as “clashing personalities”, “drifting apart” and many other that do not touch the core of the problem by any means. How do you save a marriage from divorce? Where there is a will...15 steps to help save your marriage…
**side note. It says six but there's an extra one couldn't resist adding another.
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Pride the Number One Marriage Drainer
1. Pride: The Number One
Marriage Drainer
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6/15/2020 1Kigume Karuri
The root of our struggles is found in the struggle
with an over-estimation of ourselves. It’s pride.
The Bible says that “Pride only breeds quarrels”
(Proverbs 13:10a). If pride is left unchecked, it can
eventually lead to an absolute loss of intimacy,
communication, and connection between a husband
and wife.
2. 6/15/2020 2Kigume Karuri
Pride kills relationships. It creates a wedge between two
people destroying intimacy, eroding trust, and denying
peace between husband and wife. Few things are as
toxic to a relationship as pride.
When pride is present, intimacy is absent. A couple can be full
of pride or they can have a healthy marriage, but they cannot
have both. A wise couple will recognize the agony of pride and
will do everything in their power to eradicate from themselves
and their relationship
3. 6/15/2020 3Kigume Karuri
We live in a society where humility is looked down
upon. It’s misunderstood and deemed to be weak.
People want to be seen, they want to be heard, they
want to be known...
The focus on self is greater by far than a focus on others.
Headlines and how-to articles are laden with topics like
self-esteem, self-worth, self-importance, self-acceptance,
self-awareness, self-confidence, self-help, self-made, self-
improvement, self-respect, self-sufficient, and the list goes
on… Little focus is given to caring for others.
4. 6/15/2020 4Kigume Karuri
While no one denies the danger of pride in a relationship,
few couples can identify its early warning signs. Unaware
of its presence, pride grows until it is nearly unstoppable.
A healthy couple will recognize the earliest appearance of
pride and do everything in their power to eradicate it from
themselves and their relationship.
5. .
6/15/2020 5Kigume Karuri
The dark side of pride sows the seed for the weeds of
conflict to take root and spread through a marriage. The
Bible says that “Pride only breeds quarrels” (Proverbs
13:10a). If pride is left unchecked, it can eventually lead
to an absolute loss of intimacy, communication, and
connection between a husband and wife. Finally it can
choke the life out of a marriage and cause the end of the
marriage. As King Solomon wrote, “Pride goes before
destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverbs
16:18).
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Pride will keep you from love, genuine friendship,
spirituality, and God’s heaven. It seems harmless
in the beginning and it protects you from going into
a self-pitying phase too but the more you get
sucked by pride, the further you move away from
goodness in life.
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. Pride makes you as putting yourself in God’s shoes,
assuming you are “Mr. know it all,” you are awesome and
you have all the answers. This attitude doesn’t just
demean your marriage, but your relationship with God too.
Pride doesn’t want to lose arguments, especially when we’re
right. Pride doesn’t want to apologize. Pride doesn’t want to
serve. And pride sets itself up as the most important thing and
seeks self preservation at all costs.
8. 6/15/2020 Kigume Karuri 8
Pride is revealed in an “I’m right and you’re wrong” theme in a
relationship.
Pride is demonstrated in verbal cuts and put-downs to elevate or
set-apart the aggressor.
Pride is a driver of entitlement. It reveals an “I don’t deserve this,
so I deserve to compensate with that.”
Pride is centered on self and rarely serves another unless there is
self-interest involved.
9. 6/15/2020 Kigume Karuri 9
.
Pride is a relationship killer. Whether it’s
friendship, brotherhood, sisterhood or marriage, it shreds them
all.
It makes you feel self-sufficient and independent and these are
good qualities as long as you are not afraid of being
vulnerable to the one person you love. But if pride makes
you feel you don’t need anyone’s help (your spouse’s for
instance) and especially God’s, then you are in trouble
Marriage Deal- Breakers
10. 6/15/2020 Kigume Karuri 10
Pride makes a person feel the need to be right all the time. The “
I am right and you are wrong”attitude is never healthy
for a marriage. Proving you are right (even if you are) comes at
the expense of tearing down the relationship. That’s why it’s
always advised to practice humility and submission in marriage.
.
11. Pride makes it hard for you to apologize: Pride doesn’t like getting
wounded. It makes it hard for you to accept your mistake and say sorry
to your spouse. It ultimately affects your relationship because you
make your spouse feel how little respect you have for them. It makes
you look bad and gives your spouse a reason to alienate from you. So,
if you’re wondering why everybody at home (your spouse and kids)
runs away from you, you have the answer now.
•.
6/15/2020 Kigume Karuri 11
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Pride makes you insecure: A person who has pride wants to feel
superior. They act like they are perfect to hide their insecurity. We
all know the feeling of insecurity in marriage is a dangerous thing. It
makes you distrust your spouse, falsely accuse them of adultery and
even doubt their love for you. If these insecurities are allowed to
fester, they can hurt your spouse deeply and shake the grounds of
your relationship.
13. 6/15/2020 Kigume Karuri 13
•Pride ushers in no value for your spouse’s opinion: Pride
wraps you up in your own thoughts. You become self-
centered and become blind to other people’s opinion. You
start dismissing your spouse and they feel excluded from
every conversation and every decision.
• Pride makes you defensive: Whenever you are criticized
for something, your pride makes you defensive. Since you
don’t have humility, you can’t stand criticism especially
when it’s about you.
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•Pride keeps you from being vulnerable: You use your pride
as an armor. It’s hard for you to admit your imperfections
because you are afraid it will make you look weak in your
spouse’s eyes. You fear vulnerability. Fortunately, if your
spouse truly loves you, failing won’t ever make them think
less of you. It will, in fact, help you learn from your
shortcomings.
Pride makes you a bad listener: Since you are always caught
up in your own ideas, your pride makes you a bad listener. You
act like your thoughts and feelings are the only thing that
matter. You become egocentric and every time you ignore
your spouse, it kills them a little bit more.
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All of the aforementioned behaviors are marriage deal-
breakers. For a relationship to work, you have to admit
you could be wrong. You have to apologize. You have to
accept guidance or advice from your spouse. You have to
acknowledge that you are not perfect because they
aren’t’ either. That’s how you grow together and your
relationship fosters.
Mahatma Gandhi once said:
“Anger is the enemy of non-violence and pride is a monster
that swallows it up.”
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Instead of being in denial, it’s time to reevaluate yourself and
your marriage. If you see any of these signs, you are
wrapped up in pride:
• You always refuse to be influenced by your spouse
.
• You are ignorant of the needs of your spouse. Ask yourself
when was the last time you gifted them something or cared
about their sexual pleasures?
• You are addicted to attention. You can’t stand it when
someone else gets attention.
• You find fault in everyone.
Signs of Pride
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.
• You never ask for help; instead, you expect others to serve
you.
• You don’t like to make compromises or submit to
someone’s authority.
• Sorry seems to be the hardest word.
18. Marriage needs:
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…
If you really love your spouse and value your marriage, this
pride problem needs attention. Every day you are given with a
choice to make. You can either stick with pride or become
humble. If you were filled with pride to your head, you won’t
really be reading this right now. But you are, and it’s a good sign
that you want to change this about yourself. It’s not tough to
begin. Plus, humility saves more than just your marriage; it saves
you from stumbling in life.