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Self Presentation And Friendship
1. Self presentation and the
meaning of friendship
Social Media – Dr. Giorgos Cheliotis (gcheliotis@nus.edu.sg)
Communications and New Media, National University of Singapore
2. The Dunbar Number
We saw already that SNS’s can help generate more
social capital… but skeptics insist that it is not possible
to have as many ‘real friends’ as one would think by
looking at one’s online social network profile
Robin Dunbar (1996) noted that gossip has taken
over the social function of grooming and Judith
Donath (2007) (re-) introduced the concept of
social grooming to explain the role of SNS’s and
‘friendship’ within them.
Dunbar further argued that although language is
more efficient for tie maintenance than actual
grooming, there are cognitive limits:
Dunbar number = approx. 150
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3. So what do SNS ‘friends’ mean?
How popular can one really
be without mass media
airtime?
Is ‘friending’ deceiving, a
cheap imitation of real
friendship?
Is it perhaps a matter of
interpretation?
Why do we add people as
‘friends’ in SNS?
What drives some users to
compete on ‘friend’
numbers?
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4. Signaling
A lot of what we (think we) know about others comes from the
interpretation of situational, social and cultural cues (signals)
Signals are useful and reliable but can also be deceiving.
Assessment signals: reliable
(e.g., an athlete’s performance)
Conventional signals: less so
(e.g., a person’s clothes)
Media influence/effects theorists have been exploring the influence of mass-mediated
signals/messages for a long time now (and economists signals in markets)
But the signals we produce as individuals are now taking center stage in the social
media landscape!
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5. Signaling identity/status
The most common
conventional signals on
SNS’s relate to one’s
identity and perceived
social status
The list of friends on an
SNS is also a form of signal
that helps establish identity
and trust
But is it easier to deceive
online compared to face-
to-face interaction?
If so, is there real value in
maintaining long lists of
online friends?
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6. The ‘supernets’ hypothesis
Strong ties bring reliability to a social network
Weak ties greatly expand its scope
Questions:
Does the ease of maintaining both strong and weak ties in an SNS
help shift the focus of a social network from the strong ties to the
extended network consisting of both strong and weak ties?
(thus also stretching the cognitive limits of the Dunbar number)
How can a third party observer ascertain the strength of a person’s
ties on an SNS?
(degree of interaction better indicator than articulated list of ‘friends’)
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7. Social grooming
A possible interpretation or
conceptualization of user
behavior in SNS
Small public displays of care for
the maintenance of one’s
extended social network
(supernet)
Lower in cost compared to
grooming in nature because
language is medium and CMC
helps spread display of care to
many online users
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8. Social grooming and ‘wasteful’ behavior
Signaling can explain seemingly wasteful behavior in nature
Similarly in social networks and SNS a lot of what may seem
wasteful is not necessarily so
Regularly updating one’s profile to communicate identity/fashion sense
and events/experience to one’s entire social network
Sharing funny videos, updates and ‘gifts’ from online social games such as
Farmville and others
‘Trivial’ updates on Twitter and other SNS about seemingly unimportant
things, such as food updates.
Extending one’s friends/followers, becoming fan of others online,
‘favoriting’ online content
Using/spreading memes and lingo that may be detrimental to broader
understanding but signal affiliation with a certain subculture
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9. Issues
Do existing SNS’s help signal reliability/strength of ties?
Focus on friend lists, not degree of interaction
Having many mutual ‘friends’ can be deceiving
Does online signaling have negative consequences?
Teens (and adults) have difficulty deciphering which signals are
appropriate in accordance to different community mores
Grooming can be desirable or annoying!
SNS’s do not make it easy to separate communication between
different social circles and private/public sphere
Is the supernet hypothesis defensible?
Critics maintain that empirical evidence suggests we still
communicate with small circle online
But CMC’s ability to spread information to extended network
felt in daily experience (e.g., unexpected comments from weak
ties on our updates)
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10. What can we then say of ‘friendship’?
Is the extensive use of the term diluting the meaning of friendship?
Do we need to conceptualize ‘friending’ behavior differently online?
Are SNS’s conducive to maintaining a complex web of ties of different
strengths or do they create more problems than they solve?
What can we learn from different approaches thus far?
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11. About friendship online and offline
Online ‘friending’ not necessarily equivalent to traditional
notion of friendship
Friendship always needs to be considered in the cultural and social context in
which it is examined
Online platforms create new contexts for friendship
But it is similar…
‘Friend’ is a signal, it has a “performative quality” (Boyd, 2006) and is also
used often offline for more than ‘real friendship’
It is also not always truthful (e.g., saving face)
Explicit articulation in SNS poses some unique challenges
People maintain hierarchies and circles of friends offline, may be
verbalized when social/situational context allows for it
Online management of such circles and hierarchies can be much more
challenging (friendship more often performed to others)
CMC properties complicating behavior: persistence, searchability,
replicability, invisible audiences
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12. Lessons from Friendster
The technological affordances of the platform often co-shape
the meaning of friendship in the communities that use it
see ‘gateway friends’ and ‘collectors’, i.e. often fake profiles of famous
personalities and authentic profiles of ‘hub users’ that would be used by other
users to make new connections
hubs, whether real people or purposely set up ‘fake’ profiles, add value by greatly
increasing reach in one step
Embracing unexpected user practices that add value to the
users may be smarter than reacting to them
myspace embraced such ‘fake’/non-person profiles and profited
Encouragement of collecting friends can lead to suspicion and
public perception of dilution of friendship
Some users start competing on friendship numbers while others shun such
practice as pretentious or label it as attention seeking
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13. Reasons for ‘friending’?
Want to be
Hmmm
friends?
… do I?
How often has this happened to you?
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14. Motivations for friending…
connect with actual friends
connect with acquaintances, colleagues, etc.
• Some common
avoid rejecting, save face, easier to say ‘yes’ behaviors emerge
(more important when reciprocity is required)
• Generally inconsistent
looking popular use of SNS across
building fan base/audience people
tracking conversations of interest • Complicates behavior
and interpretation
signaling affinity with certain types of people
expanding network to meet more people
more…?
Users do not necessarily want to reveal their true intentions or their
hierarchies of friends. Care must be taken to ensure that users understand the
consequences of revealing and can manage their social circles accordingly
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15. Thoughts on Design
SNS design can promote different friending
behaviors; what is desirable depends on context
and intentions of SNS
Where technological affordances do not meet user
needs, users will start using features in hitherto
unintended ways
Online platforms need to constantly evolve in
response to user needs and ideally also involve
users in decision-making How do you wish to
‘friend’ and communicate
Consider how to help users signal strength of ties, online and how do the
type of relationship and trust in person SNS’s you use
Help users fine-tune what they reveal to whom and accommodate your
address different social circles as appropriate preferred behavior?
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16. Credits and licensing
Front page photo by StuSeeger (license: CC BY)
Fans photo by wvs (license: CC BY-NC)
Faces photo by stollerdos (license: CC BY-NC)
Grooming birds photo by iansand (license: CC BY-NC)
Friends on swing photo by cake-face (license: CC BY-NC-ND)
Original content in this presentation is licensed under the Creative Commons
Singapore Attribution 3.0 license unless stated otherwise (see above)
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