This white paper discusses the importance of perception in change management. It argues that perception is reality, and that a change manager's role is to shape individual and group perceptions of changes in a positive way. Specifically, it recommends that change managers: 1) Encourage individuals to replace broad, sweeping statements with specific complaints and concerns; 2) Introduce a common vocabulary or lexicon to promote shared understanding; and 3) Use scorecards to shift conversations from subjective perceptions to objective metrics and results. By managing how people express themselves, change managers can help shape more positive perceptions that facilitate change.