This document discusses relational aggression, also known as covert or covert bullying, which is a type of aggression that harms relationships or social status. It notes that girls internalize meanness more than boys and relational aggression can have long lasting effects. Some types of relational aggression are social exclusion, spreading rumors, and using demeaning gestures. The effects on victims can include hurt feelings, low self-esteem, inability to focus, and isolation. Potential resolutions discussed include having students reflect on and create metaphors to describe incidents of meanness.